Good for prostate stimulation

Fun to carry but not so much to use. Decent for prostate play, but disappointing for vaginal use. Handle pretty useless. Great material, though.
It is fun to look at and twirl around in your hand when not using it sexually. Decent prostate toy.
Handle difficult to hold on to while in use, not very good for vaginal.
Rating by reviewer:
extremely useful review


I found that the Handler is an okay vaginal toy, but much better for prostate stimulation on my partner. I should clarify that I prefer dildos over vibrators and also prefer something a little girthier than this one. The length was fine for me and I did like the smooth tip. This toy holds its shape well with enough flex to keep it from being too stiff, however, I thought the bumps were distracting and did not add to my experience, but when used on my partner, he found the bumps to be very stimulating and pronounced - he is fairly new to anal play, so keep that in mind.
  • Who / How / What
    [ ? ]
    Who might this product be best for? How is it best used? What are the best circumstances or situations for using this product?
    • Couples
    • Everyone
    • Solo
  • Where
    [ ? ]
    Where / what types of places can this product be used?
    • Anywhere
  • Body / part areas
    [ ? ]
    What areas on the body can this product be used / what areas does it stimulate best?
    • Anal
    • P-spot

Material / Texture

It is a smaller to medium sized toy with a bumpy shaft and small rounded handle dangling off the end of it. The handle is very flexible and protrudes off of the flared base of the toy; handle is very flexible. There is no smell or taste to the silicone. The silicone has a nice velvety feel to it, but it isn't skin-like. Fairly firm, but a little bit of flexibility.
    • Bumpy
    • No odor
    • Not porous at all

Design / Shape / Size

As a vaginal toy, I found it a bit lacking. I am by no means a size queen and this toy felt on the smaller side to me. The handle doesn't really add to this toy, as it is very difficult to grip once you have any body fluids or lube on it.
    • Partner play


The handle was pretty lacking and hard to hold on to. I found myself flicking it more than anything. Which did add an interesting sensation to the toy when it was inserted, but it wasn't exactly mind blowing. I was not able to achieve an orgasm using it on myself.

I found the bumps to be distracting and the girth a little too small, but it is fun to fling around while walking through the house.

Care and Maintenance

Very easy to care for. Clean with soap and water, vinegar wash, top rack in the dishwasher, or toy cleaner. Always store your toys in individual bags and out of sunlight. Use with water based lube.
This product was provided free of charge to the reviewer. This review is in compliance with the FTC guidelines.

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  • Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears
    Very descriptive review. Thanks
  • Contributor: TinyTease
    Thanks for the nice words! I try to be as descriptive as I can.
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