Secret Friend

I was really excited about this toy for providing a second thrusting element while having sex with my girlfriend, and it delivered. The fact that it is also useful for solo play as well only adds to the fact this toy delivers on what I was expecting, and it's like having a secret partner to gang up on my girlfriend with.
Good size
Handle is a little too bendy
Rating by reviewer:
extremely useful review


This toy can be used for solo play, be it vaginal, anal, or oral. The dildo is firm enough to be used for prostate play but has enough give to be forgiving when inserted. Additionally, if using vaginally, it would have more effect when used in a thrusting manner to reduce the chance of internal bruising. It likely could be used to target your g-spot similar to targeting the male p-spot.

We have used it for couple's play, and my girlfriend really enjoyed riding me while I thrust the toy in her anally. In addition to making everything tighter for me, it actually directed my penis closer to her pelvis, and she really enjoyed my thrusting sensations while I was in her. I'm guessing that it had me hitter her g-spot more directly than normal. But it was like having a third party penetrating her without having to get a third person in the bedroom, so hence the name "secret friend."

The toy is not massive but is large enough that even advanced users would benefit from this toy for anal play; however, it's small enough that it's not super intimidating. Additionally, it's 100% silicone, so it's extremely safe to use for anal play and assuming you properly clean/sterilize it between uses it can be used for a variety of play safely and shared.
  • Who / How / What
    [ ? ]
    Who might this product be best for? How is it best used? What are the best circumstances or situations for using this product?
    • Couples
    • Everyone
    • Solo
  • Body / part areas
    [ ? ]
    What areas on the body can this product be used / what areas does it stimulate best?
    • Anal
    • G-spot
    • P-spot

Material / Texture

The toy is made of 100% body safe silicone, which is my favorite sex toy material. It is capable of being sterilized + can be firm but usually has enough give to be more stimulating when used in a thrusting manner such as in the case with this toy.

The toy has small round bumps on the shaft, which add a mild sensation as the toy is thrust in and out; however, they are flat, so they are pleasant. We got a toy to try almost a year ago that had small knob-like bumps, and they were almost painful during insertion and removal; however, with this toy the bumps enhance the experience and are pleasant.
    • Bumpy
    • No odor
    • Not porous at all

Design / Shape / Size

On the insertable part of the toy, the diameter is as claimed at 1.25" at the widest part of the bulb on the tip. The toy is 6" from the tip to the flare, so I would estimate that you can't insert the full 6" without going beyond the safety flare. That said I think the toy is more than enough to be enjoyable.

Size comparison

I used a Nuun hydration tube for size comparison as marginally the thickness is about the same for most of the toy.


The toy is capable of being bent with some effort as you can see above. This means that it will adjust its shape when inserted vs causing your internals to bend to it, which I always find preferable.

I like the design of the bumps, as they aren't unpleasant entering or exiting. So don't get in the way of the toy being used for thrusting in and out. The handle on the end makes for an easy place to grab to manipulate; however, it's a bit thin so doesn't have a lot of stiffness compared to the insertion/thicker end. This makes it hard to use the handle after the toy is inserted.

The toy is very obvious what it is so I would not recommend taking it when traveling somewhere.
    • Partner play


The toy was perfect for providing a second thrusting phallus for my girlfriend in the bedroom. The fact is that my own sensations were enhanced as well as my girlfriend's experience with my thrusts has been improved too, that was a huge plus.

I think the fact the handle makes initial insertion a bit difficult is the only cons I have with the performance/use of this toy.

Care and Maintenance

The toy is silicone so you should only use a water-based lube with it; However, this makes it really simple to sterilize/wash off... I used rubbing alcohol and the Eden Fantasy's toy cleaner to clean the toy without any issues.

It shouldn't be stored such that it touches any other silicone toys; However, it's pretty hard to damage and very easy to store.
    • Easy to clean
    • Easy to store
This product was provided free of charge to the reviewer. This review is in compliance with the FTC guidelines.

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  • Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears
    Excellent review. Guess it's no longer a secret.
  • Contributor: MrClark
    Guess not Thanks!!
  • Contributor: sXeVegan90
    Excellent review! I have a glass toy that looks like this without the handle. I imagine the silicone version is way more forgiving. Love the photos you took.
  • Contributor: MrClark
    Thanks, and yeah definitely more forgiving than glass would be. We have the Amethyst, which is our only glass toy... definitely have to be a bit more controlled to make sure not to cause internal bruising than with this silicone toy.
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