Bi and gay anal sex

Bi and gay anal sex

OpenMindedGuy OpenMindedGuy
I'm a 45 year old bi guy. I'm not as experienced as many others, but have been with a man one on one, and participated in a couple of MMF threesomes. I enjoy giving oral to men, but have yet to experience receiving anal, which I would very much like to. I'm into pegging and love it, but know the real thing will be so much better. I'd like to hear from bi and gay guys whom have enjoyed, and do enjoy receiving anal sex.
07/23/2017
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GingerAnn GingerAnn
Insightful breakdown of Anal Sex:

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07/23/2017
RonLee RonLee
The real thing is indeed better. However, most of the women who would be pegging me were not really "that into it". So getting pegged by a poor or mediocre pegger might be the difference between getting it from someone who really wanted to do it and was skilled at it too. In any case that is for you to determine the enjoyment of a man vs a toy.
07/23/2017
OpenMindedGuy OpenMindedGuy
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Originally posted by RonLee
The real thing is indeed better. However, most of the women who would be pegging me were not really "that into it". So getting pegged by a poor or mediocre pegger might be the difference between getting it from someone who really wanted ...
The 2 women that used to peg me were very into it. They actually suggested it. They loved being dominant and in control, and they were very good at it. As for the real thing, when I do get the opportunity to have it, I have no doubt I'll love it. I do realize however, that pegging and actual anal sex are 2 different things with different meanings.
07/24/2017
wideopenmale wideopenmale
Real is awesome and srap on can not give feeling of guy cumming on your ass.
07/29/2017
kandy anjel kandy anjel
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Originally posted by OpenMindedGuy
I'm a 45 year old bi guy. I'm not as experienced as many others, but have been with a man one on one, and participated in a couple of MMF threesomes. I enjoy giving oral to men, but have yet to experience receiving anal, which I would very ...
My best friend is a gay man and i asked him he swears the real thing is the best and that it feels absolutely amazing. He said go ahead and try it just take it slow until you are used to it and use lots of desensitizing lubricant at first. He recommends Clean Stream Relax anal lubricant with Lidocaine It doe like most lubricants do and it helps with the pain and irritation for the first time!!!
08/07/2017
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
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Originally posted by kandy anjel
My best friend is a gay man and i asked him he swears the real thing is the best and that it feels absolutely amazing. He said go ahead and try it just take it slow until you are used to it and use lots of desensitizing lubricant at first. He ...
I respect your friends opinion - but IMO when done correctly there is no pain. You just can't rush into it. With adequate lube and preparation my wife and I have both enjoyed anal sex - and never used any kind of desensitizing cream/lube.

Pain is good for you - it tells you that something is wrong.

If it hurts - go to a smaller toy and add more lube. I have a specific tapered toy that I use to get my wife ready for anal sex. When I can work it in and out easily, I know she's ready for me. Some days she doesn't loosen up - so I just tell her 'not tonight'. If she really wants it bad, I'll take the toy out and work back up to it until I can give her what she wants.
08/07/2017
Lena Eden Lena Eden
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Originally posted by kandy anjel
My best friend is a gay man and i asked him he swears the real thing is the best and that it feels absolutely amazing. He said go ahead and try it just take it slow until you are used to it and use lots of desensitizing lubricant at first. He ...
I agree with Gunsmoke that anal sex shouldn't be painful, but pleasurable. I think this Anal Sex Guide will be helpful for anyone who's looking for a perfect anal sexperience.
08/08/2017
keen14you keen14you
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Originally posted by OpenMindedGuy
I'm a 45 year old bi guy. I'm not as experienced as many others, but have been with a man one on one, and participated in a couple of MMF threesomes. I enjoy giving oral to men, but have yet to experience receiving anal, which I would very ...
Hello,
Anal sex can be very incredible, if you know how to prep! Sometimes the "giver" can come across too fast and forceful, and the ass is a very pleasurable area, but needs to be "woken up" first. There are many creams, gels, and lubes containing benzocaine which are very effective at relaxing the inside of the anus, and attentive foreplay extends this effect even further. When your partner is willing to go based on your speed, a whole new world of bliss awaits! Good luck and safety first with your pursuits!
02/05/2018
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