Romance enhancing fluttering - cock ring by Evolved Novelties - review by Shhhitsasecret

Made Me Flutter, But the Hubs Said "Whatever..."

I thoroughly enjoyed it but my husband was just pacifying me till he eventually took it off. We did end up finding a way to use it so that it wasn't a total flop for him but this toy is for the ladies. So it may be limited when we let the butterfly out to play, but its flutter does enhance the romance!
Easy to clean, Design, Works well on the lady, Small and easily hidden, Comfortable
Attracts lint/dust/hair, Didn't do anything for him
Rating by reviewer:
useful review


Different from most rings, this butterfly can be used in many different ways. You can put it on your partner as intended or have your favorite massager wear it to spice it up a little. For the most part it tends to make the ladies happy but this toy has a few tricks for the guys as well, depending on how this is worn.

This butterfly has a vibrating head (bullet case) with thicker material that acts like a mini-tongue. When the bullet case is at the top, this 'mini-tongue' bumps and grinds just right on the clitoris. The tickler tail teases the anus while the wings flutter in excitement. However, if you spin this toy upside down the bullet gives your partner's 'boys' attention. The tickler moves up top and this works well for entry from the back side positions.

We found another use for it as well. Without even putting it on, the 'mini-tongue' can be used to massage your partners head. With a little enhanced lube, this can be a nice warm up. And, since this butterfly can take on water, you can just imagine where it may fly.
  • Who / How / What
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    Who might this product be best for? How is it best used? What are the best circumstances or situations for using this product?
    • Can be worn during intercourse
  • Where
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    Where / what types of places can this product be used?
    • Tub/shower/pool
    • Anywhere
  • Features
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    What kind of features does this product offer?
    • Travel friendly
    • Waterproof
  • Body / part areas
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    What areas on the body can this product be used / what areas does it stimulate best?
    • Mutual stimulation
    • Clitoris

Material / Texture

It was pretty much what I expected when I looked at the pictures. As far as the texture goes, it reminds me of those hands you get out of the bubble machines that you splat against the windows but without the stickiness. It is extremely stretchy and soft.

The material is TPR and is latex free, phthalates free and hypo-allergenic. It doesn't smell and has no taste. It is very smooth and kind of fun to play with. It doesn't appear to have any seams and the material itself seems strong enough, provided it isn't played with too hard. I have a feeling if it were to be pulled too much, some of the thinner parts would split or break off.

Take caution! TPR is porous so it should NEVER be used for both anal and vaginal play. This can result in infections, STDs or worse. To be safe use a condom with this toy.
    • No odor
    • Somewhat porous
    • Stretchy

Shape / Design / Size / Fit

This is a little silly for the guy I suppose because it is a purple butterfly. But it didn't bother my husband any. I like the design and shape of it. It was very easy to put on and take off. It wasn't uncomfortable for him and didn't pull or pinch. I definitely think this is a fit-all-kind of toy because of how stretchy it is. But on the larger guys I don't know how long it would be before it starts to feel like its docking the dude.

The bullet encasement reaches perfectly to give the clitoris just enough stimulation, but the tickler and wings really have no point. They aren't felt at all.

Also, it is not meant to be a toy that needs to be adjusted but it is needed every once in a while to keep in place. The fluttering makes the butterfly confused and turns side-to-side sometimes. This can be a tad frustrating but not too much of an annoyance for us.
    • Beginner
    • Only fits on penis shaft
    • Will fit most men

Functions / Performance / Controls

In the description it says the bullet has "true multi-speed", but I only found that this bullet had one vibration. It is turned on by a push button on the back of the bullet. You push the button again to turn it off.

It is a nice deep humming and can be used with discretion if you need the privacy. It could be detected if someone is in the same room. I would compare it with a cellphone set on vibrate only but I know some phones are loud with that too. So 2 out of 5 bees for me with volume.

The vibration travels through the toy and makes the wings and tail flutter. This really can't be felt though. This toy can be quite slippery with lube. If you do use lube, make sure it is water or silicone based. This bullet takes 3 watch batteries and yes they are included!
    • Comfortable during use
    • Easy to use

Care and Maintenance

This toy is very easily cared for as far as washing. It should always be kept in a clean container and washed before and after use. The annoying thing about taking care of this is that it can collect lint/dust/hair so easily. Warm soapy water with maybe some toy cleaner will keep it clean. I just use warm soapy water and, since its waterproof, that makes it all that much more easier.

It can be stored in the package it came in. It is convenient because it is clear plastic that is formed right to the butterfly. This is how I store mine. But any non-fabric storage should work just fine. I don't recommend storing it in anything can transfer lint and hair since this toy is a magnet for it. It didn't have instructions with it and it would have been nice to see different suggestions in how you could use it. But that's half the fun in finding that out right?
    • Easy to clean
    • Easy to store


The package was clear, fitted plastic and I actually use it to store it in. It didn't have instructions with it and it would have been nice to see different suggestions in how you could use it. But that's half the fun in finding that out right?
    • Good for storage
    • Not discreet
Follow-up commentary
It is becoming quite a pain with the constant adjusting that needs to be done to keep the butterfly in place. If you can keep it in place, it is nice, but it's a mood killer to keep moving it back.
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    Others won't realize just how hard I worked you on this review! Good job!
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    Very nice review, thanks!
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    Great review. Thank you. It's too bad this toy didn't do much for him and was a bit of a mood killer.
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    i dont like the shape
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