Do WOMAN "freshen up" before oral sex is received, more or less then men?

Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
The idea of "Freshening up" before you know you are going to be recieving oral from a partner has been asked, but our Friday night dinner group "free for all speak-easy" was discussing this, and it seems, in our group, the ladies were far more concerned with "freshening up" before getting oral, then the guys were. My hubby being an exception...admitting HE does not feel comfortable at all getting oral unless he knows he has had a moment to use a wet towel or at least a "Wet" towelette to "freshen up" down there.
SO..our Poll it more MEN or WOMAN concerned with this issue?
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
I'm a woman and I "freshen up" before I know I am going to get oral done to me.
I am a woman and do not care about freshening up before getting oral done to me.
I am a man and I "freshen up" before I know I am going to get oral done to me.
I am a man and do not care about freshening up before getting oral done to me.
Total votes: 187 (163 voters)
Poll is closed
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Contributor: OhMy! OhMy!
Sometimes you do, sometimes you don't. A lot of that depends on how busy/long day it's been, etc.
Contributor: Tagmstr Tagmstr
I have never thought of it honestly. And when I'm about to get some, the last thing I worry about is going to freshen up.
Contributor: LAndJ LAndJ
I don't freshen up usually. He's never said anything bad about my girly bits in all of our time together. My boyfriend said he'd only gone down on his ex once and he hated it. He said she tasted gross and he swore he'd never do it again, but eventually tried on me and he likes it. He said he likes my taste and is glad not everyone tastes the same.

I do with he'd clean up his sweaty balls smell sometimes though. I sometimes have to stop going down on him to make him go wash up a bit first.
Contributor: Coralbell Coralbell
I don't freshen up before oral. I feel clean enough from my daily shower and my boyfriend says he likes the way I taste and smell, so I don't worry about it. The only time I would worry about it is if I've done something to get sweaty, and then I would need to have another shower and clean my whole body, not just "freshen up" that area with a wipe or something.
Contributor: The Curious Couple The Curious Couple
I like to make sure I'm clean for my fiancee.
Contributor: dhig dhig
i usually try to. i at least like to have had a shower.
Contributor: Gallowraven Gallowraven
freshening up before oral is a strict thing for me. if Im getting it, I want to know that I don't smell like the grime of the day down there, and I make my hubby freshen up if he wants it. I do NOT like the smell that emanates from sweaty balls.
Contributor: Sex'ΠΈ'Violence Sex'ΠΈ'Violence
I am a woman and whether or not I "freshen up" depends on the circumstance and who I'm with. If it's someone new definitely. If it's my hubby- probably not.
Contributor: SaraU29 SaraU29
I generally do, but there is always the chance we get caught up in the heat of the moment and he tells me to forget it cause I'm not going anywhere till we're both satisfied.
Contributor: AHubbyof2SexualMinds AHubbyof2SexualMinds
Originally posted by Bignuf
The idea of "Freshening up" before you know you are going to be recieving oral from a partner has been asked, but our Friday night dinner group "free for all speak-easy" was discussing this, and it seems, in our group, the ladies ... more
My wife is obsessive about being clean before I give her oral. I would like to give her oral sometimes with just her natural pheromones still present, but she never feels comfortable that way.
Contributor: Katelyn Katelyn
If it's spontaneous I don't clean but as a gal who likes gals I can safety safe I don't care if a woman is or isn't "freshening up". I think the way women smell and taste is super sexy.
Contributor: Melissa Smith Melissa Smith
Sometimes there isn't time.. But it's always so fresh and so clean!
Contributor: bunniebunnie bunniebunnie
I usually do but when it's spontaneous and spur of the moment then the hell with it.
Contributor: BobbiJay BobbiJay
I freshen up if I get the chance, but sometimes there just isn't time.
Contributor: MissCandyland MissCandyland
I like to freshen up. I like to be smooth and just out of the bath.
Contributor: PeachieClean PeachieClean
I don't. I don't really care for oral myself, so anything discouraging him from sticking his face down there is a plus for me. But I let him, because he likes it.
Contributor: lustfully lustfully
I get weird and don't let his face around my area if i didn't shower before getting oral.
Contributor: Jesse-in-TX Jesse-in-TX a guy who likes to get head as often as I can....I don't have to make additional efforts to freshen up beforehand, but it helps to have some wet-naps handy in case I come in from a long, hardworking day and it's a bit spontaneous and she don't give me time to shower...(she likes the way I smell all sweaty and it turns her on.)

Also, as a guy who loves givin oral...I have to say that freshness is very important. Not so much that it needs to be squeaky clean, but as long as she takes regular showers, it should be fine at almost any time.
Sometimes a bit of the lady smell/taste is good....but it can't be more than moderate or it is offensive.
Contributor: Woman China Woman China
Sometimes it is just not possible. But I do try to make an effort!!!!
Contributor: Teacookie Teacookie
I dont get a chance to freshen up and am highly irritated if I just used the restroom and then I get pounced on. *fumes*
Contributor: SexyStuff SexyStuff
We both freshen up beforehand.
Contributor: fabidefabi fabidefabi
Yes i try to every time. I just become self conscious if i dont
Contributor: freda freda
u gotta be clean and smelling good
Contributor: leelee leelee
I freshen up before oral or anyother kind of sex I'm just to self conscious
Contributor: Shellz31 Shellz31
I have to freshen up before oral. Too self-conscious.
Contributor: PassionateLover2 PassionateLover2
As a man, and if it's spontaneous, it doesn't bother me one way or the other, as a guy who LOVES to give oral! But occasionally, freshening up myself is being respectful to my partner! I think she likes it when I smell good!
Contributor: grace grace
If I dont clean myself then I feel like I am going to taste terrible.
Contributor: fredacarl fredacarl