Sedeux please - strap-on dildo by Sportsheets - review by jaejae

When it came time for my penetration-wary partner to get their first dildo, the Sedeux Please was a perfect match. Small, with an unintimidating shape and a gorgeous purple color, the Please delivers great sensations for the beginner. It has a gentle curve and very slightly bulbous texture, making it more stimulating than a completely straight and uniform sized cock. It is best used manually but its flared base does make it harness-compatible, and we have had positive experiences using it in the cowgirl position.

This pure silicone cock is very firm and silky smooth. With a little bit of lube it just glides right in. The firmness is good since it is such a small cock, and the smooth texture is perfect for beginners and those who like an easy insertion.

There is a slight curve but no pronounced head, which my partner appreciated as a beginner. It's thicker than a single finger but thinner than two, and just over an inch longer than my longest finger, making it an ideal next step. More advanced users may find it too small/too boring, but I can't emphasize enough how great this was as a a first cock for my partner. It is not remotely realistic, another bonus. The flared base is a little bit on the small size, so while harness-compatible and anal-safe, it is slightly awkward to use manually. I've used it on my partner in a seated position and lying down while going down on them, and the small base is hard to grip and causes my hand to wear out quickly.

This toy is easy and painless to insert for beginners, and that is its greatest asset. It's also relatively inexpensive, again making it great for beginners. The slight curve is stimulating while not overwhelming. My partner's biggest complaint is that it could be longer, and I agree, as it was a big short for strap-on sex. I easily slipped out, and the only way to use it was with very short strokes, which were unsatisfying to both of us. However, with my partner on top, they could feel free to grind down hard and take the entire length. They are able to cum on top of me like that, and we both found that position very stimulating. We've also used this cock with a thigh harness, and that was VERY successful as I could get a deeper angle fucking them with my leg. The size also makes it an easy cock to give a very enthusiastic blow job on, which is definitely a bonus.
Perhaps our favorite current use of the Please is with our Outlaw Leather Syd harness. My partner will wear the Please internally while fucking me with another cock. My partner found it added internal stimulation without being intrusive. They could fuck me hard and feel it internally but didn't have to worry about it getting too deep or pokey for them. Although we have a bigger cock they like, I suspect we will continue to use the Please with the Syd.

The Please is like typical silicone toys. It can be boiled and sterilized - we wash with hot water and mild soap between uses. Never use with silicone-based lubricant! If left to its own devices, this toy will attract dust, lint and cat hair - we store ours in a large plastic container with our other silicone cocks and that helps keep the dust down, although we generally will rinse it before use as well.

You may quickly outgrow the Please, however, if you are looking to try out penetration with a cock, it's a good choice. The pure silicone means its easy to care for and body safe, and the small size and smooth shape make it a gentle starter cock. The short length means it is not great for strap-on sex, but in the cowgirl position you can have the incredibly hot experience of riding hard and fast on a cock without any worry of it being too much. My partner has since moved on to the Vixen Creations Mistress, but we will never forget the Please, and they still use it internally when we are using the Syd Harness.