Hot Candle Wax.....Love It!

Hot Candle Wax.....Love It!

Vnessa Vnessa
Before there was new hot oil candle waxes all you really had was the standard pillar candles to play with.

I recall our experiences playing around with our household candles, trying to make them as amazing as you either see on TV or read about in books (lol).

I had my man tied up, blind folded, candles lit (the scene always looked so freaking hot!). Teasing and tormenting. I've even had some cold champagne on standby for added sensation. Once the wax hits his skin, he'll give a hiss, indicating its probably hot as hell, so I always very quickly add some champagne to take the bite and burn away.

There is something so sexy about melting wax on skin. Then when the champagne makes it bead back up again, its pretty crazy.

I'm just wondering if anyone has used any of the oil based candles to know if they are any fun? They shouldn't be as hot and would be able to be used for massage. So, you lose the design affect that actual hardening wax will give (if that's something you like). Or, have you found any candles that burn at a better temperature for body play?

What have your experiences been.
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The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
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Originally posted by Vnessa
Before there was new hot oil candle waxes all you really had was the standard pillar candles to play with.

I recall our experiences playing around with our household candles, trying to make them as amazing as you either see on TV or read ...
I love hot wax... and I mean the regular candle type I like being burned for some reason.

Love the feeling, especially if shes on top and dripping it on me . And actually I am into being sober when it happens believe it or not.

Weird huh?
04/12/2015
Inquisitor Inquisitor
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Originally posted by The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
I love hot wax... and I mean the regular candle type I like being burned for some reason.

Love the feeling, especially if shes on top and dripping it on me . And actually I am into being sober when it happens believe it or not.

Weird huh?
No, I don't think its weird. Have either you or your wife ever played with the room temperature and make it cooler in the room as either she drips hotter candle wax on you or vice versa? I'm not saying make it a meat locker but just a few degrees cooler in your play space. You know a little warmer than goose bump territory.
04/12/2015
Vnessa Vnessa
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Originally posted by The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
I love hot wax... and I mean the regular candle type I like being burned for some reason.

Love the feeling, especially if shes on top and dripping it on me . And actually I am into being sober when it happens believe it or not.

Weird huh?
Nope--not weird at all. That's part of the thrill.

We actually only used the champagne to add to the sensation of the hot wax on the body. The cold and bubbly against the burning hot of the wax. It gave a unique little effect. Try it. Really, the only time we even drank the stuff was when I let it dribble from my mouth to his lol. And, I may have dribbled some on different areas of his body to taste. But that was all. I usually don't care for the stuff lol.
04/12/2015
Vnessa Vnessa
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Originally posted by Inquisitor
No, I don't think its weird. Have either you or your wife ever played with the room temperature and make it cooler in the room as either she drips hotter candle wax on you or vice versa? I'm not saying make it a meat locker but just a few ...
That sounds really fun. Something to try this summer when we have the AC running
04/12/2015
The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
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Originally posted by Inquisitor
No, I don't think its weird. Have either you or your wife ever played with the room temperature and make it cooler in the room as either she drips hotter candle wax on you or vice versa? I'm not saying make it a meat locker but just a few ...
Oh see I havent but im writing that one down inquisitor... We also have a deck! that would be hot! And truthfully id be down with meat locker cold.
04/12/2015
The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
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Originally posted by Vnessa
Nope--not weird at all. That's part of the thrill.

We actually only used the champagne to add to the sensation of the hot wax on the body. The cold and bubbly against the burning hot of the wax. It gave a unique little effect. Try it. ...
That is hot especially dribbling from your mouth to his.. Now im the one taking notes.
04/12/2015
AmethystQueen AmethystQueen
oooohhhh that is one thing I think I could never get into.
04/20/2015
Vnessa Vnessa
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oooohhhh that is one thing I think I could never get into.
Its definitely not something we do a lot of . More so an extra kinky little treat.

Eden has these really great little candles that melt into oils---for those whoight be curious but not wanting to get all crazy . You can turn it into a great massage.
04/21/2015
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
This is something I've been interested in - thanks for mentioning it, I'm going to try again to get my wife to try it on me.
05/04/2015
Inquisitor Inquisitor
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Originally posted by Vnessa
Its definitely not something we do a lot of . More so an extra kinky little treat.

Eden has these really great little candles that melt into oils---for those whoight be curious but not wanting to get all crazy . You can turn it into a great ...
Agreed!

Question for you Nessa, are the massage oils you and the man candy use safe/compatible to use with condoms. Being married and all, I doubt you guys still use condoms, but on the off chance you do, I'd like to know the brand of candle you enthusiasts use.
05/04/2015
Vnessa Vnessa
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Originally posted by Inquisitor
Agreed!

