Personally making love is awsum if u are in love but I wanna be fucked lol.
What are the biggest differences between fucking and making love? Which do you prefer?
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What are the biggest differences between fucking and making love? Which do you prefer?
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Which do you prefer personally I wanna be fucked.
03/01/2012
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I want to vote on this... but it really all just depends on my mood.
03/01/2012
Making love
03/01/2012
I think that even if you ARE in love, sometimes a good hard romp in the sack just for the fun of it and because you can is still just as good! You can definitely have both
03/01/2012
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However, to add to this....If my husband ever called it "fucking" or " i want to fuck you" id probably smack him and say get over himself LOL.
Originally posted by
MamaDivine
I think that even if you ARE in love, sometimes a good hard romp in the sack just for the fun of it and because you can is still just as good! You can definitely have both
03/01/2012
Fucking
03/01/2012
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deff being fucked for sure maken love is sweet and good but being fucked in a sence is just as loving
Originally posted by
Secret Pleasure
Which do you prefer personally I wanna be fucked.
03/01/2012
People will probably roll theirs eyes at my answer but when I'm in a relationship with someone I want to make love OR have sex. To me, saying you're fucking me or fucked me makes me feel dirty and I just feel it's disrespectful. Fucking to me is what happens with sluts(men and women in that word). That's just how I feel about that word, in no way do I mean to offend anyone here that likes to use that word to describe it and I'm not saying you're a slut if you do. (if that makes sense?).
03/02/2012
I think of fucking as a more carnal and less touchy-feely-emotional ly-attached activity. Much more fun, too!
03/02/2012
I like both. But being fucked might be just a little better.
03/02/2012
i want to vote but the hubby and i like both, it depends on the mood
03/02/2012
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doesnt matter to me
Originally posted by
Secret Pleasure
Which do you prefer personally I wanna be fucked.
03/02/2012
We do both also, depending on mood... each has its value and its place.
03/02/2012
It really depends!
03/02/2012
No matter how hard or soft we play, what things you say or what you wear or the toys you play with in the session, it's all "making love" because we love the one we're with.
03/02/2012
There is a fine line. You can have both in the same session. You can have both at the same time.
03/02/2012
There should be a other option, it depends on my mood.
03/02/2012
I do love it when my man says, "Hey, wanna fuck?" It gets me going. I think using the term "Make love" sounds creepy sometimes. I use the word "fuck" entirely too much, especially during sex. He doesn't seem to mind at all, it turns him on.
03/02/2012
It's all the same to me when I'm in love. Just because it's a little rough with not a lot of foreplay or romance doesn't mean there's no love behind it
03/02/2012
i get fucked all the time. i want the slow romantic, take your time love making.
03/02/2012
It is both. You can have both in the same session. Fucking can be making love. Making love can be fucking. I see fucking as more of a less-emotional kind of thing and love making very emotional. But no matter what it is.. it can still happen in the same session and i prefer it that way. If I love my man and we are "fucking" then it is still fucking AND making love. No matter what situation.
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03/02/2012
I like both but I hate calling it making love, just sounds stupid to me.
03/02/2012
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agree
Originally posted by
MamaDivine
I think that even if you ARE in love, sometimes a good hard romp in the sack just for the fun of it and because you can is still just as good! You can definitely have both
03/02/2012
i think there is a difference and i enjoy both
03/02/2012
I'm going to say I prefer making love because I don't get it often. I mostly get fucked, which is nice, too.
03/02/2012
I agree. It depends on my mood. Making love is great but sometimes ya just gotta fuck.
03/02/2012
I prefer the word having sex instead of the other. I love having sex with the one I'm in love with if that makes sense. Doesn't mean we're sweet, emotional, gentle about it.
03/03/2012
I prefer the word having sex instead of the other. I love having sex with the one I'm in love with if that makes sense. Doesn't mean we're sweet, emotional, gentle about it.
03/03/2012
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When someone takes my money and does not do the job I want. I am FUCKED. When someone steals data from my computer, I am FUCKED.
Originally posted by
Secret Pleasure
Which do you prefer personally I wanna be fucked.
When I am with my husband and we are being intimate, we are MAKING LOVE.
He can pound the heck out of me, six ways to Sunday. He can pound me vaginally or turn me upside down and do me anally. He can be sweet and gentle or hard and nasty....but we are STILL "making love". He LOVES ME and I LOVE HIM and everything we do is out of LOVE.
