Pussy Pumping Advice for a beginner!

Contributor: Lady Smile Lady Smile
Hi all,
Have just purchased the Doc Johnson Pussy Pump as its a real fantasy/fetish of my hubby to see my pussy engorged ans pumped up and then perform oral.
I am willing to give it a try for him, but I am not very enthusiastic about t. Does it hurt?Any good advice for the first time use?
Thanks!
02/03/2013
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Contributor: stlouisxxx stlouisxxx
I have seen it in videos before and it is a fantasy of mine to have my fiancee's pumped. On behalf of all the men with this fetish thank you for giving it a shot.
It should not hurt, but like penis pumping do it in short time intervals, 5-10 minutes, until you get accustomed to having it swell up, and it is a temporary effect. Stop when there is any discomfort.

I'm not sure if the one you chose was jelly,but if it is hope you aren't allergic to that material. I haven't seen a real good female pump on Eden, some other sites I have seen were plastic domes which should get a better amount of suction.

I would use lube to help keep the your area moist. Hope you post a review of it with your results.
02/10/2013
Contributor: sissy or tom sissy or tom
Quote:
Originally posted by Lady Smile
Hi all,
Have just purchased the Doc Johnson Pussy Pump as its a real fantasy/fetish of my hubby to see my pussy engorged ans pumped up and then perform oral.
I am willing to give it a try for him, but I am not very enthusiastic about t. Does it ...
i would like a womans POINT OF VIEW is this excitement or male fantasy before we spend money here on a pussy pump YOU tell me if it is good or not enjoyable or painful i dont want my Goddess harmed in any way which one did you select? obedient2her2000@yahoo .com
01/12/2014
Contributor: edeneve edeneve
I have 2 pussy pumps & they do not hurt. I do caution against using a male pump cuz it could cause prolapse of your vag.
01/12/2014
Contributor: Pussy69 Pussy69
Recommendations for a pump? What do you prefer and how come?
04/21/2016
Contributor: Madi2013 Madi2013
Quote:
Originally posted by Lady Smile
Hi all,
Have just purchased the Doc Johnson Pussy Pump as its a real fantasy/fetish of my hubby to see my pussy engorged ans pumped up and then perform oral.
I am willing to give it a try for him, but I am not very enthusiastic about t. Does it ...
i am eager to read responses on this post i can't wait to buy one !
02/10/2017
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
I bought one - then several more for my wife. At first I thought she would be totally turned off - but she tried it and liked it.

Caveat - we don't do anything like what you see in porn videos. The commonly available pumps don't have enough power to create that kind of distended labia - unless you would keep it on for a very lengthy time frame.

If she seems somewhat distracted - but willing to enjoy the evening with me, I'll put the suction cup on - sometimes with her help to adjust it to a comfortable position, then go around kissing her, massaging her breasts and other forms of foreplay to allow the pump to do it's thing.

It's also fun for her when I use a vibe against the plastic cup to stimulate her lower labia - and then her clit. This takes a bit of cooperation and for the male to pay attention to the signals coming from his partner.

Occasionally I will also insert some vibrating Ben-Wa balls before putting on the cup - the internal vibes can be quite enjoyable - and interesting when combined with external vibes.

She's not going to orgasm with any of the suction play - so eventually she will get bored with it and want to move on. But if I've done well - her labia will be engorged, sensitive and ready for some serious direct stimulation.

Sucking on her labia at this point is pretty much demanded - and the juicy pussy is a great reward for my patience and diligence.

Forget the porn and find out what works for you - teach him how to please you while giving him the visual stimulation that he's been craving.

Enjoy the journey - you are never quite there - and that's what makes it a rewarding lifetime journey!
02/11/2017
Contributor: Rafa Rafa
Do pumps work for increasing size?
05/17/2017
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
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Originally posted by Rafa
Do pumps work for increasing size?
Pumps cause a temporary flow of blood which slightly increasing the size of the area being pumped. There is no permanent increase in size that I am aware of.

The most interesting side effect that I have seen is that her lower vulva is much more sensitive to stimulation. She can orgasm from me rubbing her blood engorged vulva combined with her favorite clit-wand.

Various diagrams of the clitoris show that the structure is like a wishbone - so it's possible that rubbing her vulva that I'm actually rubbing the lower legs of the clitoral structure (crus clitoris). The level of engorgement and sensitivity lead me to believe this is the case.
05/17/2017
Contributor: Lena Eden Lena Eden
Quote:
Originally posted by Rafa
Do pumps work for increasing size?
If you're asking about penis pumps, these can really help to temporarily increase the penis size.
Daka Dan tells about it in his review of the Size up with gauge.
05/18/2017
Contributor: C and J C and J
Work past the pain eventually it goes numb ????
11/27/2019
Contributor: VanillaFreeSex VanillaFreeSex
I'm considering an acrylic one. this is the one on my wish list.

