How awesome for you! I am sure you will have a good time with it. I suggest you do some reading up online. There are many, many websites where you can find examples of contracts. Just google "bdsm slave contracts."

You might want to consider looking into local resources. You can find area organizations here, if this list is not out of date. Or if you are not interested in looking into things IRL, there is always Fetlife

Have fun!

Thank you! I'm definitely going to do some online research and learn more about it (assuming he visits me again like he promised). I'm really interested in the concept now that I've been exposed to it. No one has ever called me Mistress before or been under MY control. I'm usually the one listening to others! This should be fun.

That's a great idea and thank you for the suggestion. I was actually thinking of sitting down and having a casual, person-to-person chat with him about what his limits are, what he's looking for, etc. because I've never done this before and especially not with someone with whom sex (masturbation and what have you) is the only thing NOT on the table. He is/was very much into the role already as this is obviously something he lives with daily (what with his chastity belt) so it was a bit hard to get a straightforward answer out of him i.e. sometimes he would say "no" but he really meant that he would do it if I demanded it of him.

Your other suggestions are also really great. Considering this is an Internet relationship, we may not always be on at the same time (though obviously this would be preferable since this IS my job, though I'm willing to overlook that if it's a long-term relationship) so a journal or the like is a great way to make sure he's doing what he is supposed to and just to keep tabs on him. I've already started on little tasks for him to do and this is also a great idea. And as stated, I'm definitely going to get to know him more and see exactly what he is looking for and what he is willing to do/not do. Thank you and I'll try to have fun! I was a little worried at first and even a little weirded out (this is mostly due to my wariness of men) but now the whole idea seems like it could be a good time.

Will do! Just as soon as he comes back. Part of me wonders if he wasn't as serious as he seemed. Part of me wonders if he's going to have to be severely punished for leaving me that night and not messaging me or anything since. He seemed incredibly serious so I really don't know what's keeping him. In the meantime, I've been researching online and forming ideas which considering my occupation, will likely be useful whether he becomes my particular slave or not. Even in a tame, non-fetish category, I've been getting fetish-type requests so it's only a matter of time until another slave approaches me (though, actually, one already did but said he would come back later when I had sound).

That's a good idea about the wordpress thing. I was wondering exactly how we would do the journals. E-mails seemed too messy. I'll definitely look into that option.

Got it and replied. Thank you.

Dang, SinDoll, this is neat! I would totally be your wordpress slave.

LMAO at "Wordpress slave"!

Right? She has fantastic ideas. That's why I'm so disappointed that he hasn't contacted me again yet. Some slave!

Ha ha. Oh, you.