First Vibe?

First Vibe?

Lena Eden Lena Eden
The first vibrator is a very special purchase.

I remember the feelings I had while buying the We-Vibe (he was our first pleaser) online:‘Wow, such a strange shape...Hmm..Will it work for me and for us?? How will it be - to feel the same vibes simultaneously with my SO?' Needless to say, after trying it out, we both felt on top of the world!



And how about you, guys?

Where did you buy your first vibrator? What kind was it (solo/couple’s)? What did you discover while using it?

C’mon, let’s share our secrets! Maybe we’ll even come up with few suggestions for our newbies here on EF
11/10/2016
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OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
Quote:
Originally posted by Lena Eden
The first vibrator is a very special purchase. I remember the feelings I had while buying the We-Vibe (he was our first pleaser) online:‘Wow, such a strange shape...Hmm..Will it work for me and for us?? How will it be - to feel the same vibes ...
Early one morning, I discovered OW using her "skin/facial "massager on her clit. She had it under the blankets. It was very quiet so I don't know how long she had been doing this. Then she started using it more and more until it broke down. Since I wanted her to be happy we did some research and decided on something with more power and met for that. We ended up getting the Hitachi.
11/10/2016
DancerKittyKat DancerKittyKat
My first vibrator was the Anne Summers Moregasm Rabbit Ears vibrator. I ordered it online, which was a huge hassle since it was international shipping from a company with sub-par customer service. It was fairly expensive for a first vibrator, but I wanted to invest in a good quality toy. I was terrified the box would have "sex toy" written on it in bold letters. Of course, that was not the case; it was very discreet. I was extremely excited when it arrived and tried it right away. Since this was my first time using a vibrations, I found the toy too strong and overwhelming. It wasn't even that pleasurable. It wasn't until I got a rabbit vibrator on EdenFantasys that I realized that I did in fact like vibrations. Now that my clit is less sensitive, I am able to find pleasure from this toy. However, it is still not my favorite toy.

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11/11/2016
Lena Eden Lena Eden
OH&W, Lovebears, wasn't the Hitachi too intensive for her at the very beginning?
11/11/2016
OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
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Originally posted by Lena Eden
OH&W, Lovebears, wasn't the Hitachi too intensive for her at the very beginning?
Not that I recall. I'll be lucky if I remember what I ate for breakfast yesterday. No way I can remember that far back. All I know is she used it almost daily back then.
11/12/2016
TheToyGuy TheToyGuy
I never purchased my first vibrator it was given to me and it was the one that kinda started my addiction.

A generic hard jelly rabbit vibrator with twisting action and adjustable speed. I got it directly from a chinese factory.

It is my most coveted item. I used to play with it all the time as it was quite a while before I had enough money to start my collection.

I've cherished it, cleaned it and serviced it.

Over a decade on and I must admit it is looking really old, but it still works a charm, I've even had the jelly sheath replaced twice once it started splitting.

But I still love it.
11/12/2016
KinseyAndrews KinseyAndrews
Quote:
Originally posted by Lena Eden
The first vibrator is a very special purchase. I remember the feelings I had while buying the We-Vibe (he was our first pleaser) online:‘Wow, such a strange shape...Hmm..Will it work for me and for us?? How will it be - to feel the same vibes ...
local sex shop. solo. basic smooth rocket. I discovered that I like vibrators lol
11/16/2016
PolyLove PolyLove
Quote:
Originally posted by Lena Eden
The first vibrator is a very special purchase. I remember the feelings I had while buying the We-Vibe (he was our first pleaser) online:‘Wow, such a strange shape...Hmm..Will it work for me and for us?? How will it be - to feel the same vibes ...
I bought my first vibe, the Mini Pearlessence from a seedy brick and mortar sex shop. My husband wanted to try something new and exciting and we had yet to be introduced to the wide world of sex toys. The sex shop had a couple of other customers, mostly men in the porn section. And the cashier looked bored out of her mind, smacking a piece of bubble gum.

The hubs and I found our way to one of the walls full of sex toys. I remember being overwhelmed by the variety. There were so many shapes and sizes, most of the sizes terrified me and the different shapes confused me. Plus, we had a $20 limit. Feeling very small and very confused, I focused on phallic, small, and basic. Which of course, is everything that the Mini Pearlessence is. The only issue I had was picking out a color and that was done quickly enough as I was very uncomfortable in that store.

We took it home, I had done no research on it, I wasn't even sure how it was supposed to be pleasurable. We used it a handful of times and it became boring. It got stashed in a nightstand drawer for years. Then one night, in 2012 I pulled it back out while the husband was at work. Our sex life had died and I wanted to figure out how to bring it back. I didn't like the feeling of it inside me (as straight and vibrating does nothing for me pleasure wise), so I pushed it around my vulva until it felt good.

I found a position where it felt exceptionally different and good and pushed it into my body. Putting pressure on the vibrator caused the vibrations to be less buzzy and more rumbly and they carried through my body better. My husband was always bitching about how I made him stop playing with me when the sensation became too much, so when the sensation from the toy became almost unbearable, I soldiered on.

This is where things get interesting. I came. For the first time in my life. I actually had an orgasm. And a liquid gushed out of my urethra. I immediately jumped up, confused and upset. What had just happened? My only conclusion was that I had peed. I started to clean up and cry. I tried to do something to revive my sex life and instead had made a huge mess. When the husband got home, I was still cleaning up and in tears. I explained what had happened and his whole face lit up. "Baby, that wasn't pee, you squirted." I what? He explained it and how it was nothing to be ashamed of, how it was really hot.

