Masturbating with your partner

Contributor: Badass Badass
Has anyone tried this?
Have you done it as foreplay, or for the main event?

Do you think it brings you closer together?
01/27/2012
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Contributor: js250 js250
It definitely brings you closer together. The bond of sharing so openly something that is generally so private is pretty special. We use it as both. Sometimes foreplay and others as a main event. Depends on our moods at the time, we just see what happens.
01/27/2012
Contributor: Eliza Eliza
I agree with JS. I love masturbating with my partner, and I definitely feel like we're more open with one another because we can do that. We use it as both as well, depending on our moods and the situation. I find it a major turn on to watch my partner masturbate and he knows this, so he often uses it as a tease to get me turned on when we're first starting to fool around. We haven't talked about it a whole lot, but I know he likes doing it for me and likes watching me touch myself as well. It can be really sexy as long as you're comfortable with one another.
01/27/2012
Contributor: Badass Badass
We do this too, and sometimes it is the main event. I rather it be foreplay, and while it does bring us closer to watch each other, I prefer him inside of me, and he likes to just watch me. LOL. Maybe I just need to learn to like it.
01/27/2012
Contributor: Taylor Taylor
We do this quite a bit. I can't be on hormonal birth control for health reasons, so sometimes it's easier to do this along with some oral than to mess with condoms and such. We usually do it as the main event and I do think it's brought us closer together as well as made me more comfortable with my body.
01/27/2012
Contributor: Ghost Ghost
I make my husband masturbate in front of me all the time.
01/27/2012
Contributor: MamaDivine MamaDivine
Quote:
Originally posted by Badass
Has anyone tried this?
Have you done it as foreplay, or for the main event?

Do you think it brings you closer together?
I've done it a few times with previous partners. For some reason, with my husband.....I haven't tried it. Im kind of shy with him sexually. Its weird LOL.
01/28/2012
Contributor: MR Chickhabit MR Chickhabit
its rare, but it is nice when it happens. . .mostly she is after my dick and me playing with it alone is torture for her
01/28/2012
Contributor: Smitty Smitty
We love masturbating together...sometimes I prefer it to sex because it ensures that we'll both get off, since that doesn't always happy during sex. I also think it brings us closer together- we're a lot more comfortable with each other sexually. when someone sees you masturbate they get to witness exactly what works best for you, and then they can imitate that. plus I think watching and being watched are both insanely hot.
02/18/2012
Contributor: funny4now funny4now
I don't understand why I would masturbate if my partner is with me and if my partner is also masturbating she is obviously in the mood. Is masturbation better feeling than sex to some men and/or women?

Just a thought.
02/26/2012
Contributor: 425shark 425shark
I like it.
02/28/2012
Contributor: unfulfilled unfulfilled
I masturbate to finish things off after being intimate with him. He doesn't ever masturbate.
02/28/2012
Contributor: charletnarouh charletnarouh
I've done it for a number of reasons, sometimes because a partner asked me to, sometimes to show them something I like, sometimes because they are too tired or don't feel like having sex, or they are sick or hurt. My body can be a little fickle about orgasms sometimes so I'll take over and finish things off for myself if it's being stubborn. One of my favorite things to do is if my partner is asleep in the morning and I wake up beside them in a frisky mood, I'll start myself off and let my moans and shivers wake them so they can join in.
02/28/2012
Contributor: charletnarouh charletnarouh
Quote:
Originally posted by charletnarouh
I've done it for a number of reasons, sometimes because a partner asked me to, sometimes to show them something I like, sometimes because they are too tired or don't feel like having sex, or they are sick or hurt. My body can be a little ...
Oh, and I definitely think it's very intimate and inspires closeness.
02/28/2012
Contributor: PeaceToTheMiddleEast PeaceToTheMiddleEast
I have done this before.
02/28/2012
Contributor: Teddixox Teddixox
I loooove doing this! the only problem is I get a little fixated on my boyfriend's penis and end up giving him a blow job...he is just too tasty.
03/03/2012
Contributor: Sinfully Sinfully
I've done it. lol.
03/03/2012
Contributor: Trepier Trepier
Me and my girlfriend do it quite often during the foreplay stage.
03/06/2012
Contributor: That Guy over there That Guy over there
I masturbate in front of my wife all the time, usually a few times a week. If she's horny, we'll either have sex or I'll get her off with a vibe.
05/28/2012
Contributor: msammunition msammunition
It really turns me on, I love to watch my significant other masterbate.
05/28/2012
Contributor: daaddison8991 daaddison8991
i prefer to masterbate alone, but have done with my guy before and sometimes it has been fun
05/31/2012
Contributor: Kat. Kat.
It's a good way of showing each other how you like to be stimulated.
06/05/2012
Contributor: Sweet-Livy Sweet-Livy
Quote:
Originally posted by js250
It definitely brings you closer together. The bond of sharing so openly something that is generally so private is pretty special. We use it as both. Sometimes foreplay and others as a main event. Depends on our moods at the time, we just see what ...
YES!
03/25/2017
Contributor: RonLee RonLee
Quote:
Originally posted by msammunition
It really turns me on, I love to watch my significant other masterbate.
Yes, it does that for me too!
03/25/2017
Contributor: 20yearstogether 20yearstogether
Quote:
Originally posted by Badass
Has anyone tried this?
Have you done it as foreplay, or for the main event?

Do you think it brings you closer together?
We are planning on playing together this afternoon. It is lots of fun to watch each other get off!
07/13/2019
Contributor: Thelovelysexxto1 Thelovelysexxto1
Quote:
Originally posted by Badass
Has anyone tried this?
Have you done it as foreplay, or for the main event?

Do you think it brings you closer together?
Yes!!! This has brought me and my husband closer and it spiced up our marriage.
07/14/2019