The WORLD has a habit of FUCKING me over. My hubby NEVER will.
03/03/2012
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Interesting how we all have such different takes. I would NEVER use the term FUCKED for MAKING LOVE (which IS what we proudly call it...no matter what we are doing).
Originally posted by
Kitka
I like both but I hate calling it making love, just sounds stupid to me.
03/03/2012
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There IS a difference, indeed. I for one do NOT like anyone who tries to FUCK with me. I LOVE the man I make love to. Hard or soft, sometimes nasty and rough...either way, we LOVE making LOVE. Which IS what it is. FUCKED is what I get from folks trying to rip me off.
Originally posted by
HugsAndBites
i think there is a difference and i enjoy both
03/03/2012
Both
03/11/2012
make love
03/11/2012
makeing love
03/11/2012
The difference is in attitude. I don't 'make love', even as I am in love. Sex is carnal and wild and passionate, and the waters can rise from slow and easy to fast and fervored very quickly. I prefer fucking and being fucked because the language is harsh and upfront; I move myself and my partner the same.
03/11/2012
FUCKING! Once in a while I like nice sex, but that is definitely not something I do often... I like it seriously kinky almost all the time
03/12/2012
Both...but I chose making love because it seems to be more passionate than just fucking.
03/12/2012
Both. After 23 years we have learned how to do both at the same time. I guess if I HAD to chose, I would go with making love.
03/31/2012
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I would much rather hear my wife say "fuck me", than "you may commence coitus"
Originally posted by
P'Gell
I do love it when my man says, "Hey, wanna fuck?" It gets me going. I think using the term "Make love" sounds creepy sometimes. I use the word "fuck" entirely too much, especially during sex. He doesn't seem to mind at all, it turns him on.
03/31/2012
For us, making love is a long, sensual experience, where as fucking is more intense and urgent. I would say we make love much more often, although we enjoy fucking as well.
03/31/2012
7/10 times, I want to make love. But the other three times, just fuck me! My beau doesn't like to fuck, though, so mostly I fuck myself later.
04/01/2012
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I chose making love but really I like both depending on situation.Making love to me is sensually slow,taking every inch of each other in..you know with alot of emotion. Fucking is in the heat of the moment with just your hormones taking over and running the show...We do alot of fucking but everyonce in awhile we make love.Im a sensual person so wish we did it more often
Originally posted by
Secret Pleasure
Which do you prefer personally I wanna be fucked.
05/05/2012
More than not, I want to feel like we're making love, not just fucking. There are times it's just a fuck fest and that's great, but in general I want it to feel personal and emotionally intimate as well as sexually
05/05/2012
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I'm not sure what your definition of the two are. Making love, to me, means sex with someone you truly love. To me, making love doesn't neccessarily mean it has to be slow and easy. Making love can be rough, hard, deep love too! That's what my making love is. Being F'd to me sort of seems more like just wham, bam, thank you maa'm and you're done. No love in there, no sensuality, no intimacy or feelings. That's not what I enjoy.
Originally posted by
Secret Pleasure
Which do you prefer personally I wanna be fucked.
05/05/2012
I want both
05/05/2012
I liked to be fucked.
05/05/2012
Me and my wife are in love and prefer the hard/fast fucking the majority of the time. It is so much better
05/07/2012
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Making love to the love of my life has got to be the best feeling ever. But yeah, sometimes I want a good fuck.
Originally posted by
Secret Pleasure
Which do you prefer personally I wanna be fucked.
05/07/2012
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i like a mixture of both- a little romance here and there si great
Originally posted by
Secret Pleasure
Which do you prefer personally I wanna be fucked.
05/07/2012
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i agree 100%. I think that that's the best type of sex- and I think that there are three kinds- making love which can bring tears to your eyes and is usually slower in my mind, fucking which is carnal and hot and fast and just straight sex which is somewhere in the middle. I don't think you can really CHOOSE to make love any ol time you want though. I think the moment grabs you and you realize how suited you are, how amazing your chemistry is and how deeply you love eachother and boom! I also don't appreciate being 'fucked' when I'm not into it. One sided fucking isn't really fun and making love doesn't really happen if its one sided so you slip into straight sex.
