Realistic dildo with flared base by

My girlfriend's favorite toy

This was the first toy that my girlfriend and I both whole-heartedly agreed on, and could both use to fulfill one of our shared desires. There is really nothing quite like *really* having sex with your girlfriend for the first time, especially when the feeling of the tool is just as good as the excitement. This toy quickly became a staple in our playtime.
Large size, full feeling
harness compatible
strong suction
non-painful veins
Hard to keep clean
May be too large for beginner
not really for use by-hand
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This toy can be used solo and with a partner. The best way to use it solo is to utilize the suction cup base, attach it to a hard surface that you can get to easily, and start slow. Using this toy to masturbate by hand, without attaching it to something first, can take a little bit of maneuvering.

You can use this dildo anally since it has a flared base. However, this dildo might not work for some people because of the size. My girlfriend and I use this with straps, as it is strap-on compatible.
  • Who / How / What
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    Who might this product be best for? How is it best used? What are the best circumstances or situations for using this product?
    • Couples
    • Gender play
    • Solo
  • Where
    [ ? ]
    Where / what types of places can this product be used?
    • Bedroom
    • Home
    • Tub/shower/pool
  • Features
    [ ? ]
    What kind of features does this product offer?
    • Realistic feel
    • Strong suction
    • Substantial size
  • Body / part areas
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    What areas on the body can this product be used / what areas does it stimulate best?
    • Anal
    • Oral
    • Vaginal

Material / Texture

This toy had a little bit of a "new toy smell" when first opened, but after the first wash it was pretty much gone. The silicone is pretty realistic feeling, and is fairly soft to the touch. The only problem we have with this toy is you practically want to keep it in a ziploc bag because EVERYTHING sticks to it, dust, your hair, my hair, cat hair, lint, everything. Highly recommend thorough cleaning before and after, and probably a condom, even if this is only for self-use.

The veins on this toy are nice, they're pronounced enough to give a neat sensation when in use, but not so large that they cause any discomfort. I am sensitive to very ribbed or veined toys, and get sore easily, but this one doesn't seem to agitate anything so far, even with heavy use.
    • Harness compatible
    • No odor
    • Veined

Design / Shape / Size

The design is great for couples play, and I love that it's both suction or harness compatible. The veins are not so pronounced as to cause pain, even though I am sensitive to ribs and/or veins in most toys. It is pretty large, which makes it great for the bedroom, but not so great for discreet use or travel. The black color is not realistic to any human I've ever met, but as far as shape and overall look is concerned, I would say that it does resemble a VERY well endowed man.

The only drawback with the design is it is not designed for by-hand self use. You either need to attach it to your partner or a hard surface to really get the most out of this toy.
    • Filling
    • Partner play
    • Realistic


My girlfriend and I bought this to play with for Christmas (both females) and it was quickly one of our favorite items. We chose the black finish, and have taken turns using it. We have used it with a harness. The suction is pretty strong on flat surfaces, as well.

This toy is rather large, so the first time using it either vaginally or anally I would suggest using lube and taking it slow until you know you/your partner is able to accommodate it. The texture is very nice and feels pretty real, and there's only a small amount of "new toy smell" that left after the first wash.

I also use this for solo play, but this only really works if you suction it to something. Trying to use this for yourself by hand takes a little bit of maneuvering. The bottom is flared, so it can be used anally, but once again, due to size I would highly recommend lube and a slow pace to start with.

The toy performed (performs) well for both of us, with only very minor drawbacks, and we each use it regularly. It is pretty straightforward and easy to use, it doesn't require any batteries or assembly or directions other than common sense and a slow start to get used to it.
    • Easy to use
    • Not discreet at all

Care and Maintenance

This toy gets dirty so easily. It gets dirty sitting in my dresser drawer. It gets dirty on the walk back from the kitchen sink to the bed. I don't know what it is about this material that seems to just suck dust and hair and lint to it, but honestly this is probably the most annoying thing about the toy.

Wash it, wash it, and wash it again. Cleaning wipes are ineffective against hairs, really the only way to do it is running water, then toy disinfectant. You may even just want to use a condom on it every time, even if it's just for self-use.
    • Difficult to store
    • Hard to clean
    • High maintenance
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  • Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears
    Very good review on the Silicone dil.
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