Today, a little joke was posted on Edenfantasys' Facebook page about "finding the clitoris." It made me wonder, since I've heard this wording used in the past: how does one not know where a clitoris is?

I believe that the majority of reviewers and members of the Edenfantasys community know that the clitoris is an external piece of the genitalia that extends internally and can be stimulated both through pressing at the areas where it is not seen (the crura) and also directly on the clitoris or clitoral hood.

Are they confusing the clitoris with the g-spot, a relatively harder to find area? Or do they truly mean that people are unable to see where the clitoris is? Perhaps they mean that the person is unaware of HOW to stimulate the clitoris?

What are your thoughts on this extremely old joke? Do you find it funny? What are its origins?

As always, responses are appreciated. Thank you.

Sir less

Today, a little joke was posted on Edenfantasys' Facebook page about "finding the clitoris." It made me wonder, since I've heard this wording used in the past: how does one not know where a clitoris is?

I believe that the majority of reviewers and members of the Edenfantasys community know that the clitoris is an external piece of the genitalia that extends internally and can be stimulated both through pressing at the areas where it is not seen (the crura) and also directly on the clitoris or clitoral hood.

Are they confusing the clitoris with the g-spot, a relatively harder to find area? Or do they truly mean that people are unable to see where the clitoris is? Perhaps they mean that the person is unaware of HOW to stimulate the clitoris?

What are your thoughts on this extremely old joke? Do you find it funny? What are its origins?

As always, responses are appreciated. Thank you.

Sir less

Today, a little joke was posted on Edenfantasys' Facebook page about "finding the clitoris." It made me wonder, since I've heard this wording used in the past: how does one not know where a clitoris is?

I believe that the majority of reviewers and members of the Edenfantasys community know that the clitoris is an external piece of the genitalia that extends internally and can be stimulated both through pressing at the areas where it is not seen (the crura) and also directly on the clitoris or clitoral hood.

Are they confusing the clitoris with the g-spot, a relatively harder to find area? Or do they truly mean that people are unable to see where the clitoris is? Perhaps they mean that the person is unaware of HOW to stimulate the clitoris?

What are your thoughts on this extremely old joke? Do you find it funny? What are its origins?

As always, responses are appreciated. Thank you.

Sir less

I've seen many variations on that joke that I'm tired of it, but there is truth to the idea that some men are unaware of female anatomy.

I place a huge amount of blame on Playboy, which is probably the first girlie magazine every boy gets his hands on. They create unreal expectations by air-brushing out every freckle, pimple or stretchmark, but even worse is that sometime in the early-80's they started air-brushing away female anatomy.

Once hairless became the craze, you might see the clitoral hood and the labia majora, but never anything more detailed, and never in close-up. I made the connection when my husband had a subscription to the magazine which included online access. When comparing the un-retouched online photos to the same photos in the print edition, it was obvious that the editors went to great pains to remove any shots including the clitoris and/or labia minora from the magazine. less