Doggy Style-How to make it NOT hurt!

She may have had one recently. He did say everything has checked out just fine after birthing several children and subsequent examinations since.

Hi Lizzy, Im jmex's wife. I have had cysts in the past, they were nothing to be concerned about (or so I was told). Ive had them since I was pregnant for my first child (16yrs old) and I have had four more children within the last 10 years. recently, just had a baby about 8 months ago. So everything has been ultrasounded and checked out. Im sure if they found anything "out of place" they would have said something.

Ill swing by my OB's office tho and see if maybe she can have a quick peek and let me know if theres anything that was missed tho. Sometimes, if you're not "LOOKING" For it, you'll miss it completely. Thanks for the suggestion.

if it's due to the depth of penetration arching her back might help

Definitely never had a problem with this one, even with my ex who was very large in that department .... face down, ass up ... sends me straight into ecstasy. So yes she needs to be checked, it could be that she has a shallow vagina.

Be sure to use lube!

Same! I love doggy.

Will you marry me?

My wife absolutely hates doggy style, not because it hurts, but because she feels it is a degrading position for women.

However, the one time she cheated on me, she was a little drunk, and I walked in on her and her lovers, and she was in the position you describe, thoroughly enjoying herself. The guy in front of her was getting a nice blow job as well.

Of course, I was upset, and we separated for some time, but after we got back together, she still refused to use that position. It seems like she has to be extra horny to even consider it.

Now we are happily married, and as far as I know she has not cheated again, but that is a sore point in our sex life. She has a very nice butt, I mean gorgeous. The squats she does at the gym have really paid off. There is nothing like having sex doggy style because you get to see and feel the butt, so it is exciting visually as well as physically.

Ditto - she just gets on her knees and begs "Pound me Baby - I need you deep!" Of course I'm only happy to oblige

Has you wife always had a problem taking you from behind, or just since the last baby ?
Like others have said, adjusting your entry angle, going less deep and using lube may help. Doggy usually affords deeper penetration than some other positions so you may need to be more gentle.
Elsewise a doctors visit may be in order, good luck, I hope you get this solved, it's a great position and I would not like to lose it as an option in our lovemaking.

sounds like one of my dreams

There are those who purport that rear entry, aka, " doggy" is animalistic. And it does seem the majority of animals copulate in this manner, I would not however assume that humans were not designed to also use that position. Think about it, if a pair of animals were having intercourse via rear entry, they would be both be at least partially on their feet, able to scramble away from predators quickly if needed. With face to face contact, the one on the bottom would be at a disadvantage for exit. That said, doing the deed from behind allows a quicker un-coupling and exit should danger, the kids or in-laws surprise you in the moment. It HAS happened, just sayin !
So the argument that doggy is in-natural really doesn't hold any water.
I will say that using rear entry feels a bit less intimate in that you cannot easily kiss or see each other's facial expressions. So from a simply romantic aspect it might not feel as connected. Being that I as well as many other men do like the visual aspect of being behind a lovely derrière while having intercourse, there is that to think of too.