Originally posted by
LusciousLollypop
It is both. You can have both in the same session. Fucking can be making love. Making love can be fucking. I see fucking as more of a less-emotional kind of thing and love making very emotional. But no matter what it is.. it can still happen in the
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It is both. You can have both in the same session. Fucking can be making love. Making love can be fucking. I see fucking as more of a less-emotional kind of thing and love making very emotional. But no matter what it is.. it can still happen in the same session and i prefer it that way. If I love my man and we are "fucking" then it is still fucking AND making love. No matter what situation.
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05/07/2012
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Most of the time I want to be fucked, but sometimes I feel sad and vulnerable, and I want to be handled more gently.
Originally posted by
Secret Pleasure
Which do you prefer personally I wanna be fucked.
05/07/2012
If you love the person you're doing it with, it's always making love no matter the 'tone' of the encounter! Which is kind of liberating.
12/17/2012
For us the difference between fucking and making love has to do with the intensity. I mean we have times when we make love very enthusiatically with sweaty sheets, toys and spanking but the second the handcuffs, choking, foul language and "I'm going to use you until you collapse" mentality comes out of either one of us we are in full on fuck me territory. There's a sort of animalistic feeling to fucking I think. It's very primal and unless I really need reassurance it's what I prefer.
12/18/2012
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Exactly
Originally posted by
chicmichiw
If you love the person you're doing it with, it's always making love no matter the 'tone' of the encounter! Which is kind of liberating.
12/21/2012
Yeah, I like both, too. Sometimes it's nice to get really romantic, other times we just have to get primal. We've also had really passionate/aggressive sex that was also deeply affectionate at the same time. One of the great things about being REALLY close with someone is that you can take whatever emotions you're feeling into the bedroom with you and experience something new and often magical. We just go where it takes us.
12/21/2012
I don't see that there's that big of a difference. It's just another way of saying the same thing. The emotions that go into it don't have to be attached to how you label it. "Fucking" can be just as emotional, satisfying, gratifying, intimate and involved as "making love." My guy and I enjoy kinky, aggressive, rough sex. It's highly emotional and intimate, because it's how we connect to each other that way that is mutually satisfying and loving. I've never shared so many personal, intimate fantasies and secrets with anyone else, and he has never done that with anyone to the extent that he has with me. It's very loving and emotionally fulfilling for us because of that, and it's something that we share with just each other and it's extremely gratifying to feel that safe with someone, to share that kind of understanding, and sexual harmony. I've had slow, "loving," sensual sex with people who promised me the world and told me I was so much to them...but they really were using me and didn't care about understanding me and meeting my needs. Love is expressed in many different ways for many different people, and the less we attach labels to it, the more we'll understand that.
12/21/2012
I think it's up to each person to decide the difference for themselves
12/21/2012
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Making love feels better.
Originally posted by
Secret Pleasure
Which do you prefer personally I wanna be fucked.
12/21/2012
I keep telling him I want to make love...but after a minute or two I end up telling him to "Fuck me like slut!", so I think I just like to be fucked.
01/11/2013
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really wish i could vote twice bc it really depends on our mood
Originally posted by
Secret Pleasure
Which do you prefer personally I wanna be fucked.
01/18/2013
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lol same here
Originally posted by
SecretKinksters
I keep telling him I want to make love...but after a minute or two I end up telling him to "Fuck me like slut!", so I think I just like to be fucked.
01/18/2013
It definitely depends on the mood I'm in. Most days I like a good, hard fuck. Sometimes I'm in the mood to be snuggled and spend a lot of time kissing...
01/18/2013
I feel there are three kinds of sex with your partner:
1) Making love
2) Carnal, I'm gonna give it to you good, fuck the sh*t out of me making love, where a partner might take a more dominant lead the entire time or at some points
3) Playful, experimental,where the focus is spending time with your partner and having fun with toys, etc.
It's all about the mood.
1) Making love
2) Carnal, I'm gonna give it to you good, fuck the sh*t out of me making love, where a partner might take a more dominant lead the entire time or at some points
3) Playful, experimental,where the focus is spending time with your partner and having fun with toys, etc.
It's all about the mood.
01/18/2013
I personally think that making love is nice, slow and passionate. Now fucking is hardcore fuck me make it hurt so bad it feels good kind of fucking like hair pulling choke me sex which I love a lot more often
01/18/2013
making love
01/18/2013
depends on my mood
01/18/2013
There's sex. No two ways around it, no matter what you call it. I love having sex with someone I love, but I have been with questionable sorts before where I didn't even like them. But yes, I prefer calling it an act of love, as preferable to just being a physical desperate action.
