Sharing Secrets of Male Orgasm

Sharing Secrets of Male Orgasm

Lena Eden Lena Eden
Male Orgasm Secrets

Guys,

First, let me say Happy Labor Day! It will be another long holiday weekend you can spend surrounding yourselves with love and passion. Enjoy each other and everything around you!

This discussion will have to do with the preferences of our husbands, boyfriends and male sexual partners. Recently we’ve shared some top tips on how to make his orgasm even better. And now I want to ask our guys what is the most important thing for them when they are having sex.

Boys, do share! What are some of the ‘must-dos’ your partner should keep in their repertoire to turn you on and give the best orgasm ever? Anything to avoid?
09/02/2016
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TheToyGuy TheToyGuy
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Originally posted by Lena Eden


Guys,

First, let me say Happy Labor Day! It will be another long holiday weekend you can spend surrounding yourselves with love and passion. Enjoy each other and everything around you!

This discussion will have to do with the ...
he he he...
09/02/2016
sigian sigian
Quote:
Originally posted by Lena Eden


Guys,

First, let me say Happy Labor Day! It will be another long holiday weekend you can spend surrounding yourselves with love and passion. Enjoy each other and everything around you!

This discussion will have to do with the ...
I'm not sure about 'must do's' since everyone is different and has their own kinks that get them off.

But mainly to the females out there, my suggestion would be to pay attention to his reactions no matter what you are doing to pleasure your boyfriend/husband/part ner. From the facial expressions down to the slightest gasp, moan or even whimper.

Talk with your partner to see what they are into, find out what makes them tick, what makes them scream, and what makes their toes curl. Communication is a big thing here in my opinion, but when all else fails, body language is a good guideline, if you aren't sure of their limits, the only thing they can say is 'no.'

But most guys are pretty easy, and very pliable when being pleasured, I know my wife gets me to do the craziest things just to get off, she really knows how to ride that fine edge for ages before 'setting up the bomb.'
09/04/2016
Lena Eden Lena Eden
TheToyGuy, could you be a little bit more specific?

sigian, how long did it take your wife to 'study' your body?
09/05/2016
sigian sigian
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Originally posted by Lena Eden
TheToyGuy, could you be a little bit more specific?

sigian, how long did it take your wife to 'study' your body?
That's hard to say, she still hasn't quite mastered some of the more subtle expressions, noises or body language. I would guess it would depend on how much practice you get lol. With four kids, our life has been a bit full, though starting this year our youngest started school so I'm sure we will be finding thing a lot more calm and less stressful. Everyone is different as well.
09/05/2016
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
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Originally posted by sigian
I'm not sure about 'must do's' since everyone is different and has their own kinks that get them off.

But mainly to the females out there, my suggestion would be to pay attention to his reactions no matter what you are doing ...
Good advice - for what ever reason talking about sex acts can make even the most adventurous a little squeamish. As a result observing body language and vocalizations has been THE key to moving our sex from vanilla to pretty kinky.

About half the toys I buy now are the direct result of an 'innocent' comment made in the heat of the moment.

Because we have so many toys - the odd question is which ones should I use tonight. Experience will give me a basic plan - but based on her body language I may back off - or get way more aggressive.

As a male you have to learn how to manage your wife's capacity for multiple orgasms - that is if you are a one-and-done guy like me. If I'm going to get to have a great 5-8 orgasm night - most of those are going to have to happen before I even get near an orgasm.

Everyone has a refractory period - between orgasms. It's another area that I pay close attention to. If she's on a hot streak she'll tell me to hurry - but usually I let her come down for a few minutes, then build up to new heights!

Isn't sex grand! It's one of the benefits of a long-term relationship - you build on your years of experience to keep making things better!
09/08/2016
sigian sigian
Exactly, the longer you are together, the better it gets. It may dwindle here and there, but be open and talk together about it. Remember, this is someone that you pledged to spend your life with, why hide what makes you tick, it isn't healthy, and it might just surprise you as to how she feels about it.

