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The Secret Handler is a Fabulous Sex Toy in Disguise

This item is something you might normally scroll past but sometimes we find something that surprises us in a good way- The Secret Handler is that kind of toy for me. Give it a chance!
Easy to use
So smooth- love the material
Surprisingly awesome
The handle should be a bit firmer
Rating by reviewer:
extremely useful review


When The Secret Handler getting too much action, but I was really wrong! The toy is gripped by the handle and inserted (vaginally or anally) for solo or partner play. The toy would work for just about anyone, beginner to advance ( although it is a bit small- it still hits the spot).
  • Who / How / What
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    Who might this product be best for? How is it best used? What are the best circumstances or situations for using this product?
    • Couples
    • Everyone
    • Solo
  • Where
    [ ? ]
    Where / what types of places can this product be used?
    • Anywhere
    • Campus/roommate living
    • Tub/shower/pool
  • Features
    [ ? ]
    What kind of features does this product offer?
    • Travel friendly
  • Body / part areas
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    What areas on the body can this product be used / what areas does it stimulate best?
    • Anal
    • G-spot
    • Kegels

Material / Texture

I LOVE the material! A super soft hypo-allergenic silicone. This is the material that all the manufacturers make the men's toys from that I am always so jealous about. This is the first toy that I think feels the same if not better than all of the silky smooth products that my man plays with. The little nubs that stick up are not too hard but not too soft either- actually pretty perfect and quite deceiving. I didn't think they would matter much but they did :) Three was no odor at all when I opened the package- another big plus for this toy. The handle is a bit too flexible in my opinion, as you can see from the picture. It could use a little more firmness in that area.

Out of the bag.

The insertable end is appx 3 AA batteries long.
    • No odor
    • Not porous at all
    • Smooth

Design / Shape / Size

Originally, I thought it would be way to small for me to enjoy it- but I approached it with an open mind and I actually loved it! I had about 5 orgasms while using it the first time. I used it vaginally, both myself and my boyfriend took turns with the (spoiler alert) flimsy handle, but it got the job done, and well!

So, about the handle, it doesn't even hold the toy up straight ( as you can see in my picture). It doesn't
take too much away from the functionality, but it would be nice if it were a little more sturdy.

The handle bends easily
    • Beginner
    • Partner play


The toy is great for g-spot orgasms, I would imagine anal because it isn't too wide and also, rubbing the smooth little nubs on my clit felt incredible!
    • Easy to use
    • Lots of variety in function

Care and Maintenance

The toy is non porous & silicone, so very easy to clean. I store mine in a drawer - not an issue! This a a really travel friendly, non-electronic low maintenance toy.
    • Easy to clean
    • Easy to store


This just comes in a cleat plastic bag- no bells or whistles.
    • Minimal
    • Not discreet
Follow-up commentary
The Secret Handler has been getting its' fair share of use and I am happy to report that it is holding up perfectly! I am still really happy with it and I am still surprised that I enjoy it so much. It is one of my smaller toy without any bells or whistles, but it delivers fabulous orgasms every time I use it (alone or with my partner). I am so glad that I ventured out of my comfort zone and gave this toy a shot. I am very pleased!
This product was provided free of charge to the reviewer. This review is in compliance with the FTC guidelines.

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  • Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears
    Excellent review. Thank you.
  • Contributor: MrClark
    Great review!! Agree with you, the handle being so flexible is a bit problematic.
  • Contributor: Nyja1222
    Thank you!
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