For the gents: Do you enjoying gagging during oral?

Contributor: Mr. & Mrs. Peg Mr. & Mrs. Peg
You see it a lot in porn these days and (like a lot of things in porn) the actresses really seem to be enjoying it in some movies. I can't see how this is even close to being the case. I am a bit freaked out by it and don't find it hot to see her with mascara all over her face because her eyes have been watering. I just need to know why there is so much gagging in porn these days!
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
Yes....gagging is HOT!
rdytogo , MR Chickhabit , AussieSarah , Kinkypixie , Rayne Millaray , gehuwd , dhig , jcprice02 , Rachel Nunez , briluminary
10  (19%)'s not hot at all!
ZenaidaMacroura , sbon , Gunsmoke , Kindred , Airekah , ToyTimeTim , leatherlover , married with children , indiglo , Elias McLovin , Stujen , ScottA , Naughty Student , Miguel M. , SexyStuff , dpalms , Miss Jenn , RubberDuckie , Sweet-Justice , Hallmar82 , Taylor Von , jjonk , newfoundlust , AgnesTrevejo , KennyMister , RonLee , angel142stx , potstickers , Blinkfat , jewelsngems
30  (57%)
As long as she is having fun, I don't care if she gags or not.
Redboxbaby , That Guy , jakjak , Xavier7 , Stagger13 , skatman91 , muffles , ac0313 , The Curious Couple , MaryExy , daniel and frances , averageguyextrodinarypleasure , looking1234
13  (25%)
Total votes: 53
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Contributor: GingerAnn GingerAnn
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Contributor: ~LaUr3n~ ~LaUr3n~
I'll let my partner vote, but no, my partner hates it. Is turned off by it and finds it gross.
Contributor: ZenaidaMacroura ZenaidaMacroura
I voted for my boyfriend. He hates it and makes me mute the TV when I'm watching porn and the gagging starts.
Contributor: sbon sbon
I voted for my boyfriend, but considering that the first time I gagged with him he kind of freaked out and pulled away real fast and asked if I was okay, I'm gonna say he's not a huge fan of it.
Contributor: rdytogo rdytogo
I like it when she does just a little. My wife on the other hand...not so much.
Contributor: DeliciousSurprise DeliciousSurprise
I'm not a man, so I won't vote in your poll, lest I skew it, but when I'm receiving fellatio, I like when my partner gags.
(But not to the point of true discomfort. A little here and there, yes. A totally uncomfortable discomfiting gagfest, no.)

I, however, do not like to gag when I'm providing oral sex.
Contributor: MR Chickhabit MR Chickhabit
gagging is supah dupah hot. messier is always better. always.
Contributor: Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
I am voting for my husband, since he is out of town. I know this would be his answer. He is always game for anything, as long as it is fun for me. He always tells me that he loves to watch me enjoy myself.
Contributor: Kindred Kindred
I find gagging a turn off. It makes me nauseous when I hear it in porn.
Contributor: Airekah Airekah
It's okay in the heat of the moment, but forces gagging, ughhh. gross.
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
No gagging for me - this is suppose to be fun right? I can't see my girl enjoying it and we're not into forced play at all - vanilla is what I think they call it around here!
Contributor: ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
Nothing turns me off faster, I have to much concern for the wife to enjoy it. Plus I know she does not enjoy gagging on me.

I hate to see it in porn as well.
Contributor: That Guy That Guy
I'm bothered by the mere existence of gag reflexes, so to the extent that it prevents my partner from going for the deep-throat, I don't care for it. Nor do I care much for the running mascara.

On the other hand, in bondage videos, it can be pretty hot. I'm a big fan of Mika Tan, and she's adorable even when she's gagging. I'm still not about to try it myself. I'm pretty sure it'd get the safe word called right away, and I'd lose my sleeping in the bed privileges for at least a week.
Contributor: Mr. & Mrs. Peg Mr. & Mrs. Peg
Thanks for the responses. I love that I can ask these questions at Eden and get real responses. I don't have "guy" friends I can talk about this stuff with. So really, thank you.
Contributor: Vaccinium Vaccinium
I appreciate it greatly when my wife deep throats me, but damn do I feel guilty when she gags on it.

Seeing it done in porn doesn't necessarily do much for me, nor does it overly turn me on. Usually I just fast forward through it to something more interesting.
Contributor: married with children married with children
not into it. the act of sex should be enjoyed by both. I dont see how gagging can be enjoyable.
Contributor: indiglo indiglo
This is my man's vote - he hates it and thinks it's gross and says it does nothing for him.
Contributor: MR Chickhabit MR Chickhabit
Originally posted by married with children
not into it. the act of sex should be enjoyed by both. I dont see how gagging can be enjoyable.
some people really love being filled and used. not myself personally, but some people do.
Contributor: toxie m toxie m
I had an ex who loved it, he'd request that I wear extra eyeliner so that it'd all run down my face when I gagged. My current boyfriend likes it too, though not as much as that.
Contributor: ud328 ud328
I don't really like it but its happened on occasion. I'd prefer to not choke whom ever is going down on me but if a girl really likes doing it, and she happens to gag herself, then I'm okay with it. Guess I'm saying it doesn't turn me on, but it doesn't turn me off either.
Contributor: Just A Girl Just A Girl
Originally posted by married with children
not into it. the act of sex should be enjoyed by both. I dont see how gagging can be enjoyable.
Like Mr Chickhabit said, some people (like me) get off on being used so getting to the point of gagging isn't a negative for me or for him. Particularly when he applies force. I don't wear mascara as someone else wrote but I do often tear up which I also find very pleasurable.

