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Do you enjoy all types of pain?

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Contributor: ShadowedSeductress ShadowedSeductress
I have found that while I enjoy physical pain intentionally inflicted by my partner or myself, I absolutely hate pain otherwise.

For instance, I got my nipples pierced a couple weeks ago and was so terrified about the potential pain! Then in the bedroom the sting of a crop or his hands around my neck truly turn me on.

I can't be the only one like this! So what about you?
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
I only enjoy pain intentionally inflicted by myself or my partner
BeepBop , twelve13 , solitudinarian , Adnerbmw , Geogeo , bronzelotus , bellaapple23 , Keeping Warm in Maine , smuttyqueer , pirata , Slutty Girl Problems , MornaStar
12  (35%)
I enjoy all pain, intentional or not
Ziva
1  (3%)
Other (please explain)
PropertyOfPotter , spunkmonkey , Rossie , lilacviolet , Gunsmoke , Zombirella , Sir , GirlOnGirl , PassionateLover2 , Cosmonaut , tunacan75 , Jenyana , Isola , gwenevieve , Lioncub , AmethystQueen , Gdom , edeneve , thebest , sexilexi29 , flameworker
21  (62%)
Total votes: 34
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03/19/2013
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Contributor: PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
I enjoy self inflected pain, but also enjoy pain in the sense that you're talking about. I love getting pierced and tattooed, but there is always that element of nervousness involved when it's a new area especially. My husband isn't really into the pain stuff with me, so he doesn't so much to me.
03/19/2013
Contributor: spunkmonkey spunkmonkey
I hate pain, all pain.
03/19/2013
Contributor: Rossie Rossie
I don't like taking any type of pain.
03/19/2013
Contributor: lilacviolet lilacviolet
I read somewhere that the reason might be because you're sexually aroused and the arousal makes you feel different about pain, maybe feel it less or something. As for me, no, pain doesn't turn me on. My boyfriend gifted me a spanker, I didn't even know what it was lol. I'm not sure I'd be using it any time soon. Just don't really find the appeal of spanking.

When I was younger, I used to use pain to relieve my depression. I did enjoy pain that time though but I don't inflict pain on myself anymore.
03/20/2013
Contributor: solitudinarian solitudinarian
I do sometimes enjoy unintentional pain, but only minor injuries and even then only rarely.
03/20/2013
Contributor: Zombirella Zombirella
I don't enjoy any type of pain. I'm a big wuss when it comes to pain. I can suck it up and not cry about it but I am on the inside, lol. I'd never do anything just to feel the pain. I have tattoos but that was done for the art, not enjoyment- and I cried, yelled, and cursed most of the time with the one on my back, the other two weren't as bad. I'd like to get another but not sure where to put it and the detail and color is so much, I don't think I could sit through it.
03/20/2013
Contributor: Sir Sir
I'm a sadist. It brings me pleasure to inflict, not receive.
03/23/2013
Contributor: GirlOnGirl GirlOnGirl
I don't enjoy receiving pain but like to give.
03/23/2013
Contributor: PassionateLover2 PassionateLover2
Quote:
Originally posted by ShadowedSeductress
I have found that while I enjoy physical pain intentionally inflicted by my partner or myself, I absolutely hate pain otherwise.

For instance, I got my nipples pierced a couple weeks ago and was so terrified about the potential pain! Then in ... more
I don't like any kind of pain! What exactly do you need to achieve pleasure? That exactually is the question!!!!!
03/23/2013
Contributor: tunacan75 tunacan75
My girl likes nipple and butt stuff, nothing else
03/23/2013
Contributor: Jenyana Jenyana
I don't enjoy pain of any kind... pleasure so intense it resembles pain, sure, but outright pain? Thanks, but no thanks.
03/23/2013
Contributor: Adnerbmw Adnerbmw
my favorite is getting my ass smacked hard ad firmly
03/23/2013
Contributor: gwenevieve gwenevieve
Quote:
Originally posted by ShadowedSeductress
I have found that while I enjoy physical pain intentionally inflicted by my partner or myself, I absolutely hate pain otherwise.

For instance, I got my nipples pierced a couple weeks ago and was so terrified about the potential pain! Then in ... more
i dont like pain everytime i receive it but i do love all different types a pretty good amount ;D
03/24/2013
Contributor: AmethystQueen AmethystQueen
I don't generally like pain, but will tolerate a little in a scene.
03/24/2013
Contributor: Geogeo Geogeo
Quote:
Originally posted by ShadowedSeductress
I have found that while I enjoy physical pain intentionally inflicted by my partner or myself, I absolutely hate pain otherwise.

For instance, I got my nipples pierced a couple weeks ago and was so terrified about the potential pain! Then in ... more
turns me on in the bedroom, but only during sex. he seems to get too rough during foreplay and i dont get into it yet
03/24/2013
Contributor: Gdom Gdom
Other: I much prefer being the one causing the pain.
03/25/2013
Contributor: bronzelotus bronzelotus
I like pain, self-inflicted or inflicted on me, as long as it's not excessive pain. I don't mind being a bit sore the next day, I do mind pain so intense it's comparable to an ER visit.
03/25/2013
Contributor: edeneve edeneve
pain? why would I want to hurt?
11/11/2013
Contributor: Wicked Wahine Wicked Wahine
Quote:
Originally posted by edeneve
pain? why would I want to hurt?
Uh, because you're answering a post in the BDSM section, maybe?
11/12/2013
Contributor: thebest thebest
it depends
11/30/2013
Contributor: sexilexi29 sexilexi29
I chose "other" so here is my explanation. I love pain in a sexual context. It's a huge turn-on. For me, the whole BDSM thing is much more about the physical pain than the mental aspects or power dynamics that my partners seem to enjoy. So yes, I really enjoy pain that is self inflicted or inflicted by my partner in a sexual context. However, I also enjoy other forms of pain too. I'm not going out seeking pain or injuring myself; it all depends on the situation. If I trip and scrape my knee I don't like it. But I have piercings and a few tattoos and I enjoyed the pain involved in getting those. I think that maybe I enjoy pain when it's purposeful?
12/04/2013
Contributor: Slutty Girl Problems Slutty Girl Problems
Quote:
Originally posted by ShadowedSeductress
I have found that while I enjoy physical pain intentionally inflicted by my partner or myself, I absolutely hate pain otherwise.

For instance, I got my nipples pierced a couple weeks ago and was so terrified about the potential pain! Then in ... more
Only intentional pain usually - though I do love the pain of piercings!!
12/05/2013