I'm in your same position. I'm looking forward to the input!

What do your measurements look like? I'm 5'4", 32B-25-34, and I feel like this sometimes, too. I read reviews really carefully and rejoice when I see "great for small chested women" in the pros, and pout when I see "great for large breasted women!" in the pros of the review! I've found that, as counterproductive as it sounds, that I like avoiding underwires. They're fine in my day to day bras, and if something measures specifically at a 32, not a small, which is in the 32-34, A-B range, then I'll give it a try. Otherwise, it's usually a little to big for me, and my boobs disappear into the cups. I'd rather wear something without the support, so it lays on my chest naturally...there's no cup to fill out. My boobs may be small, but on the plus side, they are perky because of their size, so I don't have to worry about the extra support.

I've also found that halter style tops are friendly to small chests. There's something about they way that the halter draws the breasts up and closer together as the point of where they top ties together gets smaller, that's accentuates the in a flattering way.

I've got a couple of pieces of lingerie that I've reviewed that I love, and I've been sitting on another one that I still need to do, and have needed to write it for ages. If your measurements are similar to mine, check them out--I have yet to get a piece of lingerie from Eden that I've reviewed that I didn't like. I did get a bustier that is now discontinued that doesn't quite sit on my chest the way I like, and it was the dreaded under wires, as usual.