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Contributor: DeeDaw DeeDaw
I'm just curious as to how many of you prefer sex in a relationship versus having sex when you are single. It's just cool to see different peoples' points of view.
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
Lovin' the single life and enjoyin the sex.
Sinfully , Katelyn , Ms. Spice , LoganAshlee.
4  (2%)
I prefer having sex with someone I am in a relationship with and am more compatible with.
DeeDaw , Ansley , SexyTabby , OhMy! , Ghost , EJ , Coralbell , domsub1993 , Jobo , TheSlyFox , Shellz31 , zracer , married with children , indiglo , null , K101 , The Curious Couple , darthkitt3n , aliceinthehole , SMichelle , ateen3 , Lummox , ily , l'amour , Peggi , Jon S , planetrees , Stagger13 , allinonekid , Mike Honcho , Liz2 , Breas , Bignuf , padmeamidala , lobstermanswife , Sublime , Cookie Monster Mike , Gracie , Why , ToyGurl , kittychilla , whitknee , eak59 , (k)InkyIvy , PrettyPurple , switzerland , Rossie , llellsee , wetone123 , Tangerine , SaraU29 , cburger , Rod Ronald , Undead , rom323 , GonetoLovehoney , dks210 , Apirka , ksparkles16 , geliebt , Graniteal , bayosgirl , Badass , ellejay , Form 7 , Ahatmadeofshoes12 , MaiNai , toxie m , kittycatgirl , ViVix , LavenderSkies , sweet&lush , tinadice , Lano4ka , slynch , DiamondKoala , Sohotdinosaur , Incendiaire , PeaceToTheMiddleEast , Harpina is gone , coconut1 , time4me , hatman , deltalima , BlooJay , Lover of Leather , marrythenight , Falsepast , The Geek , breebree , Jenny Smith , Kiwi Green , kittenfacery , jennifur77 , SadeGrey , little miss kinky , VelvetDragon , pasdechat , lilys , sweetpea12 , unfulfilled , d.wooldridge , sexfairy , Crimsondevilsin , thisisadeletedaccount , lineswecast , novanilla , LadyDarknezz , Feisty , satinlady550 , Checkmate , KrissyNovacaine , AliMc , HotMilk , gloomybear , mpfm , sXeVegan90 , hawaiian chick , skeeterlynn , Daofan , *Camoprincess* , epiphanyjayne , Zandrock , Thumper Logic , So Long Ya Doofuses! , Chefbriapink , LunaLuthor , Aisling , rockblenny , subwayrailings , Boyfriend , hem , potstickers , lov69 , dreamsoccer , Supervixen , VanillaFreeSex , SecretKinksters , ihavenipples , Mamastoys , marigolds6 , no longer here , Pink Lily , Ivanna , Jasco , evie.amor , FunFantasys , XxFallenAngelxX , MrWood , Soulsekrou , xfairyxtalex , melliegirl , AMorris89 , kim guthrie 2013 , earthmama
155  (93%)
Other
mama2007 , kroucena , MR Chickhabit , Llahsram , Paco , emiliaa , ladyjo1987 , SydneyScreams
8  (5%)
Total votes: 167
Poll is closed
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Contributor: DeeDaw DeeDaw
I prefer to be in a relationship with my partner.
10/24/2011
Contributor: SexyTabby SexyTabby
After this long I don't really remember the single life but then when I was single I wasn't having sex with others either. I needed a stable relationship before I even considered sex.
10/24/2011
Contributor: domsub1993 domsub1993
Only with my dear husband!
10/25/2011
Contributor: TheSlyFox TheSlyFox
I prefer to have some kind of connection with the person i am sleeping with.
10/26/2011
Contributor: indiglo indiglo
I enjoy it more with my partner. That's because there is a level of trust there that I would not have with a random person. We talk about what we each like, and he remembers what works for me and wants to do it. Plus, due to the trust we feel safe enough to explore other areas and avenues knowing full well that if either of us doesn't enjoy it we have the freedom to say so. Plus, I feel so close to him afterwards.
10/27/2011
Contributor: K101 K101
Quote:
Originally posted by DeeDaw
I'm just curious as to how many of you prefer sex in a relationship versus having sex when you are single. It's just cool to see different peoples' points of view.
I'd never have sex with someone I'm not in a long term relationship with.
10/27/2011
Contributor: The Curious Couple The Curious Couple
My fiancee and I were both virgins when we met. We both saved it for a serious relationship, and we're both happy we waited.
10/27/2011
Contributor: aliceinthehole aliceinthehole
Quote:
Originally posted by DeeDaw
I'm just curious as to how many of you prefer sex in a relationship versus having sex when you are single. It's just cool to see different peoples' points of view.
when i'm single i tend to be a social butterfly if you will. i don't seek the damn things out they just happen to fall into my bed pretty frequently. in a relationship though the sex is pretty damn good too... but you have to work harder at it.

