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Contributor: Melan!e Melan!e
I've been starting to experiment with my boyfriends prostate.

I am looking for a toy that might help him experience it to the fullest.

I was hoping for some suggestions for prostate massagers. I have been researching and have yet to find one that's a sure fire bet.

Any help would be greatly appreciated
03/03/2012
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03/03/2012
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
Since you say you have already started, I assume you've been using my recommended first toy: fingers.

Once you decide to move beyond fingers my second step recommendation is some sort of handheld probe or vibrator. Look for one made of silicone and marketed as either a prostate or G-spot toy. I recommend these because they allow for the most flexibility of stimulation - you can thrust, hold it in place, move in circles, vary the amount of pressure, and so on, whereas with a toy such as the Nexus or Aneros "handsfree" toys you're more limited in the stimulation available.

An added advantage of silicone is that it can be cleaned, sanitized, and then used as a G-spot toy for you as well.

Once you've tried out that you will have a better idea of where you want to go - handsfree, stay-in-place vibrator, steel/glass toy, etc.
03/03/2012
Contributor: sexuallyliberated sexuallyliberated
Quote:
Originally posted by Melan!e
I've been starting to experiment with my boyfriends prostate.

I am looking for a toy that might help him experience it to the fullest.

I was hoping for some suggestions for prostate massagers. I have been researching and have yet to ... more
My wife stimulates my prostate and I love it.

We haven't used any prostate massagers because they are all so specific in size, reach and angle. I think it means you will have to experiment with a few to find the right one. Start with smaller since the anus takes time to learn to relax enough for larger play.

You might consider any of the VixSkin thinner dildos (Spur VixSkin looks nice). That will allow you to probe and find the prostate. Then you have a toy that will last forever and can be boiled safely for either of you to use. It also can be used for pegging if that is something you eventually try.

Lots of lube, lots of patience and enjoy each other.
03/03/2012
Contributor: Melan!e Melan!e
Thanks ScottA and sexuallyliberated!

your replies were very helpful
03/03/2012
Contributor: kfdarling kfdarling
Quote:
Originally posted by ScottA
Since you say you have already started, I assume you've been using my recommended first toy: fingers.

Once you decide to move beyond fingers my second step recommendation is some sort of handheld probe or vibrator. Look for one made of ... more
Great info!
04/10/2012
Contributor: Incendiaire Incendiaire
I find just poking at the prostate doesn't do that much; something with vibrations can really help.

If you're looking for a toy to use on him then I'd suggest the Lelo Billy, because it has a handle, which will give you plenty of control. It has lots of vibration patterns and strength settings, so you should have fun experimenting with it to see what he reacts to best.
04/10/2012
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
Rhythmic stimulation is better than random poking. If you like vibrations then get something rumbly rather than buzzy. I didn't like vibes until I tried my first rumbly one - they penetrate the whole pelvis much better.
04/10/2012
Contributor: Melan!e Melan!e
Quote:
Originally posted by ScottA
Rhythmic stimulation is better than random poking. If you like vibrations then get something rumbly rather than buzzy. I didn't like vibes until I tried my first rumbly one - they penetrate the whole pelvis much better.
What was your first rumbly one - if you don't mind me asking.
05/31/2012
Contributor: Chou Wang Chou Wang
Quote:
Originally posted by Melan!e
I've been starting to experiment with my boyfriends prostate.

I am looking for a toy that might help him experience it to the fullest.

I was hoping for some suggestions for prostate massagers. I have been researching and have yet to ... more
Hey, I have to say that for a long time I was a fan of plain dildos for P-spot and anal play. There wasn't anything that was really doing it for me and believe me I have tried a lot of toys However since I came across the Billy from LELO I've totally changed my mind. It's small so there is no real warmup required. It's shaped in a proper way delivering all power where needed and has a multitude of programs that really work. (damn I sound like a used car salesmen). It's a bit pricey, but on the other hand if I count the toys I threw away I could have bought a few of these.
06/02/2012
Contributor: powers powers
Quote:
Originally posted by Melan!e
I've been starting to experiment with my boyfriends prostate.

I am looking for a toy that might help him experience it to the fullest.

I was hoping for some suggestions for prostate massagers. I have been researching and have yet to ... more
Recently I was asked about how to best use self-propelled prostate massagers in the style of the Aneros (High Island Health). First let me say that I have tried lots of different models out there and that my favorite ones are the MGX from Aneros and the PS2 New from High Island Health. Why are they may favorite? Because they work! They have a design which lends itself to the elusive “super o” that guys on discussion boards are always chasing down.
12/03/2012
Contributor: LaradoEnah LaradoEnah
Quote:
Originally posted by ScottA
Since you say you have already started, I assume you've been using my recommended first toy: fingers.

Once you decide to move beyond fingers my second step recommendation is some sort of handheld probe or vibrator. Look for one made of ... more
This is really helpful for me. Do you have any specific brands which you think make good massagers?
01/02/2013
Contributor: hannahlsperru hannahlsperru
Quote:
Originally posted by ScottA
Since you say you have already started, I assume you've been using my recommended first toy: fingers.

Once you decide to move beyond fingers my second step recommendation is some sort of handheld probe or vibrator. Look for one made of ... more
I agree with the above statments
02/16/2013