Lesbians and Bi girls - your thoughts please

Contributor: Joanie Joanie
Hi ladies. I'm a girl and I'm with my first ever girlfriend. We had sex a couple of times and I loved performing oral on her. I have absolutely no problem with the taste/smell, I love that. However when it comes to the texture of her "juices", I do have a problem. I really wish I wouldn't, but I do and it makes me a little sad It just feels like mucus in my mouth and I can only think about spitting it out. I feel pretty alone in my situation because every other lesbian doesn't seem to have this problem and so I wanted to know your thoughts on vaginal lubrication when giving oral sex. How do you honestly feel about it and if you have a problem with it, how do you deal with it?

I know dental dams would solve this but to me they just cut the fun for both partners.

Thank you so much for your thoughts, I really appreciate.

Joanie.
03/28/2014
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Contributor: dv8 dv8
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Originally posted by Joanie
Hi ladies. I'm a girl and I'm with my first ever girlfriend. We had sex a couple of times and I loved performing oral on her. I have absolutely no problem with the taste/smell, I love that. However when it comes to the texture of her ... more
Dental dams may cut the fun but safe sex is important. In the long run, she probably won't be your only girlfriend so developing safe sex habits help you not to contract or transmit herpes or HPV or anything worse.

Anyway, the thickness of vaginal secretions varies over the course of the month. They're not always going to be a texture you like. You could try having your girlfriend drink more water. You could also add some lube.
03/28/2014
Contributor: SaucyxGirl SaucyxGirl
I am going to second the addition of lube. I never really encountered such an issue with any of the females that I was with, but did have a friend who said he didn't like the girl juice even though he enjoyed performing oral on his girl friends. He got around the issue with lube. Just remember that flavored lubes can cause problems for girls so try to stick with non flavored.

Also dv8 is right about safe sex practices. It always a good thing to get in the habit of practicing safe sex.
03/29/2014
Contributor: Joanie Joanie
Thanks for your replies. We do practice safe sex, we've both been tested. I tried lube but it just doesn't help, it stays the same. It sucks that I can't 100% enjoy oral sex because of this and I'm always nervous about gagging too much.

I was just hoping to hear from other women who kind of feel the same way. Anyone? I would feel less alone...
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