it's nice to have the emotional bond in a relationship. the sex is always different, better, more moving, more fulfilling.
10/27/2011
Contributor: allinonekid allinonekid
For once there's a poll with a single option at 100%
11/22/2011
Contributor: Mike Honcho Mike Honcho
I agree, it is much better to have the emotional bond as a part of the sexual experience. For me, sex without it is a hollow void that cannot be filled.
11/22/2011
Contributor: mama2007 mama2007
Quote:
Originally posted by DeeDaw
I'm just curious as to how many of you prefer sex in a relationship versus having sex when you are single. It's just cool to see different peoples' points of view.
my husband only!
11/22/2011
Contributor: Sublime Sublime
Sex in a relationship is generally more fun for me because it's easier to get into some of the kinkier things I like.
12/08/2011
Contributor: Cookie Monster Mike Cookie Monster Mike
I prefer sex in a relationship
12/08/2011
Contributor: ToyGurl ToyGurl
Relationship all the way.
12/09/2011
Contributor: mama2007 mama2007
Quote:
Originally posted by DeeDaw
I'm just curious as to how many of you prefer sex in a relationship versus having sex when you are single. It's just cool to see different peoples' points of view.
only been with my husband, so it's been great when we were dating and married now
12/09/2011
Contributor: (k)InkyIvy (k)InkyIvy
I just can't imagine sleeping with someone I didn't know well.
12/10/2011
Contributor: Sinfully Sinfully
I have tried the whole relationship thing. It just never works out for me so sadly I must say the best sex Ive had has normally been when Im single. That wouldnt be my preference though. I really wanna find someone more long term that I have amazing sex with.
12/10/2011
Contributor: switzerland switzerland
it's always making love when we do it. and that's what makes it so much more amazing
12/19/2011
Contributor: Tangerine Tangerine
In a relationship bc not into getting diseases
12/19/2011
Contributor: SaraU29 SaraU29
Quote:
Originally posted by DeeDaw
I'm just curious as to how many of you prefer sex in a relationship versus having sex when you are single. It's just cool to see different peoples' points of view.
I've only had sex with one person I wasn't in a relationship with and it made me feel creepy all over.
12/25/2011
Contributor: Rod Ronald Rod Ronald
Quote:
Originally posted by DeeDaw
I'm just curious as to how many of you prefer sex in a relationship versus having sex when you are single. It's just cool to see different peoples' points of view.
I love relationship sex, but after awhile, the flame can die down and the passion just leaves! It a shitty thing to say, but in most cases it's hard to get that back without making it feel fake. I miss the first couple of days you have in a relationship. It's like going to an airport, picking a plane at random and just going blindly to some foreign land.
On the other hand, I do love trying to spice things up. It can lead to some pretty crazy and sexy stuff...if ya know what I mean...wink wink. I have no idea what I was saying anymore??
12/29/2011
Contributor: Undead Undead
Quote:
Originally posted by DeeDaw
I'm just curious as to how many of you prefer sex in a relationship versus having sex when you are single. It's just cool to see different peoples' points of view.
It's better when in a trusting exclusive relationship
12/29/2011
Contributor: Zombirella Zombirella
Quote:
Originally posted by DeeDaw
I'm just curious as to how many of you prefer sex in a relationship versus having sex when you are single. It's just cool to see different peoples' points of view.
I prefer to be in an exclusive relationship. Being single and having sex makes me feel used.
12/29/2011
Contributor: SaraU29 SaraU29
Quote:
Originally posted by DeeDaw
I'm just curious as to how many of you prefer sex in a relationship versus having sex when you are single. It's just cool to see different peoples' points of view.
Definitely in a relationship!
01/02/2012
Contributor: dks210 dks210
Quote:
Originally posted by DeeDaw
I'm just curious as to how many of you prefer sex in a relationship versus having sex when you are single. It's just cool to see different peoples' points of view.
I like the emotional connection during sex that being in a relationship brings. The closer you are to a person, the easier it is to let loose and experiment.
01/13/2012
Contributor: Apirka Apirka
Definitely in a relationship. Because of being assaulted and abused in the past, I prefer to have sex with someone I'm comfortable with and trust or it does absolutely nothing for me. Well, that and I have to find them attractive or I get nothing out of it.
01/18/2012
Contributor: ksparkles16 ksparkles16
Yes, I prefer being in a relationship
01/19/2012
Contributor: geliebt geliebt
I've never had sex with someone without being in a relationship with them. The idea scares me, to be honest. Sex is serious emotional business for me, and if things aren't REALLY SOLID, it can destroy me.
02/04/2012
Contributor: Ms. Spice Ms. Spice
I suffer from commitment issues, and to be honest, I prefer single people sex over relationship sex. I've had only a couple relationships, and the sex always turned out to empty and shitty. I do best when I have sex with a close friend that I'm not dating.
02/04/2012