Is massaging your prostate supposed to make you hard?

Contributor: spineyogurt spineyogurt
supposed to make you hard? I usually stay soft
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Contributor: GingerAnn GingerAnn
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Contributor: MrWishyWashy MrWishyWashy
It depends for me. I can usually get hard fairly quick if I stimulate my prostate and tease my cock a little.
Contributor: no longer here no longer here
Mr says with just prostate massage...sometimes I get hard...sometimes I don't...sometimes it cycles in one session for no apparent reason. But hard or not it feels who cares.
Contributor: jg19 jg19
Originally posted by spineyogurt
supposed to make you hard? I usually stay soft
I dont think it has to. But when i do it i am.
Contributor: Incendiaire Incendiaire
I tend to when something hits just the right spot.
Contributor: Pegee03 Pegee03
If it's hard, I usually go soft, if I'm soft, I go hard.
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
It can sometimes. Other times (or in other people) it won't.
Contributor: AmethystSmoke AmethystSmoke
I've noticed that if my husband receives prostate stimulation alone, he'll usually either lose his erection or stay soft.
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
I don't know! My wife doesn't start massaging my prostate until I'm erect. I don't typically lose my erection because she mixes in penile stimulation.
Contributor: Trysexual Trysexual
I tend to only do it when I am hard...and stay hard.
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
The key question is not "Am I hard?" The key question is "Am I enjoying this?" Some people get hard, some people don't, some people get hard on some days, and some people go hard and soft and back during a session. If you like it do it, if not then don't.
Contributor: stlouisxxx stlouisxxx
That question is like asking if someone sucks your toes will you get hard. Everyone is different. It is possible to get hard during prostate stimulation, but it is also possible not to get hard, but still have the super O, or have prostate fluid discharge
Contributor: 1001 Pleasures 1001 Pleasures
It varies with me. Sometimes just rubbing or pressing on the prostate will bone me up quickly, but I've noticed when I'm just focusing on massaging the p-spot (or allowing a top to fuck me), I won't be hard...but I will produce pre-ejaculate fluid like crazy.
Contributor: Bubba29 Bubba29
i lose my erection when only my prostate is stimulated. when i also stimulate my penis, erection stays or comes back.
Contributor: MrClark MrClark
Originally posted by Pegee03
If it's hard, I usually go soft, if I'm soft, I go hard.
This sounds about right. I usually insert p-spot toys before I start masturbating so I'm soft and after a bit of time I will get hard and in some cases harder than normal, but it's variable. I've actually had the hardness fluctuate quite a bit during p-spot massage and masturbation.

I've found if I'm hard when I insert that i'll get soft, which has made it hard to include in my sex life as this can kill the mood. Especially as it sometimes takes a while to get hard again after this happens.

As such so far I've only used p-spot massagers in solo play.

TL;DR not connected but p-spot massage can definitely impact my hardness in both ways.