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Contributor: daniel and frances daniel and frances
I wonder how many people out there prepare with enemas or what have you for anal sex. I think I would prefer if I had the chance to, but Daniel really likes spontaneous sex and would probably feel a bit interrupted if we stopped to clean up before hand. What are your experiences?
05/07/2011
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Contributor: Brianna91 Brianna91
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Originally posted by daniel and frances
I wonder how many people out there prepare with enemas or what have you for anal sex. I think I would prefer if I had the chance to, but Daniel really likes spontaneous sex and would probably feel a bit interrupted if we stopped to clean up before ... more
Warm up is really nice sometimes. Other times I'm not necesarily looking for "nice" if you know what I mean. How good the warm up is has alot to do with how focused on my ass the guy is, like will he tongue me and use his fingers good first. Sometimes the warm up is just my guy talking dirty to me and sending me texts days before we get together, so that way I'm super horny for it by that time
05/07/2011
Contributor: Coralbell Coralbell
I've never used an anal douche/enema and I've never had any issues with anal sex. The only time I've had any mess was with textured toys. Some of them seem to really grab onto any little particles that might be left behind.
05/07/2011
Contributor: salaciousrex salaciousrex
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Originally posted by daniel and frances
I wonder how many people out there prepare with enemas or what have you for anal sex. I think I would prefer if I had the chance to, but Daniel really likes spontaneous sex and would probably feel a bit interrupted if we stopped to clean up before ... more
I've never used enemas, but I was actually reading old discussions about them yesterday and people talking about using them.
Most of my experiences have been pretty spontaneous, I've never had a chance to do an enema first. My boyfriend doesn't care for anal much, but he usually only initiates it in the shower so he knows I'm all clean
05/07/2011
Contributor: indiglo indiglo
I've never used an enema/anal douche or anything like that first, and I've never had any kind of a problem. I make sure my stomach is feeling fine first though, and that there are not any kind of issues - if there's the slightest hint of a stomach issue I won't do it. The only preparation I could see is maybe making sure you've used the bathroom recently, otherwise feces really isn't stored that close to your rectum, so it shouldn't cause any major issues.
05/07/2011
Contributor: liilii080 liilii080
Not really-it's usually spontaneous for us. I do usually shave the backdoor as part of my grooming though so it's a better sight to see.
05/07/2011
Contributor: CuteDee CuteDee
I usually take a toy in the shower w/me and have some solo play time to get ready for anal play w/bf. Sometimes we just go for it but usually stick a toy in my bum first to check it its all clear. 9 times out of 10, its a go.
05/07/2011
Contributor: Shellz31 Shellz31
If I'm just playing on my own, then I'm happy with anal as long as I have had a BM within a number of hrs earlier.
But if a partner wants anal, then I insist on having an enema so I can fully relax, knowing there's not going to be any unpleasant moments.
05/07/2011
Contributor: Tidwtrguy Tidwtrguy
Without getting to graphic, everyone's GI tract is different. Some people don't need enemas beforehand, for others, it is almost mandatory. It can really ruin the mood if someone should have cleaned out, but didn't.
05/08/2011
Contributor: LilyLust LilyLust
I've never had too clean out before hand
05/29/2011
Contributor: Ms. Spice Ms. Spice
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Originally posted by daniel and frances
I wonder how many people out there prepare with enemas or what have you for anal sex. I think I would prefer if I had the chance to, but Daniel really likes spontaneous sex and would probably feel a bit interrupted if we stopped to clean up before ... more
yes, otherwise it can be a very unpleasant experience
06/02/2011
Contributor: slynch slynch
Usually no preparation.
06/03/2011