Sophia's red rider - harness and dildo set discontinued by Cal Exotics - review by meneley53

From my experience I think Sophia's red rider is a good product especially for beginners. The harness is made out of neoprene and nylon which is good because both of them are strong materials. I love that you can wear this harness naked and it doesn't scratch you or leave marks like some materials can. The buckles are strong and they hold in place. However tight you make it, it definitely stays there until you are done with your business.

It’s fully adjustable, I have a 38 inch waist and there is a lot of space left. The padded area where all of it is connected has a little pocket located by the clit area to put a little vibe in it. Which I haven't tried but I like the thought that it's there. I personally take the padded piece off because I like the feel of the closeness with my partner. There is an interchangeable ring which is awesome because you can use this harness with any dildo that is o-ring compatible. You can wash the harness with soap and water, I just wash it in the sink and let it air dry.

I'm not a fan of the dildo that it comes with because I like realistic looking ones. The lack of a penis already bothers me so having a bright red one doesn't help that matter. The dildo is made out of PVC. You can clean it using hot water and antibacterial soap. You can use water based and silicone based lubricants. I don't think it has a smell at all or a taste but everyone's senses are different. My partner says that she likes the way it feels and it hits her g-spot good. She says even using lube, when it starts to dry, there starts to be friction and it burns so be careful. I found out that using a condom every time helps.


The product looks exactly like the pictures. The colors together make an attractive piece I thought this was worth mentioning. I’ve read some comments about this product and would it be good for anal sex. I'm not a fan of it but I think it would be great for anal sex because the head is small and gradually gets bigger. The dildo is lightweight and is smooth which I like because I think the ones with the veins hurt sometimes. I’ve bought some really expensive harnesses and I think this one is just as good and a quarter of the price.