Ladies, what is your reaction if you want to have an orgasm but can't/don't?

Contributor: amazon amazon
Self-service or no biggie
Contributor: KissTheSkyBaby KissTheSkyBaby
If it's a quickie and he's the only one that cums it's not a big deal, that's more of a "for the rush thing" for me.
If we've been at it for a while and I'm close but it's just out of reach then normally both of us will keep at some form of something until I get a release otherwise I can't go to sleep.
Contributor: Deeder Deeder
The infamous OTHER: Since I've never been able to have any kind of orgasm, I go through a full range of emotions every time we have sex. Anger and resentment towards my husband (why can't he do it for me?), anger and resentment towards myself (why can't I do it?), worry and a bit of paranoia (is there something wrong with me??), plus a good share of balls-out attitude (FUCK IT! It's never going to happen, so why even bother!).

Even when I try to work on it myself after he's done, I usually get pissed off because it just ends up being a waste of time and effort.
Contributor: MsDrProfKitty MsDrProfKitty
I usually don't mind too much, just having sex feels awesome. But if it's been awhile since I've had one and I'm reaaaalllyyy hormonal I have to take a deep breath and remind myself that it's not his fault I didn't and that I shouldn't be angry.
Contributor: LoooveMonkey LoooveMonkey
If I want to, I will!!
Contributor: WhoopieDoo WhoopieDoo
I don't "worry it will never happen again".....but I do cry on occasion if I can't get off.
Contributor: ne1469694u ne1469694u
Originally posted by P'Gell
As women, some of us don't have orgasms every time we have sex, or every time we want to. What is your reaction to NOT being able to come?

It never used to bother me, as I knew it would happen next time. Now, it's more difficult and I ... more
Contributor: jennifur77 jennifur77
Sometimes I know it's just not happening. I'm disappointed, but I don't cry. I know I'll have one on another day.
Contributor: karenm karenm
I take care of it afterwards, which works out since he always takes a shower after sex anyway, so I have time to myself. I used to get very frustrated about it though, like it was unfair somehow that he got to orgasm and I didn't.
Contributor: luv 2 sex luv 2 sex
I have problems because of the type of medication I am on and would get very upset when I couldn't have we have to try harder and longer in order for it to happen.
Contributor: Chastity Darling Chastity Darling
I only get mad (slightly) if he comes just before I can. I usually get myself there quickly. Most of the time its not a big deal for me if he comes and I don't... as long as I'm not close.

What really pisses me off is when he brings me to the brink and back down too many times for me to get off. Then I am completely unable to come and get so damn frustrated lol. It doesn't happen very often anymore...
Contributor: bayosgirl bayosgirl
It does upset me when it doesn't happen. I can normally cum by playing with myself whether sex is involved or not, but sometimes I'm too tired or distracted and it takes a long time. Once I'm aroused it's frustrating to not be able to cum, so I go at it as long as it takes, sore clit and all.
Contributor: doowop doowop
I get pretty frustrated but I never take it out on my partner. It's rare for me to have clitoral orgasms at the hand of another, so I don't usually get frustrated anymore.
Contributor: 702zombie 702zombie
I try again another day