Did it hurt when you lost your virginity?

Contributor: Sweet-Justice Sweet-Justice
Didn't actually break my hymen the first time. But didn't hurt later when it did break either. I didn't even notice it other then a small "pop".
02/28/2011
Contributor: ninaspinkturtle ninaspinkturtle
Quote:
Originally posted by Coralbell
I saw this topic come up in another thread and wanted to discuss it a bit more without hijacking.
it hurt but mostly afterward...i think it prob hurt when i was havin sex and was just preoccupied
02/28/2011
Contributor: sbon sbon
It hurt a little bit for me, but that went away really quickly and it felt pretty good. I didn't bleed.
03/01/2011
Contributor: toxie m toxie m
Yes but only very momentarily
03/02/2011
Contributor: Cream in the Cupcake Cream in the Cupcake
not painful. i think i broke my heiman early. but i was real tight. he got so nervous he couldnt get hard anyway.
03/02/2011
Contributor: SapphirexIce SapphirexIce
I dont remember actually I dont think so.
03/08/2011
Contributor: Lilbee Lilbee
It hurt, but not as badly as I had expected and I didn't bleed. The next time wasn't uncomfortable at all.
03/09/2011
Contributor: al16 al16
All the girls I know cried and said it was so painful, I was fine, in fact it felt amazing!
03/15/2011
Contributor: lovin lovin
Just thinking about it gives me chills lol! it wasn't that bad though.
03/15/2011
Contributor: Joie de Cherresse Joie de Cherresse
Nope. I don't even think my first broke my hymen it was so short, lol. I was 12 and he was 16. But the second guy I was with did hurt me a little, so maybe yea, but I honestly don't think it was the breaking of my hymen that hurt, lol.
03/27/2011
Contributor: IrishLassie IrishLassie
I was 19 when I had sex for the first time, and even though I had masturbated before that, it was painful. It was amazing, but it hurt like hell and did so for the first 3 or 4 times. I bled a lot my first time and once or twice after that.
03/27/2011
Contributor: SugarAndSpice SugarAndSpice
No it didn't.
03/28/2011
Contributor: lick123 lick123
no. like other posters i had been using tampons and manual stim before
04/02/2011
Contributor: purplekidney purplekidney
My hymen probably broke years before I first had sex when I fell on a tree stump. Having sex was a little uncomfortable at first, since I hadn't masturbated and wasn't used to anything being in there. I don't think I was sore afterward.
04/04/2011
Contributor: Fuck it. Fuck it.
It didn't hurt at all my first time, which was surprising because he was a giant. I knew it didn't have to hurt and I was the one pushing to lose my virginity, so maybe those things had a lot to do with it.
04/07/2011
Contributor: tickle me pink tickle me pink
It hurt a lot, but I more than expected it to. It actually took me a long time before sex felt really good.
04/08/2011
Contributor: mariedoll mariedoll
I was 16 when I lost my virginity. I get really wet naturally, so it didn't hurt.
04/28/2011
Contributor: froggiemoma froggiemoma
it hurt pretty bad for me , didnt enjoy at all the first time
05/12/2011
Contributor: mandiegk mandiegk
It didn't hurt during, but I was sore the next day.
05/12/2011
Contributor: yoham45 yoham45
Yes, a lot.
05/12/2011
Contributor: ToyGurl ToyGurl
girls often break their hymen without knowing, and that is mainly why sex hurts. breaking the hymen is what causes that pain. i used to masturbate as a child which probably broke mine.
05/16/2011
Contributor: Archeteuthis Archeteuthis
Wow. I didn't even know that losing your virginity could be painful until I found this thread. I think than inbetween my athletic childhood, my fiance fingering me when we messed around, and a decade of tampon use, there wasn't anything left of my hymen.
I lost my virginity accidentally while my fiance and I were fooling around- it didn't hurt, it was just surprising. The sex was enjoyable, but I was so sore I could hardly walk the next day.
05/22/2011
Contributor: Miss Anonymous Miss Anonymous
Yes! It took about two tries to get the job done. The first time ended with me crying.. we couldnt get it in because i wasnt relaxed enough, Thank God i have a amazing boyfriend and he made everything better he held me in his arms and it made everything better. The second time was better it was only a few days later but it was better, We took our time the second go around. There was bleeding and pain. I dont regret it not one bit.
05/22/2011
Contributor: Linga Linga
Nope, it's never hurt but pain when I'm turned on isn't painful so who knows
05/22/2011
Contributor: kinksters kinksters
Quote:
Originally posted by SarahSarah
I was 16 when I lost my virginity and it didnt hurt at all. I thought it was supposed to, so I actually thought something was wrong with me because it didnt hurt one bit. But I guess all girls are different.
i had the same experience.
05/22/2011
Contributor: deletedacct deletedacct
i took my own virginity with fingers way before i was sexually active with a partner.
05/22/2011
Contributor: AOutrajus AOutrajus
nope.
05/23/2011
Contributor: padmeamidala padmeamidala
Quote:
Originally posted by Coralbell
I saw this topic come up in another thread and wanted to discuss it a bit more without hijacking.
It hurt a little and I bled a bit when I lost my virginity.
05/23/2011
Contributor: NarcissisticLust NarcissisticLust
I was a gymnast for quite awhile before I lost my virginity so my hymen broke years before I was 17. Not only was my hymen broke but the man wasn't particularly girthy.
05/25/2011
Contributor: SexyLilPixi SexyLilPixi
It wasn't painful at all. The first time or anytime after. I wondered if it would ever become pleasurable, though. Silly adolescent.
05/25/2011