Long Distance Partnerships & toys.

Contributor: apreslapetitmort apreslapetitmort
I've been in a few LDRs before, in fact I recently entered another. I'm lightly in to D/s, and so I was wondering how many of you have been in/are in LDRs, and do have "cybersex" or whatever. I mean, do you think it's normal, healthy, whatever? Or does it weird you out?
I'm curious.
04/08/2012
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Contributor: underHim underHim
I think there is not anything that is quite normal anymore. There are certain things that are still considered more socially acceptable, but I think as far as normal...whats that? I think as long as there are two adults consenting and happy who cares basically. What two people do in the privacy of their own bedrooms is their business. I think it is find and healthy and normal to do. I think if that is what you like and what you are comfortable with who cares? However, if you are not happy with it for whatever reason than try something else, but I think long distance relationships and cybersex is fine.
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Contributor: Annemarie Annemarie
I agree with underHim. "Normal" is changing.

That said, my significant other and I have "Skype dates" wherein we mutually masturbate to orgasm on camera. Sometimes we'll talk dirty, sometimes not. We do this about once a week.
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Contributor: Bzz Bzz
In a LDR, we do this. Not every week, but often. Because we both live with our parents, sometimes it's hard to find a time when people are asleep/out of the house.
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Contributor: TheParrishism TheParrishism
I think people should do what makes them happy. I think it is much more often that people are using the internet to make their relationships work.
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Contributor: SubmissiveFeminist SubmissiveFeminist
It doesn't weird me out but it really doesn't do anything for me on the D/s level. Nada.
04/09/2012
Contributor: apreslapetitmort apreslapetitmort
Yeah I mean I think it's fine and everything, but it's always nice to find out other people's opinions
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Contributor: TheParrishism TheParrishism
I think there is a lot of potential for some very fun and kinky times with the challenge of long distance.
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Contributor: RomanticGoth RomanticGoth
It doesn't weird me out. I've used toys during our dates when we were still online. Or when we'd have phone sex. We never got into Skype, though.
04/10/2012
Contributor: wildorchid wildorchid
I am in an LDR and we use toys, sexting and we even play little masturbation games etc. Phone sex makes me laugh though so that one is out Normal, healthy whatever, if it works for you guys, then that's all that matters.
04/10/2012
Contributor: apreslapetitmort apreslapetitmort
Quote:
Originally posted by wildorchid
I am in an LDR and we use toys, sexting and we even play little masturbation games etc. Phone sex makes me laugh though so that one is out Normal, healthy whatever, if it works for you guys, then that's all that matters.
Yes! Someone else who can't do Phonesex. It's just like "Are you touching yourself?" "Mhmn" ... Maybe I'm not doing it right but still :')
04/12/2012
Contributor: Arosa Amore Arosa Amore
I'm in an LDR, from time to time we do have phone sex (sometimes its works, sometimes we find ourselves laughing or something), we exchange pictures and sext. It's normal for us, until we can get together and enjoy actual intimacy in person.
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