Insightful breakdown of Anal Sex:

Help the anal sex beginner...
I want to try anal sex but Last time I tried it was painful and turned me off from sex completely... I figured a small plug would be a good way to...

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So I believe it was Kendra who posted a forum question about anal fissures JUST this morning. Oddly enough, my husband found out he has a minor one. I

Anal Sex?? Anal anything?
I have NEVER done anything anally? Is that the word? Really the only people I know in real life who are into anal stuff are men, they seem quite...

For those who enjoy anal play, is there some activity you have tried before, and don't want to do again?
Like vaginal sex, some positions or activities just don't cut it for everyone. If you enjoy anal sex, is there some aspect or activity about it you...

When Do You Crave Anal Sex?
I've noticed that I crave anal during the day and in the evening more than I do at night. What time of day do you most crave anal? Why do you think...

Honestly, the desire for anal sexuality has been there for quite a long time in my case. It's not something I really thought about until recently, but there were times during my childhood where I seemed drawn to my anal area... As if by instinct. I suppose that it is not that different from how a person first discovers genital masturbation. It likely happens to many people. They are curious about the anus, perhaps try touching it, and maybe they like the sensations.

It can continue from there, provided the individual enjoyed the feeling. We do what feels good, though society places quite a lot of stigma on subjects like anal sexuality. As a gay man, it felt 'normalized' somehow, even though it is an activity independent of orientation. There are many societal and personal barriers to enjoyment of anal play, but they're worth overcoming if it's something you enjoy in a healthful manner.

I highly recommend the book, "Anal Pleasure and Health". I'm reading it presently and it's very insightful.

I don't remember making a conscious decision to start. It just kind of happened, without any discussion or consideration. Seemed like a natural extension of whatever it was we were doing at the time.

i dont know i have always been brave and i have the idea in my head were you dont knock it till you try it and i actually liked it bc i come allot harder

My boyfriend wanted to...I discovered that I like it and we did it last week, as a matter of fact!