I'm not voting either because I'm not a guy but I really prefer to watch porn where there is oral sex with force to the point of gagging. The ordinary blow job porn doesn't do anything for me at all.

But then again I'm as submissive as they come and love to be used. To each his own.
Contributor: Red Vinyl Kitty Red Vinyl Kitty
I wish there was an "Other". I don't actually have a gag reflex. I've been to the doctor for things like throat swabs, and they've never been able to set it off, even when they try. They're always surprised and wonder why that is. So, I'm not sure if it's a turn on for my partner, but I couldn't do it if I tried.

Still, he has no complaints about the non-gagging.
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
It would be a big turn-off. I just can't see that experiencing that would be fun, and I don't like it when she's not having fun.

Well, at least for something as silly as gagging during oral, which wouldn't improve it for me anyway. I wouldn't have a problem saving up brownie points for her to do some other things that she might not find completely fun (but still not no-fun for her).
Contributor: Rayne Millaray Rayne Millaray
I voted for M, cause he's not a big forum guy. He loves when I gag.
Contributor: Naughty Student Naughty Student
My partner doesn't like it. It makes him feel bad if I gag, if I hurt/gag or whatever it turns him off right away.
Contributor: Miguel M. Miguel M.
Originally posted by Mr. & Mrs. Peg
You see it a lot in porn these days and (like a lot of things in porn) the actresses really seem to be enjoying it in some movies. I can't see how this is even close to being the case. I am a bit freaked out by it and don't find it hot to see ... more
No, you're not broken. There is nothing wrong with you or your sexuality. Your sexuality works as it should.

The following is a critique on the industry.

Give it a rest people...the sound of gagging and near vomiting! First, it really is disgusting. Second, are you such a sucker that you believe anything that is presented to you?

What you see on the porn flicks are SO BOGUS! The actresses are paid to do more than show up looking hot, act like they are in heat for (what a coincidence!) whatever the movie is about, and have sex. It turns out that they have to "play" the part even in the comments, words, and exaggerations that they yell out.

Each production company/crew/artist has their "cue" words that sound like they are enjoying it, but in reality are CUE words that signal something else to the other actors/actresses and the filming crew. This is for keeping the "image" or "fantasy" of the script going. Even when there is no script you can listen for and hear the "cue" words.

Here's an example:
When the actress can not take it any more she says to the actor something like, "Oh baby, I want you to come!". Sometimes the actor asks back, "Are you sure?" And she says, "Yes, I want you to come." Or, she says, "I want to taste your cum."

This exchange of communication is really about something else. The "cue" words really translate to this. ACTRESS, "I can't take it anymore so finish up." ACTOR, "Are you sure? We have to make this scene fill a full 5 minutes of video time." ACTRESS, "Yes, that' all I can take of your pounding/bad breath/smelly body."

Now for the gagging scenes. This has actually taken the industry by storm in less than a few years. It did exist before but it was not the fad that it is now. Do you remember the song by Lady Gaga, Poker Face? In that song, the chorus actually is misleading, but if you listen closely you can hear it go something like this, "Poke, poke, fuck her face" (not exactly but close estimation). That song turned it, gagging, into a rage across the porn industry. Add to that the incredible competition that porn studios have and you can begin to see why this is so huge.

Porn video companies are not just looking for the hottest performers anymore, they are looking for the performers that can out perform their competitors' actors/actresses. This is similar to competing horse racing stables attempting to bring in the fastest performing horses. What is that performance exactly? Well the action played out changes from time to time, but one thing does not change...the incredible ability of the female performer to withstand pain. No joke.

About a 10 years ago, the fad was anal...everything had something anal going on. From time to time the fad is girls right out of high school/barely legal (this has had many cycles). That was the case about 5 years ago. Now, the fad is gagging. What will be next? Who knows? But it will include the performers looking at the camera and saying that they love it, or it's all good, or whatever it takes to not pop the fantasy bubble. Because the fantasy that those images contain, well let's just say that that is where the real money in porn is.

Thanks for your time.
Contributor: SexyStuff SexyStuff
The hubs hates it b/c he thinks it means I'm not enjoying it
Contributor: Taylor Von Taylor Von
Im a easy 'gagger'. Even if my boyfriend liked it thats one thing im not ok with... ever! That dont mean I haven't learned how to do all the things he still likes with my mouth, I just know my points of no return. He actually knows them too, I like when he 'f*cks me in the mouth' but he never shoves it in to far...gag
Contributor: dhig dhig
It's only hot if she likes a rougher type of scene. If she doesn't enjoy it (or anything else), then I don't find it arousing