My wife is still that borderline vanilla type, I enjoy giving her multiple orgasms whenever she will let me, and sometimes she is still afraid to ask me due to feeling greedy if she isn't in the mood for anything else. I think that's where she enjoys chastity play, it makes her a bit more confident that she isn't denying me in the general sense, she is just denying me for one hell of a tease session before she gets around to letting me out. And she usually can't stand it for any longer than a week.
09/11/2016
OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
Attitude-wise: Loving, caring, compassionate, soft, luscious, smiling, happy.....

Then at the same time physically :
Wet, hot, juicy, aggressive, showing desire to be serviced, and insatiable appetite and energy.
09/13/2016
OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
Quote:
Originally posted by Lena Eden


Guys,

First, let me say Happy Labor Day! It will be another long holiday weekend you can spend surrounding yourselves with love and passion. Enjoy each other and everything around you!

This discussion will have to do with the ...
btw LE,

The pic of the guy with his mouth open seeming to say "aahh", eyes closed and arms up (like I give in ) seems to be getting oral. did the answer you were interested in have to do with orgasm from getting head ?
09/13/2016
Lena Eden Lena Eden
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Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
btw LE,

The pic of the guy with his mouth open seeming to say "aahh", eyes closed and arms up (like I give in ) seems to be getting oral. did the answer you were interested in have to do with orgasm from getting head ?
Do you really think it's the oral?!
Perhaps, the partner of the man on the pic forced him not to move at all, saying something like: 'I'll do everything myself!'
09/15/2016
OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
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Originally posted by Lena Eden
Do you really think it's the oral?!
Perhaps, the partner of the man on the pic forced him not to move at all, saying something like: 'I'll do everything myself!'
So, reverse doggie ? Or hand job ? Or maybe that guys is just sleeping
09/15/2016
LovingIt LovingIt
Random Thoughts:

Most guys seem to love having their partner take the lead. It takes some of the pressure off and allows us to worry about other things.

Push the boundaries some - naughty is always exciting. Fingers wandering to the backside, pinning us down, blindfold, something new is always exciting and that ramps up the orgasm.

Visual impacts are great. Let him see you going down on him, watch your breasts, etc. It's a benefit for the woman-on-top and to some degree doggie-style.

Tease, tease, tease - getting brought to the edge and then having to wait only builds the tension. And then when you're ready to let him have it, go all in. Grind away, suck hard, and when he starts to come, increase your action. Add in something like penis rings and desensitizer to keep things going longer and it can be incredible.
09/18/2016
Trysexual Trysexual
I'll add prostate stimulation to really take him over the edge. Encourage him to do things that are pleasurable and don't insert your own hangups, let him enjoy things he likes without judgement.
09/19/2016
Gr8pumpkin Gr8pumpkin
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Originally posted by TheToyGuy
he he he...
Ladies,

First off, recognize that most men are visual beasts. They LIKE to see what's going on, not that surprises like a blindfolded episode might be crazy good, but observing feeds our sex drive.
You want to get MY juices flowing, let me " catch" you playing with yourself, drives me bonkers!
Another thing, be REAL, that is, never fake ANYTHING ! Forget the porn-film over the top moans and groans and dirty talk. If you aren't into it, do something that you ARE into, or just let him know tonight isn't the night for you. Nothing douses the flames of passion for me than sensing my lover is just going through the motions. On the other hand, if you ARE into it, and vocalize it in a genuine way, it turns up the heat. I love it when my wife tells me how hot I make her or that what I am doing is really getting her off. And if pay attention to,men, they will reveal what things drive them crazy. If you catch him checking you out putting your bra on in the morning, chances are wearing a sexy bra and teasing him with a peep show will get him interested. There is that visual thing again.
09/19/2016
LovinThisLife LovinThisLife
I agree with much of what others have written above, communication is key, discover what they like, etc. I can say that without a doubt the best thing for our sex life as been time. 18 years ago with thought we had a hot sex life, today it's 20 times better. We communicate extremely well. We ask each other if trying this or that in bed sounds good. We keep love and respect at the forefront. In the end, it's what turns my wife on that turns me on the most. I think most guys are up for trying most anything, and we have deep crazy fantasies, but I think the best are ones that come from my wife. And the crazy great thing about it...my wife would say the same thing, that my fantasies are more important than hers. When you get two people who what the best sexual experience to happen for their partner each and every time, it's a amazing.
02/27/2017
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