Cock rings a pain?

Cock rings a pain?

deadpoet deadpoet
My boyfriend is really afraid to try a cock ring, because of what his friends have told him. They both said that you have to remove the ring before cumming, because if you don't, you will be in pain.

so, will tell me if this is true or not, or does it depend on the guy?
08/10/2010
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Tori Rebel Tori Rebel
I've heard that before but never been in a situation where it was actually true.
08/10/2010
deadpoet deadpoet
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Originally posted by Tori Rebel
I've heard that before but never been in a situation where it was actually true.
I never heard that before, until he told me.
08/10/2010
~LaUr3n~ ~LaUr3n~
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Originally posted by deadpoet
My boyfriend is really afraid to try a cock ring, because of what his friends have told him. They both said that you have to remove the ring before cumming, because if you don't, you will be in pain.

so, will tell me if this is true or ...
I don't think this is true for everyone. It also has to do with materials and sizing, which is why detailed reviews are so wonderful .

My boyfriend has not had pain and he is very girthy.
08/10/2010
deadpoet deadpoet
True ~LaUr3n~, that is why I love reviews. But knowing his friends, they saw it and bought it without reading. LOL
08/10/2010
PushTheStars PushTheStars
His friends might have heard of some guy who had a bad experience. We know guys, they "know a guy who knows a guy" lol. Inform him there's so many kinds, you can probably find one that's very stretchy. just to see how he likes it, or those "one time use" ones that super breakable just for that reason.

But it depends more so on the material then the guy. something that doesn't stretch much in the first place shouldn't be on a guy with a lot of girth and vise versa.
08/10/2010
deadpoet deadpoet
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Originally posted by PushTheStars
His friends might have heard of some guy who had a bad experience. We know guys, they "know a guy who knows a guy" lol. Inform him there's so many kinds, you can probably find one that's very stretchy. just to see how he likes it, ...
That is true, LOL
08/10/2010
ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
The only time I have had pain from one was a leather one, but with something that does not stretch it is easier to put it on to tight. The more flexible/stretchy ones are the more comfortable. In ether case a dab of lube will make things better.

I have had some pain from bruising a time or two from wearing the ring to long, say like an hour or so, but as long as I keep the time down there is no problem. I think with the really tight ones 20-30 minutes is about the max that I would recommend.

Our first non-leather one was bought at Waly-World and came with condoms, the vibe lasted for about 20 minutes or so. Very stretchy and comfy, great way to try one out.
08/10/2010
deadpoet deadpoet
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Originally posted by ToyTimeTim
The only time I have had pain from one was a leather one, but with something that does not stretch it is easier to put it on to tight. The more flexible/stretchy ones are the more comfortable. In ether case a dab of lube will make things ...
I will have to try to talk him into trying on like that
08/10/2010
ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
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Originally posted by deadpoet
I will have to try to talk him into trying on like that
I think our was a Durex, and really except for the vibe I did not know it was there, but she did.
08/10/2010
deadpoet deadpoet
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Originally posted by ToyTimeTim
I think our was a Durex, and really except for the vibe I did not know it was there, but she did.
LOL
08/10/2010
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
I use them all the time and have no problem with orgasm - it does however prolong my erections - which is exactly the point! Just make sure you get the right size. I tried one that was too small - ooch!
08/10/2010
lamira lamira
Your partner doesn't have to take off the cock ring if he cums. My partner leaves it on when he cums and it enhances his pleasure. He never experiences pain afterward.
09/30/2010
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
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Originally posted by lamira
Your partner doesn't have to take off the cock ring if he cums. My partner leaves it on when he cums and it enhances his pleasure. He never experiences pain afterward.
Agreed - not sure where the pain 'myth' comes from. I'm not into pain at all - but when used properly they do enhance pleasure.
10/01/2010
TexasFire TexasFire
A silicone one did not give me pain...and I am a little girthy.
11/18/2010
Naughty Student Naughty Student
I am curious about how you take the cock ring off after 20 minutes. The one where you put the balls in the ring then the cock after. I am just worried that the cock being hard would make it impossible to remove. What if it takes like an hour to become soft. It makes me a little stressed out, lol. If anyone could clarify that for me it would be appreciated.
11/29/2010
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
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Originally posted by Naughty Student
I am curious about how you take the cock ring off after 20 minutes. The one where you put the balls in the ring then the cock after. I am just worried that the cock being hard would make it impossible to remove. What if it takes like an hour to ...
It doesn't take an hour after orgasm for most of us to soften enough to remove the ting. There are many designs - even some that are adjustable for easy removal. Nothing to stress about - let him pick what he thinks will work best from his perspective.
11/29/2010
nyc cpl nyc cpl
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Originally posted by deadpoet
My boyfriend is really afraid to try a cock ring, because of what his friends have told him. They both said that you have to remove the ring before cumming, because if you don't, you will be in pain.

so, will tell me if this is true or ...
I use cock rings (the stretchy ones) and never had any problem or discomfort ejaculating. Ask him to try it once.
12/16/2010
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