Are Enemas Counterproductive?

Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
I was hoping to get my ass pegged yesterday - so I thought what the hell, I may as well clean things out and make it less likely to have any undesirable 'events'.

The good news is I got my ass reamed good! But the mess was - well a big mess! Luckily she rolled with the flow and kept wipes near by to clean things up.

When I don't bother with the enema - there may be a small mess - but often things go without a hitch.

So you anal sex and pegging aficionados out there - what is your experience?
05/29/2017
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Contributor: GingerAnn GingerAnn
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Contributor: AmethystQueen AmethystQueen
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Originally posted by Gunsmoke
I was hoping to get my ass pegged yesterday - so I thought what the hell, I may as well clean things out and make it less likely to have any undesirable 'events'.

The good news is I got my ass reamed good! But the mess was - well a ... more
You just may not have cleaned out well enough or given yourself enough time to drain everything out after the enema. They do a good job in cleaning you out.

However, you said you already don't have much mess, so I wouldn't bother with it if I was you. Some take enemas just for fun, some just for cleaning and others do it for both (also punishment, but that's a BDSM thing). Lots of people do anal play and anal sex without taking one first. Sounds like that's you, so just have at it and have fun!

Congratulations on your reaming!
05/30/2017
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
Sounds like she went awfully deep and really obligated your desire to be reamed like never before. No surprise with the after effects.

I,rather she advises to clean out throughly first. Otherwise expect to get some
a_ _ whipping while her " d_ _ k is lodged deep inside. Believe me I learned my lesson.

I also try to pick a day when I had a very good bowel movement
05/30/2017
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
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Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
Sounds like she went awfully deep and really obligated your desire to be reamed like never before. No surprise with the after effects.

I,rather she advises to clean out throughly first. Otherwise expect to get some
a_ _ whipping while ... more
Well - you know the length of the Outlaw - I don't know if I take it all - but I can feel the buckles of the harness on my ass! So yes - we're talking deep.

All whippings are welcome - I wish I could figure out a way to be 'bad' more often!!

My Metamucil pretty much ensures regularity - so I'm ready anytime I can get her to go along! I think I'm getting greedy in my old age!
05/30/2017
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
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Originally posted by AmethystQueen
You just may not have cleaned out well enough or given yourself enough time to drain everything out after the enema. They do a good job in cleaning you out.

However, you said you already don't have much mess, so I wouldn't bother with ... more
Yes - timing has something to do with it. I use to try to hold it in for a long time. That didn't work because the water would work its way north and take days to find it's way out.

Then I went to a shorter time - but didn't feel like I was totally clean - which is what made such a mess!

I have also tried to do it well in advance - several hours. I can't say that this method has been successful either.

Trial and error has resulted in mostly errors - any suggestions are appreciated!
05/30/2017
Contributor: AmethystQueen AmethystQueen
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Originally posted by Gunsmoke
Yes - timing has something to do with it. I use to try to hold it in for a long time. That didn't work because the water would work its way north and take days to find it's way out.

Then I went to a shorter time - but didn't feel ... more
It's not only timing, but amount. You only really need to clean out your rectum, not much your intestines further up. So you don't need a deep clean of a liter or anything. Maybe you can experiment with smaller amounts and time it to be a few hours before you guys start. I'd definitely give myself at least an hour to dry out.

Some people also do more than one take with a small amount. That would take more time, but may help in getting things cleaner. One rule is to not stop until you are just seeing clear water being expelled. Then you know you're done.
05/31/2017
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
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Originally posted by AmethystQueen
It's not only timing, but amount. You only really need to clean out your rectum, not much your intestines further up. So you don't need a deep clean of a liter or anything. Maybe you can experiment with smaller amounts and time it to be a few ... more
Thanks for the great hints - I use a little less than 8 oz. (230 ml) - but multiple smaller efforts might prove useful.
05/31/2017
Contributor: MrClark MrClark
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Originally posted by AmethystQueen
It's not only timing, but amount. You only really need to clean out your rectum, not much your intestines further up. So you don't need a deep clean of a liter or anything. Maybe you can experiment with smaller amounts and time it to be a few ... more
We only flush the rectum w/ a bulb enema, which she usually squirts internally and then expels what was sprayed in. There really is no need for deep lower intestine cleanse... we also do this right before anal play/sex.

