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share vs share XL
My girlfriend and I have to Share XL and the bulb side that goes in the giver is a little to large for her. Is the regular share any smaller at that...

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10-02-2013 2:01am Dear Support Team, Would I be allowed to substitute the Vixen Bandit in place of the Vixen Outlaw in this combo package? Because I

La Femme Harness. Is it worth it?
OK, so I really LOVE this harness and I'm thinking about splurging. Is it worth it? Does it hold up?
How comfortable is it?
And I see the max Size..

How we do strap on sex
We enjoy anal play on me as a regular part of our sex lives. Many years ago I never dreamed that I would enjoy anal play on me, but as I began to...

Packers
What are packers used for? Have you ever used one? Would you?

My girlfriend & I just got into strap on play as well. We have the Grrl Toyz Blue, which is 7.25 inches insertable, EF has the pink version which is a little smaller in length.

Get a 100% silicone dildo that's softish (probably not the Fetish Fantasy series, they're very stiff), with a bit of a head and a curve. Don't get much texture (it can be irritating), and get a dildo that's big enough - in general I find this to be 1.25+ inches in diameter and 5.5" of insertable length - but not too big. Talk it over and figure out how much realism you want in the dildo, and if there's any question go for less rather than more.

Medium Silk seems to work good, as does the Tantus Curve.