Question for you Nessa, are the massage oils you and the man candy use safe/compatible to use with condoms. Being married and all, I doubt you guys still use condoms, but on the off chance you do, I'd like to know the brand of ...
This is one of the sets we have used link. It says its body safe and has natural ingredients but that's about as far as it goes in detail. I would have to investigate more. Since my husband (aka man candy lol) made ultimate sacrifice for me, we no longer have to mess with forms of birth control . There's another massage candle by Donna that's vanilla and edible! That's a must try.
05/04/2015
Lvstoplay Lvstoplay
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Originally posted by Vnessa
Before there was new hot oil candle waxes all you really had was the standard pillar candles to play with.

I recall our experiences playing around with our household candles, trying to make them as amazing as you either see on TV or read ...
I haven't actually tried using candles sexually, but I burn candles constantly. It does end up often spilling on me when I tried to move them (I blow them out in the other room as my allergies don't like the smoke, though I let mine burn for several hours at a time.) I use primarily what they call 7 day candles (from my friend's site) as it saves me money in the long run. They burn a little cooler and they last much longer, which is nice since I burn them daily. It doesn't bother me at all when I end up with the wax on my hands, so ideas as to how to use the hot wax sexually could be fun.
05/04/2015
Lvstoplay Lvstoplay
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Originally posted by Vnessa
This is one of the sets we have used link. It says its body safe and has natural ingredients but that's about as far as it goes in detail. I would have to investigate more. Since my husband (aka man candy lol) made ultimate sacrifice for me, we ...
Edible candles? Is that anything like the wax candies they used to make (red lips and what not)? I hate the taste of wax so let's hope they improved on that for the edible candles.
05/04/2015
Vnessa Vnessa
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Originally posted by Lvstoplay
Edible candles? Is that anything like the wax candies they used to make (red lips and what not)? I hate the taste of wax so let's hope they improved on that for the edible candles.
LOL these are soy based. I haven't tried the edible ones yet so it's a possibility they could be a flop. Although, the Donna lickable body paint was a good flavor in vanilla so the candle wax may be ok
05/04/2015
Lvstoplay Lvstoplay
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Originally posted by Vnessa
LOL these are soy based. I haven't tried the edible ones yet so it's a possibility they could be a flop. Although, the Donna lickable body paint was a good flavor in vanilla so the candle wax may be ok
Good luck.
05/06/2015
Vagiscrumptious Vagiscrumptious
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Originally posted by Vnessa
Before there was new hot oil candle waxes all you really had was the standard pillar candles to play with.

I recall our experiences playing around with our household candles, trying to make them as amazing as you either see on TV or read ...
I've never bought like a massage candle or any of those specially made for sex (seen em in sex shops and I'm sure they've got some here. Heck I think even Lelo makes one!) But I really like the wax melts and the oil burners that are pretty popular right now.

The one we have plugs in and uses a lightbulb so no flame (big plus as fire itself makes me rather nervous and I'd be so worried about knocking a candle over or dropping it or something and curious feline is another big issue!). Anyway the wax is perfect temp in that. In fact if you stick your finger in you may still get burnt somewhat. But our warmer has this little dish on top. Wish the dish itself didn't get so hot but you can lift it off and pour from it. The wax will dry BTW. So you still get the dry wax sensation too but probably dries too fast to pour champagne (but ooh I like that idea!) Unless you pour a lot on one spot. I might be weird but I like picking off the dried wax. Comes off easy, might be even easier than with regular candles. It's a little bit more malleable than regular candle wax and will bend with your skin as and after it dries versus cracking. Don't know that you could all out massage with it but it does sort of leave a hint of oil.

Burnt my wife's breast years ago playing with an actual candle! We laugh about it now but I'm talking couldn't wear a bra the next day, bit of blister ouch burn. Oops. The wax burner/ wax melts seem a bit safer. You can get really nice heat really easy and even a bit of a burn if that's what you're after but it cools faster so you won't be blistering any skin or anything. Lots of different scents and they're reusable (well any you didn't use on your partner and yourself). Second or third burn of the wax seems to not smell as much but ha if you're using it to scent your home, save it and melt it a second time for your partner.
05/25/2015
Vnessa Vnessa
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Originally posted by Vagiscrumptious
I've never bought like a massage candle or any of those specially made for sex (seen em in sex shops and I'm sure they've got some here. Heck I think even Lelo makes one!) But I really like the wax melts and the oil burners that are ...
I know exactly what you are talking about!! I have them all through my house You're right, the temperature of the wax is a lot less intrusive but it does dry quickly. You have to act fast lol. Some of the glass dishes can get quite hot--so do be careful there for sure. I'm trying to think of an easy way to ickable up the little dish without burning so you can pour the wax....possibly try using a small pot holder? Not the sexiest but neither is burning your fingers I'm kind of liking this idea. Way to go, Mr Sorry to hear your wife experienced burns the first time around. I know that was very unpleasant.
05/26/2015
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