Saw something that scared this newbie!

Contributor: blessedDW blessedDW
I haven't tried anal yet, but working up the courage! I just stumbled upon anal sex pictures on-line and wow... it was frightening! There were pictures of HUGE holes in the anus after the anal sex and some were bloodied. Oh my goodness... is that what happens after? Can someone please tell me what will it look like after? I really like my tight anus... ha!
05/02/2011
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Contributor: GingerAnn GingerAnn
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Contributor: MaryExy MaryExy
The key is to be relaxed and go slowly with plenty of lube. And your anus is NOT going to be permanently stretched out; any stretching is very temporary. There should not be pain. I don't think anyone would do it if such damage was normal.
05/03/2011
Contributor: VieuxCarre VieuxCarre
Most of the pictures you saw were probably from some hard core sessions and from people who have been stretching their assholes for years. Start small with anal exploration and work your way up from there. The anus will retract to its normal size (at least mine did and I was raped) so long as you don't continue to stretch it on the daily basis.

Hope this helps!
05/03/2011
Contributor: blessedDW blessedDW
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Originally posted by VieuxCarre
Most of the pictures you saw were probably from some hard core sessions and from people who have been stretching their assholes for years. Start small with anal exploration and work your way up from there. The anus will retract to its normal size ... more
I'm so sorry to hear of the crime against you!
05/05/2011
Contributor: blessedDW blessedDW
Thank-you both for your replies. I'm glad to know things return to normal!
05/05/2011