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Best female sensitivity cream?
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Are you a screamer? And you partner?
I am a screamer, I am always being told to quiet. He is very quiet almost too quiet.

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After 20 years of being quiet for the kids - it's great to be able to let loose a bit. Although we did make some noise throughout out the years - we tease each other that my son has brain damage for listening to his parents having sex for 18+ years!

My wife has definitely felt the most liberated. Luckily we have a single family residence - but in CA - we're still pretty close to the neighbors. Our master bath has a fan that vents to a neighbor's yard - so just before we 'get busy' she always tells me to close the door.

I love to hear her enjoying herself, it reminds me of a saying that goes something like this; "Making love is like playing an instrument. You know you're doing it right by what sounds are coming out."

Another one I like - "She calls me her linguist - because I am fluent in her moans!"

It's so odd, I come up with all the kink - but it's her that enjoys it the most! Now it's time for me to up my game and get loud (& dirty).

Since I live in a college dorm, I try to be quiet! The walls are thin and I can hear people on all sides of me (upstairs, downstairs, right, and left). However, when I Skype with my Daddy (Dom), we can get a bit loud! I've definitely moaned, "Daddyyyyyyyy!!!!!!" loudly.

I'm as tight lipped as can be during sex. However OH tells me I moan softly in my sleep.
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It's usually when Im trying to be quiet that my orgasms end up being off the charts and I'm louder than normal. I do usually try to be more on the quiet end since we have a teen in the house though . Just doesn't always work out.

Rather than scream or shout... before, during and after sex I talk to my partner. That's just me, however, occasionally I have been told: "just shut up and fuck me".

I can get pretty loud, but since I have a roommate, I try to stay quiet! lo1!

we don't care where we are at it feels good and we love to fuck and we make a lot and I mean a lot of noise !

I am a lot quieter now than I used to be - thanks kids... I don't care who hears when I'm in the moment and I've never had the cops called, but I imagine I wouldn't be ashamed over it.

It's a challenge for me to be quiet, especially during orgasms. When I'm by myself, it's easy as pie. But when I'm with The Boyfriend, almost every way to cover a mouth that you can think of, we have tried - anything to muffle my involuntary moans.

The kids have admitted to hearing us many times. My eldest daughter, when she was about 11, would lock herself in the bathroom every time she was awoken by us. Our 7-year-old was convinced that the sounds that we made during sex was what "being gay" was. We had an entire day where they were mad at us for how loud we were and when my Mom asked what was wrong, they almost chanted, "Mommy and Daddy were having sex!".

While it was horrifying to live through those experiences, I feel like we were able to have more open conversations with our kids about sex and pleasure. I apologized for my loudness and explained that sometimes you can get swept up in the moment. Now, we just try extra hard to get rid of them more often - hooray for babysitters!

My ex-gf was actually upset when we first started dating about how quiet I was when we had sex, as she couldn't get a sense on if I was enjoying anything during sex (bj, vaginal, etc...). After reflecting on this concern I noticed what she was talking about; however, also realized that it was due to years of masturbating and wanting to be as quiet as possible when enjoying some "me time"... But also became apparent that I needed to give feedback even if it was verbally vocalizing that felt good, etc.

Not sure the answer about that makes me a "true man" but I think you should communicate well with your partner regardless and failing to give them feedback or that you are enjoying sex with them means I'm failing at that.

I should be and horny, but not too loud. It adds to your sexual drive and it amplifies the emotion and ejaculation.

Seriously, my wife usually ends up face down screaming into a pillow.

We've tried everything - simply can't keep her quiet!

We always had to be quiet and didn't like it. When we looked for new places to move to,always picked something with privacy. Although we're both quiet, sometimes, you just have to let it out.

And with our latest addition, have no choice. Never has any toy has this happened before.
So far it's 3 for 3. We named it "The TB Boss" . Maybe in the future may rename it the " Moaner"

I could get very loud, but I always feel it's not polite to those around us. Get us out in the country somewhere and WHOOOO!

Thin walls, nosey neighbors - nearly not enough privacy for us. But when our next door neighbor - an old lady - makes her TV super loud - that's my time to shine