LADIES: Can you orgasm here or there, can you orgasm anywhere?

The New Intimacy

Featured by EdenFantasys

Oral sex enhancers
Oral sex accessories
How To Rim
How To Rim: Rimming Tips To Make Him Moan
Discover Now
Doc Johnson good head deep throat spray
Deep throat spray

LADIES: Can you orgasm here or there, can you orgasm anywhere?

Skip to last post
Set alerts
Updates
Forum search
Contributor: Tessa Taboo Tessa Taboo
I have this weird thing.... I can't have an orgasm if I have to hold myself up. For example: In the 69 position, he has to be on top, because I just can't get off if I have to be on top. If we are having sex and I am on top, the only way I can get off is if he is holding my hips and doing all the work while I'm leaning over on top of him. I can't get off standing up, either.

Am I the only one?
11/15/2011
  • Save Extra 50% On Sexobot Attachment
  • Upgrade Your Hands-Free Play!
  • Save 70% On Selected Items. Limited Quantity
  • Complete strap-on set for extra 15% off
  • Save 50% On Shower Nozzle With Enema Set
  • 1
  • 2
  • 3
  • 4
  • 5
All promotions
Contributor: GingerAnn GingerAnn
Engaging topic analysis of Oral sex enhancers:

Miracle fruit and oral sex
Obviously, there are a large number of people who do not care for the taste of their partners' semen or vaginal secretions, which can be a shame...

Do you tell your partner if she gives bad head?
Men do you tell a partner if she is bad at giving head?

silent clitoral vibe?
I need something a little less powerful than the Hitachi magic wand and much more quiet. Suggestions?

Do you prefer oral sex with or without additional stimulation (men and women)?
I love using clitoral vibrators and being fingered while I'm receiving oral, but my significant other prefers straight up oral stimulation. What do...

What do you like during oral sex?
what do you like during oral? (for the men)
11/15/2011
Contributor: SilverIsis SilverIsis
I myself have gotten off in a variety of positions, but I have had partners in the past that could not even maintain an erection if they were not in a particular position.
11/15/2011
Contributor: Ghost Ghost
I have certain positions where it's easier for me. I think when you are in different positions, your nerves end up in slightly different juxtapositions, making them more exposed sometimes and less exposed other times.
11/15/2011
Contributor: LQ LQ
Hrmm. I can't think of any position that I absolutely can't orgasm in at the moment, though on-top tends to be the easiest. I actually just had to respond because the topic title made me laugh.

*wanders off mumbling "Can you do it in a box? Can you do it with a fox?...*
11/15/2011
Contributor: Tessa Taboo Tessa Taboo
Quote:
Originally posted by Ghost
I have certain positions where it's easier for me. I think when you are in different positions, your nerves end up in slightly different juxtapositions, making them more exposed sometimes and less exposed other times.
I considered that possibly it was just positioning and all that, but, it's always been like that, and I can't even do it with clitoral stimulation!
11/15/2011
Contributor: Shellz31 Shellz31
I don't have a problem with standing, riding etc. But it does take more effort.
11/15/2011
Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
Quote:
Originally posted by LQ
Hrmm. I can't think of any position that I absolutely can't orgasm in at the moment, though on-top tends to be the easiest. I actually just had to respond because the topic title made me laugh.

*wanders off mumbling "Can you do it ... more
Lol, glad to know I wasn't the only one thinking that.

I also can't think of any positions right off the top of the head where orgasming is more difficult because of the position.
11/15/2011
Contributor: AngelvMaynard AngelvMaynard
I definitely have an easier time in some positions than I do in others. I cannot orgasm in doggie unless I'm using something for clitoral stimulation.
11/15/2011
Contributor: Sex'и'Violence Sex'и'Violence
I can, but it takes longer if I am holding myself up. Something about not wanting to fall. :s
11/15/2011
Contributor: - Kira - - Kira -
I can orgasm on top but it's really difficult for me. Usually we do like you said and when I get close I fall back a little and he pulls my hips. For all that, girl on top doesn't tend to be anything special. I think it has to do with the fact that I can't cum and thrust at the same time so I can't do it to completion on my own. I'm also just not comfortable in that position because it hurts my legs. The leg pain then in turn also makes it harder for me to cum. So yeah...
11/15/2011
Contributor: Tessa Taboo Tessa Taboo
Quote:
Originally posted by - Kira -
I can orgasm on top but it's really difficult for me. Usually we do like you said and when I get close I fall back a little and he pulls my hips. For all that, girl on top doesn't tend to be anything special. I think it has to do with the ... more
I think all that is a lot of my problem as well. And my knees tend to get weak when I get close, so it's either orgasm or hold myself up.
11/16/2011
Contributor: sweetart sweetart
Quote:
Originally posted by Tessa Taboo
I have this weird thing.... I can't have an orgasm if I have to hold myself up. For example: In the 69 position, he has to be on top, because I just can't get off if I have to be on top. If we are having sex and I am on top, the only way I ... more
It takes a lot of focus for me to finish in other positions that aren't missionary. I'm boring I suppose
11/26/2011
Contributor: geliebt geliebt
I have a hell of a time climaxing without toys in any position, but I've never even tried anything other than completely relaxed, laying on my back. It takes all I have to focus on an orgasm, so holding myself up totally takes away from it!
11/26/2011
Contributor: Undecided Undecided
I can orgasm almost anywhere
06/08/2012