The ONLY vegan lip balms/glosses I've found on the site that don't have a sexual overtones (i.e. pheromones or "warming sensations") are these, which don't seem like a very good product to me:
At least, those are the only ones I've found (and I have looked before becaue I want beeswax-free products). Petroleum jelly makes me break out in acne around my lips, so I avoid that anyway. Gah.
Unfortunate, because I love lip balms. Boo. :/