I've been very curious. It's a fantasy. Unfortunately I looked up videos of pussy pumping and the results have scared me off a bit. A fellow blogger reassured me that what I saw was likely an extreme version of pumping, and that the swelling goes down in about an hour.
11/27/2019
Contributor: frisky069 frisky069
link I just looked this up, it goes over how to do it! Also they suggest some beginner pumps and good pumps to buy and some are here on the site.
11/27/2019
Contributor: HotCherryPie88 HotCherryPie88
This just sounds very painful to me. I don't have a steady SO right now to benefit from this and to really make me want to try it out. So I think I'm going to stick to the other toys for now. But I will keep an eye on the posts to see how the brave women here like the pumps after using them!
12/02/2019
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
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Originally posted by HotCherryPie88
This just sounds very painful to me. I don't have a steady SO right now to benefit from this and to really make me want to try it out. So I think I'm going to stick to the other toys for now. But I will keep an eye on the posts to see how the ...
Pumping can hurt - but not in the way that you might imagine. If you pump slowly enough to allow blood to enter the labia at a 'normal' rate - there is no labial pain.

However if you pump to quickly, you can encounter pain. The other way to cause pain is that the base of the cup rests on the bones in your pelvis - again if you pump too hard, the plastic against the bone is not pleasant.

My wife enjoyed pumping occasionally - but we don't do it much any more.

An interesting and useful 'side-effect' is that her lower labia engorge with blood much more than they use to. The added blood makes the area ultra-sensitive for her. She will often ask my to stroke her labia while she uses her clit wand to elicit quite a strong orgasm - sometimes even gushing without direct g-spot stimulation.

This happens all the time now - in spite of the fact that we no longer use the pump.
12/03/2019
Contributor: Perspicace mais érotique Perspicace mais érotique
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Originally posted by Gunsmoke
Pumping can hurt - but not in the way that you might imagine. If you pump slowly enough to allow blood to enter the labia at a 'normal' rate - there is no labial pain.

However if you pump to quickly, you can encounter pain. The other ...
That's very interesting. Thank you for sharing it! I had seen these pumps and just never thought about using them. My husband hasn't expressed an interest in this fantasy/fetish so it never came up in our list of 'things we wanted to try'. But that 'side-effect' would definitely be a nice bonus to using a pump! Hmmm
12/04/2019
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
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Originally posted by Perspicace mais érotique
That's very interesting. Thank you for sharing it! I had seen these pumps and just never thought about using them. My husband hasn't expressed an interest in this fantasy/fetish so it never came up in our list of 'things we wanted to ...
I would avoid it. Same with the penis pumps. no, no
12/05/2019
Contributor: QueenofEverything81 QueenofEverything81
The increased blood flow and tissue expansion can help you achieve stronger orgasms and enhance intercourse for both partners. Lubing the outer edge will help to create an air-tight seal, even better so if pubic hair is trimmed or kept to a minimum so that the edge can seal on to the skin. Pussy pumping should be pleasurable and not painful in any way. If you experience any discomfort, stop pumping. And do not try to over pump as this can lead to injury. The main tip I can give you is measure yourself well before you buy one! You want it to seal around your vagina and labia not your entire pubic mound. Otherwise, your clit gets buried and it defeats the purpose. I am not a huge fan of pussy pumping on my own, but there are men that appreciate the aesthetic that I have partnered with, and if you enjoy a bit of pain with your pleasure it can be a good way to achieve it.
12/07/2019
Contributor: Dragoncon Dragoncon
I am a 56 year-old man I stopped dating a long time ago I have bad blood flow because of my heart which makes it so I cannot keep an erection I'm looking for something that would help that and keep the erection so I can have sex with a lady I'm dating now
Jun 22, 7:45 am
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
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Originally posted by Dragoncon
I am a 56 year-old man I stopped dating a long time ago I have bad blood flow because of my heart which makes it so I cannot keep an erection I'm looking for something that would help that and keep the erection so I can have sex with a lady ...
I find cock rings useful for achieving and maintaining erections - of course there are various ED pills that are also useful. I have not tried the OTC supplements that claim to help with ED - I do however use both viagra and cialis and find them quite useful. I personally have not experienced any side effects from the medications.
Jun 22, 3:20 pm