The shape of the Tor is supposed to hit my clitoris, but it just doesn't. I was on top and tried to align the Tor with my clit, but had great difficulty doing so. I knew the Tor was also quite tight on my partner's cock, so I was worried that it might be hurting him all the while. Sure didn't make for relaxed, enjoyable sex. I never came close to having an orgasm from the vibrations of the Tor, and he didn't seem to be enjoying it much either. The wide, flat surface of the Tor that was supposed to get me off just didn't vibrate nearly enough to do the job, and the flat surface wasn't very appealing.
When we gave up on the Tor being the wonderful, top of the line vibrating cock ring we were expecting, my partner had two red lines on his penis from where the Tor was clamping down. He seemed to wince a bit as I tried to stretch the Tor out and remove it without hurting him. There is no way we would ever use this again. Sex without vibrations, clamped penises and hard, flat surfaces is so much better!