Have you ever had such a perfect , romantic past lover that it made you want subsequent lovers to act like that?

Have you ever had such a perfect , romantic past lover that it made you want subsequent lovers to act like that?

symbiasin symbiasin
I have had THE perfect lover in the romantic sense and looks dept. but did not carry over to the character part. He was the kind of lover you would find in a Harlequin Romance and is getting in the way of me finding or wanting a man of character.

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03/03/2015
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Bignuf Bignuf
I was lucky to have multiple boyfriends who all brought some very great aspects to our relationship, but I must say the man I married topped them all in the areas were they were "strong", and went above and beyond in all those other areas, including being a real "old school" romantic at heart. Love notes hidden for me to find, flowers for no reason, gifts that say "I love you", at unexpected times, and his overall attitude of love and respect for me. It is why I am still madly in love with this man...and in real lust too....after over 30 years of honeymooning with him. If there were any small aspects of prior relationships I enjoyed (going to a nice restaurant on special days in life), he was happy to copy these, as soon as I mentioned them. I found that if you want any good aspect of a prior relationship, if the person you are with now is any good, they will be happy to take a suggestion, and run with it!
03/03/2015
symbiasin symbiasin
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Originally posted by Bignuf
I was lucky to have multiple boyfriends who all brought some very great aspects to our relationship, but I must say the man I married topped them all in the areas were they were "strong", and went above and beyond in all those other areas, ...
That is true, and it's not like they haven't tried. but in my mind I say to myself 'he's just not-----' (case closed?)
03/04/2015
Vnessa Vnessa
I need a sort of button lol. The one and only that I couldn't get out of my mind, I married . He would drive 30 minutes in the middle of the night just to leave a flower on my doorstep for me to find in the morning, he would leave traces of cologne on my pillow before leaving my place for the night, always opens doors for me (even after 18 yrs), holds my hand whenever we are out and about and always says I love you before hanging up the phone or leaving my presence.

Now, is he overly mushy, no. He's definitely not over the top with the romance even though he does do surprises here and there.
03/04/2015
Inquisitor Inquisitor
Dont mind me, just taking notes...
03/04/2015
symbiasin symbiasin
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Originally posted by Inquisitor
Dont mind me, just taking notes...
add this Inq......this guy didn't DO romantic things, he just oozed romance. He knew that how he acted just had a very positive effect on females. Like a six hour session that we had...he kept trying to leave, but we would look at each other and fall in a way that made me know that we were in sync and have yet another go around. He was straight out of a Romance novel....he knew exactly what I wanted as soon as he walked in the door.... a nice long romantic kiss with plenty of groping around. I have not seen him in over a year, but if he walked in here now, the first thing we would do would be a nice long kiss, pressed against the wall.
*sigh*
03/04/2015
OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
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Originally posted by Vnessa
I need a sort of button lol. The one and only that I couldn't get out of my mind, I married . He would drive 30 minutes in the middle of the night just to leave a flower on my doorstep for me to find in the morning, he would leave traces of ...
I need to delete your reply so OW doesn't see it. No prob with the love u , open doors, but drive 30 mins in middle of night ? Cologne?

You're very special, lady in red.
03/04/2015
Vnessa Vnessa
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Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
I need to delete your reply so OW doesn't see it. No prob with the love u , open doors, but drive 30 mins in middle of night ? Cologne?

You're very special, lady in red.
Awwww thanks . I'm glad Mr thought so too!!! I was quite lucky when I stumbled upon him.
03/04/2015
symbiasin symbiasin
No more discussion please.
03/04/2015
Inquisitor Inquisitor
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Originally posted by symbiasin
add this Inq......this guy didn't DO romantic things, he just oozed romance. He knew that how he acted just had a very positive effect on females. Like a six hour session that we had...he kept trying to leave, but we would look at each other ...
Wait, He was able to read your mind? Holy Shit , this guy IS good.
03/04/2015
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