We used the Mini Pearlessence for a couple more months after that. I soon grew bored of the basic shape and dial turn vibrations and took to the internet to find out more about sex toys and if I could buy them online. One google search in I had found EF and now I have a plethora of toys in all shapes and sizes.

My advice to newbies to the toy world: don't start with a cheap budget, get a couple of different things to try, do your research, and know what you like. EF is a great resource for all of these things and if you need help you can post in the forums or message me. I'd be more than happy to help you find something!
11/16/2016
Lena Eden Lena Eden
Quote:
Originally posted by PolyLove
I bought my first vibe, the Mini Pearlessence from a seedy brick and mortar sex shop. My husband wanted to try something new and exciting and we had yet to be introduced to the wide world of sex toys. The sex shop had a couple of other customers, ...
Wow, such a nice story! So, as I understand, toys helped you to reveal your inner sexuality to its fullest, right?

The first vibrator you had is a standard one. I can only Imagine the fun you had with rabbit and gspot vibe
11/18/2016
Lena Eden Lena Eden
Quote:
Originally posted by TheToyGuy
I never purchased my first vibrator it was given to me and it was the one that kinda started my addiction.

A generic hard jelly rabbit vibrator with twisting action and adjustable speed. I got it directly from a chinese factory.

It is ...
Over a decade?! You might be very careful with your toys, TheToyGuy

How many toys are in your collection now?
11/18/2016
PolyLove PolyLove
Quote:
Originally posted by Lena Eden
Wow, such a nice story! So, as I understand, toys helped you to reveal your inner sexuality to its fullest, right? The first vibrator you had is a standard one. I can only Imagine the fun you had with rabbit and gspot vibe
My first rabbit was horrible. It smelled to high heaven! The first rabbit I actually enjoyed was the Thrill. And I still haven't found a g-spot vibe that does it for me. I usually use curved glass to massage my g-spot and a bullet on my clit. I want the comet 2. I have a feeling that one is AMAZING!
11/18/2016
2geeksnluv 2geeksnluv
Quote:
Originally posted by Lena Eden
The first vibrator is a very special purchase. I remember the feelings I had while buying the We-Vibe (he was our first pleaser) online:‘Wow, such a strange shape...Hmm..Will it work for me and for us?? How will it be - to feel the same vibes ...
Our first vibe was a palm vibrator. It was purple and fit in your hand. It had one switch on or off and that was it. I remember the first time I used it on the Mrs. It was pretty intense for her as she hadn't previously engaged in such an activity. I was pleased to see how pleased she was.
11/29/2016
Lena Eden Lena Eden
Quote:
Originally posted by 2geeksnluv
Our first vibe was a palm vibrator. It was purple and fit in your hand. It had one switch on or off and that was it. I remember the first time I used it on the Mrs. It was pretty intense for her as she hadn't previously engaged in such an ...
Are you still using it?
11/30/2016
slcadman slcadman
Quote:
Originally posted by Lena Eden
The first vibrator is a very special purchase. I remember the feelings I had while buying the We-Vibe (he was our first pleaser) online:‘Wow, such a strange shape...Hmm..Will it work for me and for us?? How will it be - to feel the same vibes ...
First vibe we ever got was a rockin dolphin. It was great and we used it and just the bullets so much we had to buy more within a month
12/13/2016
Lena Eden Lena Eden
Quote:
Originally posted by slcadman
First vibe we ever got was a rockin dolphin. It was great and we used it and just the bullets so much we had to buy more within a month
If you were recommending a first vibrator to somebody, which one would you choose?
12/14/2016
cagypsy cagypsy
My first was a Disco Butterfly from Cal Exotic. They discontinued it years ago and I was SOOO disappointed!!!!! It was a mall, fun, clit vibe that rocked my world. If I recall that far back correctly I only ever use it for solo play.
12/15/2016
symbiasin symbiasin
I hit on my first one accidentally and it turned out right. It was made of PVC, and was kind of strange looking, not big at all. It had a g-spot ball and on the outside on the front had two rows of nubs to surround the clit. I forget it's name but it was perfect and not overwhelming at all. I think it's still sold today.
12/16/2016
Closet Freak Closet Freak
Quote:
Originally posted by Lena Eden
The first vibrator is a very special purchase. I remember the feelings I had while buying the We-Vibe (he was our first pleaser) online:‘Wow, such a strange shape...Hmm..Will it work for me and for us?? How will it be - to feel the same vibes ...
My first vibrator was a bullet. It was solo, however, the guy I was with at the time used it on me on occasion. It was FUN! I bought a few other vibrators after that. It's been a LONG time since I've used toys. Just bought some tonight. Looking forward to them arriving in the mail in time for Christmas!
12/16/2016
Mrs.Giggity Mrs.Giggity
My very first vibe was a gag gift from a friend for Christmas. I was just a traditional vibrator, it was NEON GREEN. I was never so grateful for a gag gift. My very first orgasm is one the best memories I have
12/18/2016
MrClark MrClark
My first vibe was the Fleshlight vibro, which was pretty horrible due to the vibrator bullets not lasting long and requiring multiple non-rechargeable batteries. It never really did anything for me...

The first vibrator I got that actually did something for me was the Nexus Vibro prostate massager. I'd enjoyed the Aneros Prostate massager for years at this point and even used vibrating shaver heads to vibrate it... so having a toy actually made to have internal vibrations was next level.

I agree with PolyLove, definitely taking some time to research what's out there and invest in a quality toy(s) is worth it. My girlfriend and I used some of the freebies or older toys I already had but getting something quality that was well designed has made a massive difference.
12/28/2016
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