Female vs. Male Toy Ownership

Contributor: Woman China Woman China
The majority of my toys are just for me. If I had a partner, and he was an occasional bed mate who wanted toys, I'd let him use the glass, or make him get his own.

There is no way in Hades would I use a toy at a man's house that he bought to use with various women. No matter the material.

I would be more than happy to borrow a toy from another woman who I trusted, but from a man who had toys at his house to use with other women. To me... that is just pushing my comfort limit.

Things like cuffs or nipple clamps I am not including in this, I am talking about insertable toys here.
07/31/2012
Contributor: Girly Juice Girly Juice
I'm female and most of my toys are female-oriented, though my boyfriend does use my vibrators on himself occasionally and I also own butt plugs, which are gender-neutral, of course.
08/01/2012
Contributor: Ex-prude Ex-prude
I'm generally pretty selfish about it. I bought him a Tenga Flip Hole and together we have a Mio, but that's about it. When he complains I tell him he can get his own points!
08/01/2012
Contributor: jr2012 jr2012
I buy them all for myself (female). They get used during couple sex about 5% of the time but that hardly counts!

I have never met a guy in real life who has admitted to owning any toys! That would be awesome though.
11/27/2012
Contributor: LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Quote:
Originally posted by NightKat
I've come to realize that most toy owners are female, which makes a lot of sense. However, I'm a male that owns almost all of the toys used for female playmates. I'm curious to see the breakdown for who owns the toys!
We purchased our toys together.
11/27/2012
Contributor: Arlinnae Arlinnae
my toys, my laptop, my food. Hands off
11/27/2012
Contributor: Robespierrethecat Robespierrethecat
Most of my toys are either for me, or meant to be used as a couple. Sometimes I hold onto my boyfriend's toys for him too, cause we're in a pretty committed long-term relationship.
11/27/2012
Contributor: *Camoprincess* *Camoprincess*
All my toys are bought for my needs and desires if my partner wants to add them into our sex and what then I am all for it but they aren't "our" toys they are more my toys. Most of my toys are not even couples toys anyways.
11/27/2012
Contributor: SecretKinksters SecretKinksters
We buy toys for both of us.
11/27/2012
Contributor: nsavetheworld nsavetheworld
Quote:
Originally posted by NightKat
I've come to realize that most toy owners are female, which makes a lot of sense. However, I'm a male that owns almost all of the toys used for female playmates. I'm curious to see the breakdown for who owns the toys!
my toys are just for me.
11/28/2012
Contributor: PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
We both have a pretty decent selection of toys between us. We've shopped together before, but now that I know just what my husband likes, I love surprising him with goodies!
11/28/2012
Contributor: edeneve edeneve
I don't have a male lover to play with, yet. but when I do.....
11/28/2012
Contributor: Robinhoood Robinhoood
wow....did they sign them too?
11/28/2012
Contributor: ellieprobable ellieprobable
I brought a lot of toys into the relationship and we acquire new ones together.
11/28/2012