The elusive orgasm - erotic book by Da Cap Press - review by Sunny Meadows

The elusive orgasm

Book by Da Cap Press

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Where Did It Go? Bring Back The Big O!

If you have never had an orgasm, sometimes have them, use to have them and want to know why you don't now. Get this book! She don't make you feel as if your to blame but that you just forgot to put yourself first. What I found is that if you read the whole thing every part fits you in some way or not at all. Go Get It Now!
Eye opener. Helpful. Covers so many issues. Insightful.
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About author

Written by Vivienne Cass PhD. Published by Da Capo Press. She is a clinical psychologist and sex therapist.

I have never read any of her other books. I do like this one. When reading her book it is like she is have a conversation with you or with a group of women. She makes if feel as if she is right there talking with you and your friends, or partner.

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    • Expert author
    • Very personal approach

Content / Style / Audience

This book goes over so many reasons why women may not be able to reach an orgasm all the time if at all. The wrighting style is great. She writes as if she is having a conversation with you. I think anyone who is having sexual difficulty can really relate to this. She covers so much from issues in your past to present. She helps identify issues you may not be aware of.
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    Who might this product be best for? How is it best used? What are the best circumstances or situations for using this product?
    • Alone
    • Couples
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    Where / what types of places can this product be used?
    • Anywhere
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    • Good mix of styles and content
    • Instructional / educational
    • Text book style


The book is put together in a way were you identify the problems. Then work on the reasons. There are quizzes to help you along the way. Then she gives you ways to work through your issue in hopes to an end.

It is made of good paper. No run in the ink, no tearing of the paper. The binding is well made. There cover is white with the title in colorful lettering. It is somewhat discreet. If someone gets close enough to read the title then they would know what you are reading.

Travel friendly.
    • Diagrams / photos included
    • Soft cover
    • Well made

Personal comments

This book it makes you take a good look at yourself, lifestyle etc. You really look at every little thing in your life to see what is going on. Even if you’re not having a whole lot of problems with having an orgasm you may want to use this book just to work through any issues you’re having. It really has opened my eyes to a lot going on in my life and in my own head


First off I didn't know how this would work because I thought my problems all came from my health issues. When I got this book I started to read. I found out so much about how we women let everything bother us. This interferes with us having an orgasm. Everything from; stress, health, pleasing others, and the way where brought up. There are quizzes and I took them all. I even wrote in the margins. You need to plan on putting in the work to find out your curtain condition. See I found out that even though I have a nerve disorder I can still have and orgasm by myself and sometimes with my partner. It is my brain blocking most of it. Does this promise to give me the big "O" each and every time, NO.? What she is willing to help with is for me to knock down those walls I put up so that I can myself have a more sexual experience. I can have the big "O" more often. So I am putting in the work. I am working through the personal challenge and the partner challenge. I want to make sure I cover all my bases.

Over the next few weeks I will be working on this. I hope to put my results in the second review.
    • Aone
    • Couples
Follow-up commentary
I got this book and really put it through the ringer. I did what the book asked and worked on so much. I have found that it does work if you are willing to put the work in. I am finding my orgasm much easier.
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  • Sunny Meadows
    If anyone has any questions about this book please ask. This book has really opened things up for me. I want to answer any questions so please ask them
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