01/19/2013
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definitely only fucking, I don't like feelings or relationships
Originally posted by
Secret Pleasure
Which do you prefer personally I wanna be fucked.
01/19/2013
I've never "made love".
01/24/2013
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I could never say it as well as you just did, so I'm glad you could say it for me
Originally posted by
Bignuf
When someone takes my money and does not do the job I want. I am FUCKED. When someone steals data from my computer, I am FUCKED.
When I am with my husband and we are being intimate, we are MAKING LOVE.
He can pound the heck out of me, ... more
When I am with my husband and we are being intimate, we are MAKING LOVE.
He can pound the heck out of me, ... more
When someone takes my money and does not do the job I want. I am FUCKED. When someone steals data from my computer, I am FUCKED.
When I am with my husband and we are being intimate, we are MAKING LOVE.
He can pound the heck out of me, six ways to Sunday. He can pound me vaginally or turn me upside down and do me anally. He can be sweet and gentle or hard and nasty....but we are STILL "making love". He LOVES ME and I LOVE HIM and everything we do is out of LOVE.
The WORLD has a habit of FUCKING me over. My hubby NEVER will. less
When I am with my husband and we are being intimate, we are MAKING LOVE.
He can pound the heck out of me, six ways to Sunday. He can pound me vaginally or turn me upside down and do me anally. He can be sweet and gentle or hard and nasty....but we are STILL "making love". He LOVES ME and I LOVE HIM and everything we do is out of LOVE.
The WORLD has a habit of FUCKING me over. My hubby NEVER will. less
01/24/2013
I voted making love, because I never want to have sex again without love being involved. That being said, sometimes I make love to my wife and other times we fuck. The difference? I think that's up to each to interpret. To me, making love is more tender and sweet, while fucking is more animalistic, hard and heavy.
01/25/2013
Depends, if you're in love or the kind of person who has a lot of partners!
01/26/2013
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i think making love is what you do before you learn how to fuck. after you learn, making love is an option, but most of the time...
Originally posted by
Secret Pleasure
Which do you prefer personally I wanna be fucked.
...i think fucking is more passionate anyway. you can love someone and fuck her brains out...in fact, it's probably a good idea that you do. if you don't, she might get bored with all the sensative love-making and find herself a fireman to put out her fire.
so, it depends on the mood...but mostly fucking.
01/27/2013
I mean, we love each other and we're always "making love" but it definitely feels less romantic when we're both just horny and rough "fucking
compared to when we're snuggly and lovey "making love". We like both, depends on our moods!
compared to when we're snuggly and lovey "making love". We like both, depends on our moods!
01/27/2013
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With my current partner we are more into love making then fucking but it does get a little rough somewhere in there but its mainly a soft gentle loving session when we have them. Makes it so much more worth it
Originally posted by
Secret Pleasure
Which do you prefer personally I wanna be fucked.
01/27/2013
To me, making love is being romantic, taking it slow, and worrying about how the other person feels more than yourself. Fucking is urgent, rough, hot, Ican'teventhinkabout anythingbuthowgreat I'mfeelingrightnow sex. When I want him to push me around and use me to make himself feel good, then I ask him to fuck me. His face is so beautiful when he's in the zone like that and it feels so fucking good.
I used to tell him I never wanted him to do that to me, but then once when he was drunk and lost himself in his feelings for a couple minutes, I saw how incredibly hot it could be and changed my mind.
I used to tell him I never wanted him to do that to me, but then once when he was drunk and lost himself in his feelings for a couple minutes, I saw how incredibly hot it could be and changed my mind.
01/27/2013
Both.
01/27/2013
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Why can't I choose both? LOL
Originally posted by
Secret Pleasure
Which do you prefer personally I wanna be fucked.
01/29/2013
Wow, I don't even want to vote because it's perfectly split right now.
01/29/2013
Being fucked, lovingly
01/29/2013
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making love. being fucked doesn't seem personal to me.
Originally posted by
Secret Pleasure
Which do you prefer personally I wanna be fucked.
01/30/2013
Overall I tend to be more in the mood to be fucked than to make love, but I don't think I'd be okay with never making love again and only ever getting fucked.
01/30/2013
Being fucked
01/31/2013
I can reach an orgasm with a toy, but spiritual connection from 'making love' simply can not be replaced.
02/28/2013
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