But agree w/ AmethystQueen sounds like it's an amount issue more than timing... I know if you take in too much sometimes it doesn't come out until later and that sounds like what happened.
05/31/2017
Contributor: AmethystQueen AmethystQueen
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Originally posted by Gunsmoke
Thanks for the great hints - I use a little less than 8 oz. (230 ml) - but multiple smaller efforts might prove useful.
Welcome! I guess you can keep us posted. =)
06/01/2017
Contributor: AmethystQueen AmethystQueen
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Originally posted by MrClark
We only flush the rectum w/ a bulb enema, which she usually squirts internally and then expels what was sprayed in. There really is no need for deep lower intestine cleanse... we also do this right before anal play/sex.

But agree w/ ... more
I try to only flush my rectum as well. I mainly do it so as not to get involved with absorption issues.
06/01/2017
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
Quote:
Originally posted by MrClark
We only flush the rectum w/ a bulb enema, which she usually squirts internally and then expels what was sprayed in. There really is no need for deep lower intestine cleanse... we also do this right before anal play/sex.

But agree w/ ... more
Same here. Bulb is google enough. Sometimes do it twice. Ours has a smooth tip. If you like lube and go in a couple inches

Also use when done. Clean out the BD c_m lube
06/01/2017
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Ok experts - so 8 oz. is too much. Maybe 4 oz 2x would be better.

How long do you leave the water inside before expelling?
06/01/2017
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
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Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
Same here. Bulb is google enough. Sometimes do it twice. Ours has a smooth tip. If you like lube and go in a couple inches

Also use when done. Clean out the BD c_m lube
You bad boy! A BD cum tube you say!

We haven't bought one with the tube yet - it's not the $20 - I just can't quite get my head around what the point is. It'll surely make quite a mess - but what am I missing?
06/01/2017
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
Quote:
Originally posted by Gunsmoke
Ok experts - so 8 oz. is too much. Maybe 4 oz 2x would be better.

How long do you leave the water inside before expelling?
wme, the water will come out and then any debris. Usually twice is enough.
06/01/2017
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
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Originally posted by Gunsmoke
You bad boy! A BD cum tube you say!

We haven't bought one with the tube yet - it's not the $20 - I just can't quite get my head around what the point is. It'll surely make quite a mess - but what am I missing?
No tube for us. Use the c lube only. We use a lube shooter. Draw some, insert.
When done, use bulb to clean up. Don't need any dripping anywhere.

We also apply some Slippery Stuff to the weapons
06/01/2017
Contributor: AmethystQueen AmethystQueen
Quote:
Originally posted by Gunsmoke
Ok experts - so 8 oz. is too much. Maybe 4 oz 2x would be better.

How long do you leave the water inside before expelling?
You can hold it for 1-5 min. while standing up. May help things to drain a bit more before letting it out.
06/01/2017
Contributor: Robin Goodfellow Robin Goodfellow
Quote:
Originally posted by Gunsmoke
I was hoping to get my ass pegged yesterday - so I thought what the hell, I may as well clean things out and make it less likely to have any undesirable 'events'.

The good news is I got my ass reamed good! But the mess was - well a ... more
I always enema before anal play. There is a learning curve to the cleaning process. If you get water above the sigmoid colon, it is like a whole other chamber that you now have to get clean, otherwise the dirtied water from above will leak back down and can make the situation worse than it was pre-cleanse. I'm guessing this is what you experienced.
01/14/2021
Contributor: Sissypussi Sissypussi
Quote:
Originally posted by Gunsmoke
I was hoping to get my ass pegged yesterday - so I thought what the hell, I may as well clean things out and make it less likely to have any undesirable 'events'.

The good news is I got my ass reamed good! But the mess was - well a ... more
Sounds like it was your first time. That being the case, you probably loosened up stuff the has been inside you for quite a while then during your pegging it got further loosened, and out it came. With regular cleaning, you should have fewer issues.
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