Fellatio, no happy ending, does it matter ?

Fellatio, no happy ending, does it matter ?

Gr8pumpkin Gr8pumpkin
This question is for the fellatrix mostly. If you are giving oral to your boyfriend, husband, or S.O., does it matter if he does not ejaculate, or do you do it just for the pleasure ?
Having just had prostate surgery, and now being unable to ejaculate at all, I wonder if it matters to partners if you don't cum. For me, part of the experience was knowing my partner would be receiving my ejaculate and either swallowing it or letting it spill out .
Now it feels incomplete when I don't ejaculate, not that the sensations aren't great, it's just then final result that is somewhat different.

So what are your thoughts ?

Happy New Year everyone. Hope YOUR 2018 is off to a sexy start.
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Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Although I recently had the pleasure of ejaculating from oral recently - it has happened only 2x in 2017.

Since I know that an orgasm in unlikely from oral stimulation, I don't let my wife go at it for too long. I enjoy a few minutes then 'change the subject' - usually to pleasing her because she's likely to orgasm many times.

Although I'm luckier than you - in that I can orgasm occasionally, since it's about 1/month - we enjoy intimacy and time playing together on overage 10-15x/month (more in the summer for some reason). I don't dwell on what doesn't happen anymore - and she has learned not to either.

I imagine that I will also lose the ability to orgasm eventually - but I don't want to loose the intimacy - so we'll adapt.

Have a happy 2018 - and may your recovery continue - and maybe even surprise you with unexpected pleasures!
Jan 1, 2:36 pm
Gr8pumpkin Gr8pumpkin
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Originally posted by Gunsmoke
Although I recently had the pleasure of ejaculating from oral recently - it has happened only 2x in 2017.

Since I know that an orgasm in unlikely from oral stimulation, I don't let my wife go at it for too long. I enjoy a few minutes then ...
Smoke,
It is t that I don't orgasm, I do, frequently, early every time we have adult play time together, and almost every time I take care of things myself. It is the ejaculating that doesn't happen anymore, and I do miss it. I never really made notice of how it felt to have my semen coursing through my member, and out to wherever. It was a subtle thing, but now that it isn't there, it is a very noticeable absence. Plus, not having the visual aspect of seeing it come out, or the sight of it oozing out of my wife afterward, I certainly miss that.
After several sex sessions lately, the sensations of orgasm are still very strong, and I really am happy that is still there. My wife hasn't mentioned her take on the situation so that must mean it isn't a big deal for her.
Have a great 2018, thanks for the feedback.
Jan 1, 4:54 pm
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
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Originally posted by Gr8pumpkin
Smoke,
It is t that I don't orgasm, I do, frequently, early every time we have adult play time together, and almost every time I take care of things myself. It is the ejaculating that doesn't happen anymore, and I do miss it. I never ...
Great to hear that your orgasms remain - mine are pretty rare.
Jan 1, 7:10 pm
OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
Some do it to pleasure him and to make him hard. Or repay for some good cunnli he just gave. Cumming in mouth ? No. Getting hard for intercourse : Yes.

Try having her fellatio you and pump you with P spot toy at the same time.
Double pleasure.
Jan 1, 9:31 pm
Gr8pumpkin Gr8pumpkin
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Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
Some do it to pleasure him and to make him hard. Or repay for some good cunnli he just gave. Cumming in mouth ? No. Getting hard for intercourse : Yes.

Try having her fellatio you and pump you with P spot toy at the same time.
Double pleasure.
Hmmm, I wonder how that would feel now. I have been stimulated before, not directed at the prostate necessarily, during oral. I did enjoy it at the time. Because I just had laser prostate surgery, I would expect the gland to react differently now, might not be as enjoyable.

I agree, we often use oral play s a prelude to other things.

I wondered how the lack of ejaculation affected the giver however. I am sure those who dislike semen would be happy, those who love the fluid might feel otherwise.
Jan 2, 7:37 am
OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
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Originally posted by Gr8pumpkin
Hmmm, I wonder how that would feel now. I have been stimulated before, not directed at the prostate necessarily, during oral. I did enjoy it at the time. Because I just had laser prostate surgery, I would expect the gland to react differently now, ...
That dual stimulation doesn't require a prostate. There's tons of sensitive nerve endings in the anal canal. What? Don't tell us you're an anal virgin
Jan 3, 3:12 pm
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