I can't figure out what this toy is used for. I am very disappointed because I really wanted to have a little naughty fun.
It is made well with no flaws.
The chain between the cuffs is too long.
Rating by reviewer:
useful review
I reviewed the spreader bar hoping it would bring some real exciting fun. I still can't figure out how to use this thing. I am very disappointed, because it is just not what I expected. My boyfriend and I tried using it, but we just are totally clueless to what the big deal of this spreader bar is.

We tried on my thighs and it really wasn't the fantasy we wanted. We also tried on my ankles and there was just no fun there either. We also tried behind my head and there wasn't much fun there either. He did get to tickle me though, and I couldn't do much about that. But the big idea behind this bar is, well, I'm not too sure?

So, this bar is metal and we tried to tighten the wrist chain where the straps go, but we were unable to because it would have broken. I'm still trying to come up with a method of to how to get naughty with this toy. For once, I am completely clueless. But I do have one suggestion to the manufacturer, please come up with a how to use this toy handbook, because it is no fun.

The straps are velcro, which is pretty tough; that was an added bonus. I put this spreader bar on my boyfriend and he liked the fact that it was on his hands so I could have my way with him. That is probably the most fun I have ever had with this spreader bar. To me, I thought it would be exciting to try in my relationship. Hey a little freak in your love life is always an added bonus. But I wouldn't recommend using this product unless you really know what you are going to do with this spreader bar. So please, if anyone has tried this spreader bar let me know of how you have used it.
This product was provided at a discounted price in exchange for an unbiased review. This review is in compliance with the FTC guidelines.

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  • Who / How / What
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    Who might this product be best for? How is it best used? What are the best circumstances or situations for using this product?
    • Bachelor/ bachelorette party
    • Can be worn during intercourse
    • Gender play
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    Where / what types of places can this product be used?
    • Bath / shower
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    What areas on the body can this product be used / what areas does it stimulate best?
    • All over body
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  • Contributor: K101
    Aw! How terribly disappointing. I'm curious though, because I have been planning to buy this: why exactly did it disappoint? Because it wasn't as thrilling as you expected to be spread/tied up? I'm just curious because if that is the case, then it's probably just that you aren't really thrilled with the BDSM aspect like most. I am pretty thrilled about being tied up. Lol. So this may still work out for me, but I am sad you didn't get any enjoyment.

    Question number two: you said the chain was too long. That is bad! I'm short and narrow, so I'm thinking if it's too long even when adjusted at the tightest setting, it won't actually hold you in a spread position? Is this what happened? If so, perhaps I should skip this. How long is the chain?
  • Contributor: skeeterlynn
    Thanks for the review!
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    Thanks for the review!
  • Contributor: shentel
    The point is i wanted to be tied up but the chain is too long making it so u cant be so naughty,its too long.there is no enjoyment because the chain isnt short
  • Contributor: rockblenny
    Thanks for the review.
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    thanks for the review!
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  • Contributor: shonata
    my boy friend and I really enjoyed this ,it's all about imagination and hands on training . if you take your time you could do anything
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