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Husband and Wife
Last night my hubby was in the mood and I of course wasn't because I was on my period. So the thought of anything sexual coming from me was out of the question. Hubby asked for the normal blow job or hand job, which I will normally do during this
Last night my hubby was in the mood and I of course wasn't because I was on my period. So the thought of anything sexual coming from me was out of the question. Hubby asked for the normal blow job or hand job, which I will normally do during this week of my period. But last night I wasn't up to it. He seemed ok with it and I made a joke about not wanting the bed to shake tonight ( this happens usually when he jerks off at night while I am sleeping, it wakes me up which pisses me off but I know he has needs) he responded well then don't fall a sleep yet. And he then started to mastebate right in front of me. Oh my gosh I had never seen him be so open to do this. I mean we have done things like this before but normally do it together. This was the first time he did it in front of me and was like he didn't care what I said he was going to cum. All I know was it a huge turn on and If I wasn't on my period I may joined him!! So my question is this, ladies have you ever seen this and I'm strange for thinking how hot this was. I mean I've caught him jerking off before, and wasn't as turn on as I was last night!! Thanks and I can't wait to hear from all of you
We are so strange and in the minority on this one. Since being married I never really masturbate and he says he doesn't either. No need. Both of us are totally "available" to the other, if the urge strikes. I simply have never "not been in the mood", to the point of saying "not tonight". Even if I am preoccupied or something, I have no issue letting him please himself in me. He has walked in while I am cooking dinner and had a major hard on, and I will simply bend over, hike my skirt, or drop my jeans and say "have at it, but don't take too long, I have to pull stuff out of the oven in ten minutes". We don't have to make it a huge sex fest (although we often do), but if it is just "relieving sexual tension", why bother with his hand, if my hand, my mouth, my vagina and my tush are immediately available for his thrusting pleasure, anytime, with no reservations needed??? It's why I really don't get the idea of married people masturbating? I have pleasured myself with a finger or toy, if he is away on business (and usually, I am letting him watch, via a secure online connection), but other then that, if we are together, I would much rather have his tongue on my clit then my own finger. I don't see how any lady wouldn't. I know I am odd that way. I get it. All I have to do is read all the blogs here.
In fact, last Sunday I took a nap while my hubby was busy paying bills. I woke up feeling very "needy" sexually. I knew he was still up to his ears in bills and paperwork for home and his business, but I sauntered into the home office and hiked my leg up on the office chair, basically putting my girlie parts right in his face, and said "Honey, do you have a moment to get me off"? He smiled, said "sure", turned his head and worked my clit into a wonderful orgasm right then and there. At that point I was soaked and hot, but knew he had to work. I said, "I am going back to bed, feel free to join me anytime you can". I went back to the bedroom, watched a sappy Hallmark love movie and finally, my dear guy joined me, already hard as a rock from thinking about me, no doubt, and rode me like a bronco for the next hour. Would I have gotten all that from my finger??? (or even my Hitachi). Nope, no way, no how. At least for me, sex is a "team sport", and it works well that way.
Basically, back to the original question, since we don't masturbate, we don't watch each other do it. If we are going to play with our parts, we want to be playing with each others parts, not watching. That's just us. Glad others find what works for them.