First mate - realistic dildo with suction cup by Pleasure Works - review by jaydenriley

I want to begin by saying that I am transgender (ftm), so I try to always pick items that are "life like" and fit easily in a harness. Being budget friendly is also really important, as my partner and I don't have the money to purchase "custom" prosthetics. From the beginning, I loved the variety of colors that were offered. Most products have only one color, so it's nice to see an expansion for this product without an additional charge. I ended up going with the lightest color, which actually matched the color they have shown on the website! I found the product to be manufactured well, and it seemed like a pretty durable product.

I bought this toy so my partner and I could have sex, with me feeling validated as a male (in that it matched my skin color and looked real). From the moment I put it on, I felt comfortable and happy. The product itself is expertly made, and looks SO realistic. It was also a huge hit in the bedroom. We used condoms, and it took a bit of getting used to, as the girth was a little wider than other toys we have used, but with some lube it was perfect! We used it for both anal and vaginal intercourse (separate occasions!) and I have also personally used the product for self stimulation.

My partner stated that it felt "like the real thing", which most of my previous purchases haven't. It's nice when my partner can validate my feelings and genuinely state that it feels real.

I found that the product didn't have a strange smell like some other products, and after some oral intercourse, my partner also said that it didn't have a nasty taste.

Overall, I would certainly recommend this product not only to the transgender community, but to anyone wanting a durable and fun product.

The product was a little wide in girth, so after we had a condom on it, we used some lube. The lubrication made the product work perfectly!