Can you handle hard and fast thrusting in your ass?

Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
I voted that - yes my wife can handle hard and fast - but there's a caveat here.

Initial penetration is always preceded by extensive foreplay and tons of lube, then followed by a pause to allow her to adjust to me presence in her ass.

Only after acclimation - and often after a reapplication of lube, do things progress to the hard and fast stage.

I will also say that we don't always get to the hard and fast stage - sometimes slow and easy is better.

And as for me - it's a similar story - she gives me time to adjust before pounding my ass!
02/28/2018
Contributor: Stormysmagick69 Stormysmagick69
I'm a champ on this subject lol the harder the better. I push back as he pushes forward.
02/28/2018
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
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Originally posted by Stormysmagick69
I'm a champ on this subject lol the harder the better. I push back as he pushes forward.
Coming from a guy's perspective - there's nothing like an enthusiastic partner to ramp up the intensity!
02/28/2018
Contributor: Lena Eden Lena Eden
I think the question here is not about if you can handle it, but rather if you actually like it.

IMO, it's much more exciting when he thrusts me slowly with his manhood or dildo.
03/01/2018
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
There's a price to pay if one displeases your SO's rectum . Believe me, I know.
03/01/2018
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
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Originally posted by Lena Eden
I think the question here is not about if you can handle it, but rather if you actually like it.

IMO, it's much more exciting when he thrusts me slowly with his manhood or dildo.
There's no right answer - slow more romantic movements have their place.

However, when you are in that more animalistic mood, hard and fast can be just what the doctor ordered

Maybe it's an age thing - but my wife has gravitated more and more to the hard and fast side of the equation, so of course, it's my duty to oblige
03/02/2018
Contributor: Lena Eden Lena Eden
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Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
There's a price to pay if one displeases your SO's rectum . Believe me, I know.
This is what the floggers & paddles were made for!
03/04/2018
Contributor: Lena Eden Lena Eden
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Originally posted by Gunsmoke
There's no right answer - slow more romantic movements have their place.

However, when you are in that more animalistic mood, hard and fast can be just what the doctor ordered

Maybe it's an age thing - but my wife has ... more
You're super advanced, guys!

Probably, this is not the age thing, but the experience with the ~right~ person.
We've started to discover our sexuality (including anal sex) not so long time ago. The thing that makes us super excited right now is light BDSM, shibari, flogging, and other similar things.
03/04/2018
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
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Originally posted by Lena Eden
This is what the floggers & paddles were made for!
No thanks. I prefer what OW dishes out. Or rather what she makes me dish out. Remember that leather b*ll separater review
03/04/2018
Contributor: Lena Eden Lena Eden
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Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
No thanks. I prefer what OW dishes out. Or rather what she makes me dish out. Remember that leather b*ll separater review
Are you talking about this one? Anyway, the divider seems to be less punishing than the estim rings
03/06/2018
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
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Originally posted by Lena Eden
Are you talking about this one? Anyway, the divider seems to be less punishing than the estim rings ... more
Ahh, yes and she also returned the favor on the weekend. Loaded the Boss d into the Lux Rider and ......I was sore for a few weeks. Needless to say no more surprise intrusions .
03/06/2018
Contributor: Shark42 Shark42
Yes. The harder the faster the better for me.
09/19/2018
Contributor: Lisset Finnien Lisset Finnien
Always been my favorite way...as hard and fast as I can get it
09/20/2018
Contributor: Bottemsup73 Bottemsup73
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Originally posted by LovesToPlay
When watching porn you will see this hugely hung guy thrusting in and out of a woman's ass so hard that you honestly cannot believe she isn't running for the hills! So i was wondering can anyone on EF take it like that? I sure can't, but ... more
Not for the first few thrusts but if he starts slow and builds his speed and power, then yes. Oh goddes YES. He can pound my ass much harder than he ever could my vagina. I love the slow and gentle to get me going but its the hard and fast thrusting with him grunting and squeezing my hips with all his strength that brings me to orgasm.
03/15/2019
Contributor: La Bachatera La Bachatera
I can definitely take (and very much enjoy ) hard and fast anal, BUT not in the first couple of minutes. To start, I need it slow and not to deep or hard. We can increase all that little by little, until I am ready. Once I am ready, my man can pound away to his hearts content.

All that being said, it would be remiss not to say slow and gentle is more than OK with me, too. I pretty much just like sex in general.
03/19/2019
Contributor: Bailed Bailed
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Originally posted by MGDavicnigirl
You've got to remember that the people in porn are paid to act. This is their job to make it look like everything is feeling great and awesome and the most intense orgasms/sex of their whole lives.

That being said, I like being fucked ... more
Based upon what my fiancee has told me about her anal sex experiences, you are 100% right. I've never had anal sex because it has never interested me. My fiancee thought I was lying when I told her I had never had anal sex. She's had a lot of anal sex. She offered it to when while we were dating. Since I knew nothing about anal sex, she explained it to me. She told me reality of anal sex is nothing like it's depicted in porn films. A guy could not penetrate her butt without a lot of prior prepping.

After my fiancee explained anal sex to me, I knew for sure I wasn't interested in it. She did tell me that her former boyfriends who had anal sex with her loved it. Good for them.

I do know that a lot of men and women love anal sex and engage in it regularly.
12/29/2019
Contributor: RonLee RonLee
Sancho01, perhaps you would gain a greater appreciation for what your Fiancee enjoys about anal sex, if you asked her to finger your hole. Since I'm assuming you have a prostate, I can tell you that you just might become a convert if/when you experience a prostate orgasm.
12/30/2019
Contributor: Shark09 Shark09
Yes. I love it hard and fast.
01/23/2021
Contributor: ToyLover99 ToyLover99
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01/24/2021
Contributor: Momma can take it Momma can take it
Once he's in he's free to go as fast and hard as he can. I find him pinching my nipples while inserting is distraction enough for me to take him quickly. Also he applies more lube occasionally.... Drips it on his shaft so he can keep pounding away
01/27/2021
Contributor: Samamtha Samamtha
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Originally posted by Stormysmagick69
I'm a champ on this subject lol the harder the better. I push back as he pushes forward.
I agree. Enough lube, enough foreplay and easy slow fat first, then becoming like riding a race horse. ??
06/09/2021