Pack 'n play No.1 - realistic dildo by Tantus - review by FrustratedFemme

Pack 'n play No.1

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Yay for Playing, Nay for Packing

If you're looking for a realistic dildo with a soft, smooth feel, then you've found what you're looking for. This toy is made from a safe material, works with harnesses, and feels fantastic! On the other hand, if you're looking for a packer, you may want to keep looking. Unless you're hoping to look like you're walking around with an erection all day, this isn't ideal as a packer.
Realistic look & feel
Works with a harness
Safe and soft material
Not a practical choice for packing
Rating by reviewer:
useful review


The Pack 'n Play No. 1 was designed to be a dildo with two purposes. It is intended to be used as a packer, and to be ready for penetration when the time is right. It looks very realistic, and the soft silicone texture feels fantastic. However, people using it primarily as a packer might be disappointed, as it isn't very functional in that regard. Basically, if you try to pack with this dildo, you will look like you're walking around with an erection all day.

This dildo could be used for solo play, or with a partner. It is compatible with most harnesses, so it works well for strap on sex, and it can safely be used anally as well, since it has a flared base. Since the toy has a realistic look and feel, it's great for those who are interested in gender play, too!
  • Who / How / What
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    Who might this product be best for? How is it best used? What are the best circumstances or situations for using this product?
    • Couples
    • Gender play
  • Where
    [ ? ]
    Where / what types of places can this product be used?
    • Anywhere

Material / Texture

The Pack & Play No. 1 is made of high quality silicone, and I have to say, I'm in love. It's soft, smooth, and plushy when you squeeze it. In addition, it's an extremely flexible, bendy toy, which adds to the realism of the experience.


textured veins

It feels very much like a penis, and even has some veins along the shaft. The veins add some stimulation, but not a ton. If you're someone who needs your toys to be very ribbed or otherwise textured, you may want to look elsewhere. However, I think that the texture is great for most people, beginners and advanced users alike.
    • Flexible
    • Harness compatible
    • Smooth

Design / Shape / Size

As a packer, this design doesn't work. Although you can pack with it, you will look like you're walking around with an erection. Unless that's the look you're going for, I don't recommend it for packing. The size is slightly above average, but shouldn't be an issue for most people. Size queens might want something larger, and a beginner might need to use more lube than usual or perhaps work their way up to this toy. For the average user, it's a good fit.


The toy is mostly straight, with a large head. The head also has a tiny dip on it, as shown in the picture below, which adds even more of a realistic detail to the toy. I've found that sometimes, the head is a bit difficult to get in if someone feels tight on a particular day. That issue is solved by using more lube. Remember to only use water-based lube with this toy, since it is made of silicone. It looks incredibly realistic, which is both a gift and a curse. On one hand, if you're someone who's into gender play, that's fantastic. On the other hand, if you're going to travel and you're even the least bit shy, it might be best to leave this at home.

    • Realistic


It fits well in a harness, and it feels great for penetration. The only problem is that it doesn't work as a functional packer. Even though you could comfortably pack with it for a long time, as I've said before, it looks like a giant trouser snake. So, unless you're planning on walking into the room and announcing, "Hey, everybody, look at my dick!", you may want to look for a more discreet packer. Having said that, the fact that this doesn't work as a packer doesn't affect my opinion of the toy, because it works very well for playing. So, if you're looking for a realistic dildo to use in a harness, this is definitely the toy for you. If you're looking for an everyday packer, look elsewhere.
    • Comfortable
    • Not discreet at all

Care and Maintenance

This toy collects lint fairly easily, but it's still easy to care for. Just clean it with water and anti-bacterial soap, or perhaps a toy cleaner. If you're planning to share this toy, or otherwise have a reason why you'd want it to be fully disinfected, you can boil it for several minutes. Since it's made of silicone, make sure you only use water-based lubricants with this toy.

Make sure you don't store this toy right next to another silicone toy, as it might ruin the material. Aside from that guideline, it's easy to store. It could be stored in the box the toy comes in, inside of a plastic bag, or simply placed in your dresser drawer.
    • Easy to clean
    • Easy to store
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  • Wicked Wahine
    Thanks for the review & the photos! Do you have any other dildos from Tantus? I was wondering if you could at all compare the softness of this one's silicone to any other Tantus dildo, (or even a VixSkin dildo).
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