Electroshock Orgasms: To Be or Not To Be?

When it comes to hyperstimulation, the first thing that comes to my mind is electrostim and magic wands.

Although I’m sure there are a lot of us, who had breathtaking orgasms with wands, I’m curious how many actually have had a successful experience with electro stimulation?



My first time with e-stim pads happened last Sunday. It was interesting, but the sensations were a bit too intense for me! So I still can’t decide whether I liked it or not.

Do your remember your first experience with the e-stim?
Which toy did you use?
What did you feel?
Did you manage to get an O with very first try? less

I'm trying to figure out if I'm even using my e-stim toys correctly. I have gel pads and a silicone probe. Mostly, I get no stimulation from them except in my hands...that is really intense, but anything close to achieving orgasm or inducing kegels as I've read seems completely farfetch'd. To me, your experience seems much more successful than mine have been.. less

We have both silicone and metal probes. The metal ones conduct current much much better. The EF unit doesn't give current like one costing few hundred dollars. The metal wand I review does incur kegels for sure though. Sometimes very intense too. The same power setting on a big long probe doesn't have the same effect. Nice and filling though. The prob also need to contact tissue when used internally.

With the gel pads you should def feel a lot of "pinch". If not maybe your unit is defective. Ask EF cs about that. On any muscular tissue with some lube you should feel it grab your muscles. That's a good way to test if the current is strong. Of course I'm sure you are using new batteries.

Using thick gel lubricant make it work better. less

Hey, thanks for the response. I revisited the pads and silicone probe real quick. You're right, the gel pads do work pretty good, I suppose I disregarded them because I was more interested in the probe. Still, I find places, specifically any erogenous zone, where the pads do not stimulate. My body conducts the electricity, but I feel no stimulation there..probably why I quickly disregarded the pads. Also, if there is a bad connection, like some hair between skin and pads, I feel a really terrible burning, stinging sensation. Is that normal/ok?

For the probe though, I can still only get it to stimulate my hand. With no effort, lubricant, or anything, just touching it with my hand is intensely tingly on the lowest setting. The probe won't stimulate anywhere else even on the highest setting. You have the silicone probe, I read your review of the same one I have but my experience was nothing like yours. I don't get tingling, kegels, or any stimulation when inserted...yes, I used lots of water-based lubricant...

I just found and read the Guide and Intro which seem to offer some answers, like why I feel it in my hand so much, but I'd still like more detail and directions, like how to use the device to achieve all those wondrous sensations and overwhelming releases that are boasted. Why I've been saying e-stim is all hype.. Maybe the steel is better, but it costs more to risk another disappointment. less

Yes, hair or anything that separates contact will cause unpleasantness.
Yes our silicone probe creates kegels, but not like the metal one. I wouldn't advise getting one if your goal is to orgasm. Kegels yes, O's not guaranteed. Have you read up on e stim to obtain orgasm s ?

For a better bet to O, check out the womanizer. Not only O but multiple. less

Oh sorry, I'm male. By internally I mean anal. I don't think the womanizer will help... The gel pads don't do anything to stimulate when on my penis, anus, or nipples, though they still conduct electricity. If one pad is on my penis and another on my abs, my abs contract, but if I take the one off my penis, my abs are no longer stimulated.. Why I say it conducts but does not stimulate erogenous zones including penis muscles and sphincter...

A forced orgasm, multiples, or this "ongoing orgasm without ejaculation" that the "intro to electro-stim" touts would be great. Like I said, I guess I bought into all the hype from online videos, reviews, articles, and others' experiences that it's super intense, and it is, just not where I want it to be.

I bought a water-based gel lube..not what I would consider a gel, but thicker than the regular stuff...and I used a LOT, maybe 1/2 oz. The probe does not fit too snug and I've tried moving it around, different depths, angles, and positions. On max setting I get no involuntary muscle contractions, strong/weak jolts, and no kegels. Nothing happens, I feel nothing. Except occasionally when on max, I will feel a slight pinch sensation on a particular spot where the very tip of the probe touches when fully, not partially, inserted. It is not a "deep" stimulation, but feels on whatever surface the probe is touching there. I would think my probe was defective were it not so intense feeling in my hand.

I would be happy to read any helpful material if you'd point me in that direction. Like a how to erotic e-stim...How do I get this thing to work where I want it to? I get that maybe it won't make me O right away, but any stimulation to an erogenous zone would be a great start. I'm not buying toys here to stimulate my biceps, abs, and hands...

Unless I get this to work, I'm going to have to keep saying e-stim is a flop for sexual stimulation and most especially sexual hyperstimulation. I feel duped reading the proposed wonders to expect from this. less

When it comes to hyperstimulation, the first thing that comes to my mind is electrostim and magic wands.

Although I’m sure there are a lot of us, who had breathtaking orgasms with wands, I’m curious how many actually have had a successful experience with electro stimulation?



My first time with e-stim pads happened last Sunday. It was interesting, but the sensations were a bit too intense for me! So I still can’t decide whether I liked it or not.

Do your remember your first experience with the e-stim?
Which toy did you use?
What did you feel?
Did you manage to get an O with very first try? less

Ahhh, no the womenizer will def not work for you. If want you want is to feel anal kegels you need the e stim metal wand. link. That will def do it. It will not make you cum though. ( Filling out your profile could have help determine your gender. )

Gel pads have been used for yrs for stimulating muscles. Good for tightness and soreness. Not know to make a male cum.

The metal wand can make you jump it works so well. At least on me it does. I reviewed both items. The huge silicone probe is good for fullness feeling and some kegels. The metal wand can jolt your bod up. No forced ejaculation though.

Metal can conduct current better than silicone or other materials.

All research I have found only indicates e stim helps females. For males I never read it can make one ejaculate. Only tighten the rectum and pelvic muscles. Tightening pelvic muscles aid erection and lasting longer.

I think other uses of e stim on males is to give a little pain. Like in BDSM play. less

When it comes to hyperstimulation, the first thing that comes to my mind is electrostim and magic wands.

Although I’m sure there are a lot of us, who had breathtaking orgasms with wands, I’m curious how many actually have had a successful experience with electro stimulation?



My first time with e-stim pads happened last Sunday. It was interesting, but the sensations were a bit too intense for me! So I still can’t decide whether I liked it or not.

Do your remember your first experience with the e-stim?
Which toy did you use?
What did you feel?
Did you manage to get an O with very first try? less