Body & soul connection - sex toy by Cal Exotics - review by mpfm

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Not a Great Connection

If you want moderate buzzy vibrations on your clit, this might be the vibrator for you. It's cute, offers a variety of settings, and easy to use. I found it nice for some teasing foreplay, but not great for a climatic finish.
Easy to hold
Variety of Settings
Moderate Buzzy Vibrations
Not waterproof
Rating by reviewer:
extremely useful review


Soul and Body Connection is a clitoral vibrator from California Exotics. It features two pronged ends similar to the ever popular bunny ears to stimulate the clitoris. It offers moderate buzzy vibrations with a nice variety of settings. It can be used solo or with a partner. It could be used for some positions during intercourse although it was too bulky for face to face positions for us.

The ears aren't long enough to be used vaginally or anally. They could be used to tease the vulva or outside the butt. And of course it can be used to tease any part of the male or female body (ie nipples, back, neck, penis, balls, etc.)

Anyone who enjoys buzzy vibrations may like this. Skip it if you prefer deep rumbly vibes.
    • Couples
    • Solo

Material / Texture

Body and Soul is composed of two materials- silicone and ABS plastic. Silicone rates a 10/10 on Eden's safety scale. It is nonporous, phthalate free, and can be sterilized. ABS plastic is an 8/10 on the scale. It is nonporous and phthalate free and is easily cleaned. The top portion of the toy including the ears is silicone. The base is plastic. I feel safe with both of these materials.

The silicone is smooth. There is no bumps or ridges giving it any texture. They are flexible and can be moved easily. It glides fairly easy on skin. I did not need any lube for this. If lube is preferred, make sure to use water based silicone lube. It does not have any discernible odor.

Design / Shape / Size

The vibrator is small and fits nicely in my hand. The bottom portion is oval shaped with a small flat section on the back. The flat part makes it a bit easier to grip. It doesn't slide easily out of hands. Although it is small, I did wish it was just a tad smaller. It was comfortable in my hands, but it would have been better just a little bit smaller. The vibrations do not carry all the way down to the base. That is good because it means hands don't go numb while holding it. It is always easy to hold no matter how long it has been running.

The ears are at the top. They are just over an inch long and about 3/4 inch wide. They rise up from the toy and then curl in towards each other.

The entire thing is a pretty fuchsia color. The silicone and plastic are different shades. Together they form a pleasing contrast to each other.

Here is a size comparison pic with some other bullets and clit vibes. They are L'Amour bullet, L'Amour petal, Body & Soul, Mimi, and Life.

Functions / Performance / Controls

The toy is controlled by a single button on the front of the base. Push once to turn it on and then push repeatedly to get to your desired setting. To turn it off, hold down for 5 seconds. There are 10 variations.
1. Low Steady
2. Medium Steady
3. High Steady
4. Medium Pulses
5. 2 Medium pulses followed by 1 long
6. Long pulses
7. 3 Medium, 1 long, and 1 medium pulse
8. Low to High Escalation
9. 3 medium/1 long (Repeats twice) then 3 medium pulses
10. Medium pulses followed by escalation

The vibrations are moderate in strength and buzzy. There is not even a hint of rumbling here. It's all buzz. I like small amounts of buzz, but this was too much to really enjoy. Along with the buzzy vibrations is a high frequency buzz. This is loud in the room, and a high pitched whine can be heard behind closed doors.

When the battery begins to run down, the pulsating settings will not work anymore. The steady ones will work for a bit longer. If you want the pulsating settings you must keep fresh batteries in it.

It runs on 2 AAA batteries. The plastic part comes apart revealing the battery compartment. It does have an O ring and the box claims it is waterproof. However, it did not pass the shower test. After using it in the shower there was water in the battery compartment. This is not waterproof or even splash proof. Do not use in water.
    • Buzzy
    • Lots of variety in function

Care and Maintenance

Body and Soul can be cleaned with antibacterial soap and water, a toy cleaner, or a 10% bleach solution. Since it is not waterproof, be careful to not get water in the battery compartment. Usually silicone attracts a lot of lint, but this doesn't seem to be the case here.

It arrived in a box with instructions inside. The box isn't suitable for long term storage, but could be used for a while. The toy could be kept in a drawer or wherever you keep your sex toys. It may not be easily identified as a sex toy to a casual observer, but the ears might give it away. I won't be leaving mine laying out in the open.


I have been looking for a battery operated clitoral vibrator and was hoping this might be it. Sadly it didn't connect my soul and body. It just had a bad buzzy connection. It wasn't terrible though. It was nice as a tease on the lowest setting. For short amounts of time it was pleasant. It isn't something I'd grab often.

My husband tends to like buzzier vibes more than me. I thought he might enjoy it. But his reaction was less than enthusiastic. For both of us,it's just meh.
Follow-up commentary
I was never thrilled with this. It was just too buzzy for me. Sometimes I like buzz but this was not a good frequency for me. It was very seldom used and I finally got rid of it.
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  • PeaceToTheMiddleEast
    Just got done reading another one of these the person was not satisfied. I think it is funky looking. Thanks for sharing!
  • unfulfilled
    When we were telling each other we got a body and soul massager I never dreamed we got the same one for assignment. I didn't like mine at all.
  • mpfm
    Unfulfilled- I know I was very surprised when I saw your review up this morning. I didn't read your review until mine was complete, but I knew you wouldn't like it. It's just too buzzy.

    JustLikeHeaven-It is kind of funky looking. I actually think it's visually pleasing. It just doesn't suit my needs.
  • ToyGeek
    Buzzy, bah. Will avoid, thanks!
  • sweetiejo
    I was excited for this one it looks like it would be alot of fun, this stinks that it was all buzz.
  • Stinkytofu10
    Great review, thank you for the size comparison.
  • Rossie
    Thank you for the detailed review. Sorry that the massager didn't work for you, good thing you didn't have to spend any points/money on it!
  • Missmarc
    Great review, thank you for the pictures.
  • Alan & Michele
    Bummer that it's so buzzy. It really looked promising.
  • Ms. Peaches
    Thanks for the review.
  • Beneath The Bed
    Thanks for the great review!
  • KrissyNovacaine
    Thanks for the review!
  • Kitka
    Great review, thanks for sharing that comparison photo!
  • padmeamidala
    Great review!
  • Sodom and Gomorrah
    Thanks for the review!
  • TheSinDoll
    I don't think anyone likes thins thing - great review though, Sweets!
  • Kissy
    Sorry it was just a meh. I am reviewing the sister to this toy and have found that everything you said is true for this guy too!
  • damnbul12
    Thank you for the review.
  • Gracie
    Nice review! So dissapointing! I want someone to make a toy like this that is strong and rumbly and WORKS GREAT! Thanks for the review though!
  • edeneve
    great review. yeah, I don't care for buzzy either.
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