Basically, this harness was a good idea: dual pleasure for you and your lover. Who wouldn't love easy pleasure? It's easy to use with a simple controller for the bullet inserted into the harness for the wearer, and a veined dildo that can be switched out for another if desired. The harness itself is easy to figure out, Velcro on the left side that holds tight, and the harness stretches a good deal.

The whole harness is made of a strong, rubbery smelling latex, and the dildo is rubber. The bullet is encased inside the latex of the harness, and the remote for the bullet takes 2 AA batteries (not included). Even after washing, the smell of the latex harness was very strong, smelling like a box of rubber bands (which I guess, technically, it is in a way). I would not recommend using this toy in the shower or anything because latex grabs the skin, and being wet, well, I got a bit of "rubber burn" from some of the friction.

The harness itself was pretty strong. It stretched well, and after usage, I inspected it, and there were no tears in it. The hole for the dildo to go in is reinforced as well. The bullet was also pretty good, but not as strong as I'd like it. The dildo had started out with a nice, soft, cushy pad so that it wouldn't stick to the wearer, however, when I unwrapped it from its plastic covering fresh out of the box, the pad started to separate from the dildo. After washing it, the pad came totally off. This set the tone for the overall experience of this toy.

I'm a "hippy" gal, being a size 14. The picture of the harness on the site is a bit deceiving, since it looks to be loose-fitting on the mannequin. This harness stretches, and I was able to wear it, but it was too tight, unflattering, and a bit uncomfortable. This would be a good fit for someone that has less hip action going on, and a flat belly, if they can get it to work for them.

Even though the hole you put the dildo in was reinforced, we both could tell I had little control over the dildo during our playtime. It bent and wiggled all over the place, making it hard to get into a good rhythm. Though the dildo felt good, with all the veins protruding, giving him some added stimulation, and it was "squishy" enough to bend and give in the areas that needed it, the bullet wasn't as strong as I like it, and it was hard to find a good spot for the bullet while still trying to have some control over the thrusting of the dildo. Admittedly, I do prefer a more direct clit stimulation with my bullets, so that could explain why I had some difficulty with the bullet.

Because the bullet's encased inside the harness, washing is very easy. I use antibacterial soap on all of my toys, and this one's no different. Since it's porous, you want to be sure to get it very clean, then hang dry. Store it in a bag, or in its original box so it won't come in contact with other toys. Be forewarned that the smell of the latex doesn't seem to weaken after washing. Also, the controller to the bullet is not waterproof.

The packaging was pretty small, and each item was wrapped separately, and very well. The box that told of what materials the items were was very helpful. The picture of the woman with the harness with the dildo on was very hot and exciting to me.

Blah.......we were very disappointed in this set. There was no control of the dildo, the vibe wasn't very strong, and there should be mention of the size it will comfortably fit.